At the end of a busy day of work, we began to stroll on the way home, looked at our watches, it was half past five, and happened to see school buses passing by, it turned out that they had not yet arrived home...
Looking at the primary school students who got off the school bus one by one and had a bright smile on their faces, I couldn't help but think back to my childhood, at that time I didn't seem to have any academic pressure, probably because of the reasons in the countryside, so the academic competition was not so big, every day was happy to go to school, happy to go home, jumping leather bands and kicking shuttlecocks with my friends between classes...
Today's children are naturally happy, but at the same time tired. My sister's children are now in fifth grade, waking up at six o'clock every morning and arriving home around six o'clock in the evening. Although every day when it was difficult to get up, he would shout "I don't want to go to school", but obediently carried a big school bag to school.
I once asked her, "Are you tired of going to school?" She said: "I just hate exams, and I am very happy to learn every day."
Looking at a small adult carrying a heavy school bag every day, facing a test again and again, perhaps parents will be very anxious about their children's grades, but what I want to say is that the children themselves are also working hard, they are in their youth, but they still insist on learning, exams, and various art class tutoring day after day, they are insisting! Work hard!
With the introduction of the double reduction policy, parents are confused: should their children continue to participate in tutoring classes after school, or let them have more free time?
Should children grow up freely and happily? Or should we work hard and carry the weight forward? In fact, the core of these problems lies in the future of children. Both parents and teachers hope that their children and students can have a better future. Learning can change people's destiny, but it should be studied in moderation, not mechanical learning in order to cope with exams, such learning is painful and heavy.
I think that for education, children should learn in happiness, so that children can truly experience the joy of mastering knowledge in learning, rather than blindly instilling knowledge. Therefore, the author believes that children should learn and grow up in happiness.
Perhaps, most parents focus more on how to improve their children's academic performance, but forget to care about their children and ignore their own ideas.
They are young and have too many small ideas and small ideas of their own, and they are cute. For parents, it is best to calm down and communicate with their children on an equal footing to understand what their children want to do! What kind of person you want to be! Let the child become the master of learning, let the child realize that learning is learning for themselves.
So, as the flowers of the motherland, what exactly do children want? What kind of person do you want to be? Maybe it's something worth thinking about!
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