A few days ago, a video circulated on the Internet: Crazy English founder domestic violence daughter, the child was beaten, crying tragically. This video immediately caused a hot discussion among netizens: he stopped beating his wife and hit his children again.
I also watched this video, watched it a few times, listened to it a few times. To tell the truth, Li Yang's roaring voice, I was scared when I listened, I didn't know what kind of mood the children present experienced being yelled at or even pushed by their own biological father. For a teenage girl, it must be very unpleasant.
Li Yang and daughter
The video may have been taken by Li Yang's daughter, uploaded by their mother Kim, who publicly accused Li Yang of beating her daughter on Weibo. Li Yang is in the midst of a public opinion storm, and everyone is waiting for him to deal with this "domestic violence".
On the last night of August, that is, at 8 o'clock last night, Li Yang's lawyer Zhou Zhaocheng, live-streamed Li Yang's sister and asked her to restore the day's events. More than 200,000 people were watching the livestream, and I listened to the key details inside.
To sum up, the conflict between Li Yang and his daughter is mainly due to three reasons:
1. The daughter's living habits are not good, and the concept of room and personal hygiene is lacking
Li Yang's daughter came to China for 1 year and 8 months, and her personal habits were not very good, so as a father and aunt, they taught her to wipe the floor, fold clothes and so on in order to let her develop good living habits.
2. The daughter has signs of early love, and Li Yang is a little anxious
Daughters sometimes return late or even do not come home, Li Yang is worried that she has such a problem as early love, he has always hoped to raise his daughter into an excellent child, and now there will be some worries. Children in adolescence are not easy to manage.
3. The daughter does not understand politeness
On the day of the "domestic violence" incident, a teacher went to Li Yang's home to understand the child's learning situation, and after shouting several times to let her sit down, the child was still a little reluctant. So Li Yang was angry and loudly asked her to sit down.
The above 3 points were said by Li Yang's sister when the lawyer connected with her. She said the incident occurred on July 2, because the children returned to her mother in the United States on August 6 because of the epidemic, passports, visas and other issues, and the video was posted online on August 29.
Indeed, Li Yang can be heard in the video saying "sit down" and "what happened?" Such words.
Li Yang is tutoring her daughter with her homework
Li Yang's sister boiled it down to one sentence: he had no domestic violence, and the child was difficult to manage during adolescence.
The vast majority of people in the comments do not seem to believe his sister's statement, thinking that Li Yang's former domestic violence ex-wife and now domestic violence against his daughter exists; some people say that it is too normal to yell at children as parents, when we were young, we were often beaten.
Lawyer Zhou Zhaocheng said that he had met with Li Yang and asked Li Yang many times whether he had done anything to his daughter, and what Li Yang said specifically, but Lawyer Zhou did not say it. Lawyer Zhou said that hitting people is to talk about evidence, so multi-party investigation and multi-party evidence collection can make conclusions about things.
This time to connect Li Yang's sister, restore some of the situation on the day, perhaps netizens themselves can make some judgments.
Adolescent children are difficult to manage, and this is a century of problems. How many families' children have experienced periods of well-behaved, unreasonable, and rebellious in the process of growing up. Parents, how to guide, how to get along with children, psychologists and educators, have given a lot of methods.
Li Yang accompanied his daughter shopping
There are very few parents who can really do it without getting angry or angry.
Maybe in this world now, there are many people running for their livelihoods, the pressure from work and life is too great, and not many people are willing to really lean down and listen to the real psychological needs of children. They will continue to educate the next generation the way their parents treated them.
If their parents are kind and enlightened, then they must accompany their children to grow up with loving and encouraging eyes; if their parents are indifferent and do not care about the growth of the next generation, then they may also ignore their children; if their parents use curses and fists to maintain their authority, then unfortunately, their children will also grow up in tears and bruises.
In the past, Li Yang said in an interview that it is very common for parents to fight, and which parents do not fight. Perhaps, he grew up in such an environment.
Li Yang has posted an open letter online stating that his ex-wife "threw" her daughter in Beijing, and that she still comforts her children and that her mother loves them deeply. In the two years that his children have lived in China, he has always let them accept the influence of Chinese culture and give them the best love.
He said: Dad's education method is too harsh, causing you harm, And Dad officially apologizes to you.
Perhaps, we will investigate whether Li Yang has hit the child or not, which is no longer important. The child is now back in the United States, back to the mother, and the problem of how to get along with the adolescent child will also be encountered by the mother.
I hope that children in adolescence can be treated kindly by their parents and guided well. What do you think? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.