A few days ago, did anyone watch the boiling night of Beijing Satellite TV?
Angelababy's collaboration with the Black Panthers on "Landless Self-Containment" was successfully released.
It also made the Black Panther band, which had been silent for many years, once again enter people's field of vision.
Since the establishment of the team, this band has been talked about in addition to the musical works, which is the emotional story.
Someone has also taken stock of "successive rock ladies".
For example, Faye Wong and Dou Wei, a combination of two immortal qi fluttering.
Zhang Qi and Wei Jia, the two have equal appearances, and for a while they did not know whether to envy Zhang Qi or Wei Jia.
But there is another "rock couple" that few people know, that is, YongMei and Luan Shu.
Wing Mei and Luan Shu are a couple who live up to their name.
One like a plum, intellectually elegant, carries a faint fragrance.
One is like a tree, growing in the soil of life and growing a root system, and spreading joy freely.
The story of Wing Mei has been written about before. (Click on the blue font below for details)
Chen Daoming "goddess", after becoming a film at the age of 49, she became middle-aged and lived her life into light
Yongmei is a Mongolian, whose real name is "Senjidema", which means fairy in Mongolian.
But Yongmei is not as conspicuous as a fairy, and in this Mongolian family, the man is the protagonist.
Fortunately, his father did not give up on this little girl, and he gave Yongmei a picture album of "Yamaguchi Baihui" and gave her an oath of "Communist Manifesto".
Because she loves poetry, she also gave her a Chinese name of "Yongmei".
After graduating from university, Yongmei first went to Shenzhen to work as a clerk, then changed careers to become a host, and finally decided to become an actor.
I just felt like I could, and I liked that state of life.
She has participated in "Where Dreams Begin", "Very Summer", "Qianlong Dynasty", and also played Nie Yinniang's mother in Hou Xiaoxian's "Assassin Nie Yinniang", played husband and wife with Zhang Jiayi in the spy drama "Cliff", and Xiao Li in "Chinese Divorce"...
In 2019, she also won the best actress at the Berlin Film Festival for "Long Time on Earth".
The story about Luan Shu is the tough life that many literary and artistic young people talk about.
Luan Shu's father was a music teacher and his mother was a writer.
His parents did not care about the cost of his education, and even smashed pots and sold iron to buy him an old German piano.
So the children of the family who came from music stepped into the rock circle and achieved the most dazzling musical memory of the 1990s.
In 1989, Luan Shu joined the Band Panther with a passion for blood.
Coincidentally, it was also the same year that Luan Shu rode a horse for the first time.
When he rushed out on horseback, he giggled and fell in love with riding.
Immediately after, he practiced equestrian skills to the National Games, which in Gao Xiaosong's words was the real "freshly dressed and angry horse boyhood".
So, how did these two people get together?
In fact, there are not many vigorous legends, more is the taste of ordinary years.
The two first met on a train from Beijing to Sichuan in 1990.
At that time, Wing Mei liked to wear a white shirt, shoulder-length curly hair, introverted personality, giving people a gentle and elegant feeling.
The first time they met, Luan Shu commented on her: "Quiet, beautiful."
More than a year later, Wing Mei's company was going to hold a rock concert in Chengdu, inviting rock bands such as Panther, Faces, and Breath.
First from the left: Luan tree
But a lot of things have changed at this meeting.
YongMei has broken up with her boyfriend.
Faye Wong left Luan Shu and turned to Dou Wei, who had also terminated his contract with the band, and Luan Shu became the new lead singer.
"I feel that Luan Shu has changed, from a handsome sunny boy, to vicissitudes, with the feeling of a man, shawl hair, very cool, and suddenly there is an electric current between the two, as if someone has given you the feeling of connecting." 」
So the two of them walked together.
That year, sitting on Luan Shu's jeep, YongMei stuck her hand out of the window and shouted, "I'm married, I have a husband!" ”
However, if you look at it from the current point of view, Yongmei's choice is not wise.
At that time, Luan Shu only had debts and horse farms, and the two people had no house and rented a one-bedroom apartment.
But YongMei said that it doesn't necessarily take a lot of money to be happy, "I think he can actually create a way of life by himself, which is very interesting and attractive to me."
No one expected that interesting life is full of twists and turns.
Around 1998, it was the low tide period of Luanshu, and the music and horse farm encountered bottlenecks.
It was hard to win the championship at the National Games and win 300,000 prizes, who thought that 300,000 would be swept away by all partners.
During that time, while Yongmei was desperately trying to make money from the drama, she comforted Luan Shu and said, "You will definitely write a song that makes me keep looping, definitely." ”
Later, Luan Shu really wrote "Gifts" and did the soundtrack of "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb 2".
But Luan Shu's career was transferred, and there was an accident on Yong Mei's side.
In 2013 and 2014, Wing Mei lost her parents one after another.
She fell into depression, insomnia, hair loss, fatness, and couldn't act anymore.
"I may be out of show business for a while."
After sending a message to her agent, she hid, disconnected from everyone, turned day and night upside down, and overeating.
This time it was Luan Shu's turn to comfort her.
He has always been by her side, and he does not talk about big reason, so he quietly accompanies her to bask in the sun, play guitar for her, and stare at the grass of the horse farm together.
When the weather is nice, he will take her out for a horse ride.
Yong Mei's heart gradually calmed down.
She began to read, read psychological, philosophical, religious works, and also began to practice yoga and re-condition the body.
It's slowly getting back on track.
When she hugged the golden rooster, Yongmei said to Luan Shu, "Thank you, the military merit medal has half of yours." ”
Of course, the two of them have also been facing a problem – no children.
At that time, when receiving the award, some people ridiculed Yongmei, 49 years old, I don't know if I can conceive a baby in the future.
There are also people who feel that not having children is a woman's regret, and women who do not have children are not worthy of marriage, and even rise to the level that having children is a woman's obligation.
In this regard, YongMei said, I have no children, this is my choice.
"For women, you can't ignore this fundamental thing physiologically. We can talk about it specifically, in-depth, multi-faceted, multi-level, multi-dimensional, to let everyone see that there are many sides to this matter, but do not label, not that women should be like this. ”
But YongMei also said that this topic cannot be discussed in depth.
It will give people an impression, or a kind of guidance - you see YongMei, 49 years old won the award, people don't want children, married very late, and lived well. It's not absolute, not everyone is. ”
Indeed, in this day and age, the concept of fertility should be more open and free, and you can choose freely, not because of the disturbance of the outside world.
Having or not having children is a personal choice, and it does not mean that having children will be happy, or that it is more free not to have children, but everyone's situation is different.
The key is that you understand what your purpose is.
As the reporter asks, "What exactly is a husband and wife?" ”
Yong Mei said: "It is a partner, in the most explosive stage of personality, neither of them obeys the other, but in the end it continues because of love." ”
Luan Shu said: "It's induction, I don't need to say it, I don't need to look at it, I know what she wants, which makes me feel very happy." ”
Both parties recognize the relationship, and treat it patiently, and use this state to manage the marriage, and there will be a good result after all.
More than 20 years ago, a company employee met a rock musician on a train.
Today, the Golden Rooster Shadow Queen and the big names of the horse farm are still happy and confident, "I and Luan Shu will definitely grow old with a white head." ”
The troubled couple of Yongmei and Luan Shu, in the marriage, grew into two husband and wife trees standing side by side, swaying and swaying in the years.
It is as if the days have become a poem, not impatient, slow, just right.
I didn't experience any big winds and waves, and I lived a tasteful life in a dull way.
When experiencing the trivial pains of life, you can still have lasting feelings for each other and maintain your love for life.
The most romantic thing in the world is probably the same.
As the saying goes, the best love is not to torture each other in the name of love, or to drag each other down, but to accompany each other with your heart and become each other's hope.
It starts with two people falling in love and working together for a long time.
A good marriage is the mutual healing of two people, may you have lasting energy to heal yourself, and may everyone be happier and happier in the marriage of healing each other.
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