People who cheat in marriage don't deserve sympathy, and if there's no sense of responsibility, please don't enter into the marriage, scourge men who live their lives down-to-earth, and children born out of thin air.
In the recent hit TV series "The Sea of Stars", Liang Xiaoyan, who was forced to leave in derailment, exposed the selfishness and hypocrisy of human nature when she told her daughter that she still had a mother and that she was still a happy child. Nearly two hundred years ago, the literary image of Emma created by the French writer Flaubert in his novel "Madame Bovary" is the same as Liang Xiaoyan, and there is a wordless view of love. The so-called love they pursue in marriage is tantamount to licking blood at the tip of the knife, and eventually ruining the childhood of the family and children who could have prospered, and burying their lives.
Liang Xiaoyan and Madame Bovary, both look down on their husbands who live a down-to-earth life, and pursue the emotional value of cheap and irresponsible extramarital affairs.
Liang Xiaoyan's husband, Jian Dadao, runs a tailor shop, works hard to make money, plans the future of family development, takes the initiative to share housework, takes good care of Liang Xiaoyan in life, and is a good man who lives a down-to-earth life. Probably because the favored people have no fear, Liang Xiaoyan, who has money to spend and some people hurt, thinks that he married Jian Dadao just to repay the favor, and did not experience the taste of love when he was young, but he wanted to taste it in marriage. She thinks that Jian Dadao is not romantic, and a portrait of Zhou Nan can make her heart blossom, but she does not know that the romantic Zhou Nan people will not have to marry her body home. Why not Madame Bovary? Peasant girls received a little new education at girls' schools, and they felt that they had taste and emotion, and they could not look down on Charles, a village doctor who ate professionally, and had legendary love dreams. The object of her marital infidelity is nothing more than using her as a tool for making a scene. In order to maintain the cost of stealing, Madame Bovary fell step by step, became the object of exploitation by loan sharks, accumulated debts, and eventually went nowhere and committed suicide by poisoning. Liang Xiaoyan and Madame Bovary both died in the end, and when they died, their cheating partners did not show their faces where they had any love.
Liang Xiaoyan and Mrs. Bovary both believe that their husband's spiritual realm does not match their own, so is the spiritual life they pursue really elegant? I don't think so. In fact, the spiritual life pursued by both is, in the final analysis, just consumption with a little tone. The flowers they like are the same as those who are far away, what kind of flowers are those men who live a solid life, spend some money and time can't get? It's just that they choose to carry the burden on their families. Two women with a deformed view of love, did not break the jar into the second marriage and were tortured, did not have to be beaten by all kinds of people in society in order to support their families, and it was not easy for them to learn to cherish.
Therefore, Liang Xiaoyan in life, don't bury the future of yourself and your family for your deformed love, be down-to-earth, and work hard to get real happiness.