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"Waste"! Song Dandan's disapproval of his son Batuu is actually a "hatred" for his biological father.

Last name: Batuu

Real name: Inbatu

Age: 26 (2016)

Date of birth: March, 20 1990

Introduction: Son of Song Dandan and Yingda, after his parents divorced in early 1997, batu's custody belonged to his mother, Song Dandan.

Born in Beijing, Batuu Chinese mainland film and television actor. In 2009, he starred in his first TV series "The War of the Old Cow Family", thus officially entering the show business circle.

"Waste"! Song Dandan's disapproval of his son Batuu is actually a "hatred" for his biological father.

The second season of Oriental Satellite TV's large-scale comedy program "Smiling Proud of the Jianghu" will officially return. In the first program, Lu Aiyan, a "prospective college student" contestant who had just graduated from high school, not only amused the audience with a new "art comedy", but also was directly called "son" by Song Dandan.

"Waste"! Song Dandan's disapproval of his son Batuu is actually a "hatred" for his biological father.

Hello, Song Dandan seems to have only one son, called Batuu. Did batu get angry when he heard that it was still a "waste"?

"Waste"! Song Dandan's disapproval of his son Batuu is actually a "hatred" for his biological father.

Surely, even if Batuu does not say it, but his heart is also very uncomfortable, in front of the public by his own mother laughed at himself as a waste, but also in front of the national audience was accused of incompetence, this is changed who will be very angry, but Batuu just smiled bitterly to show his helplessness.

Could it be that Song Dandan didn't love his son, no? Song Dandan loves Batu, but chooses the wrong way of education. Batuu is also very industrious and excellent, but Song Dandan's mouth is beaten to death and does not admit it, nor does he praise him for half a sentence, which is a common disease of many parents educating their children. In fact, not only Song Dandan, many Chinese parents believe that such a percussive education can promote the growth of their children, but they do not know that this kind of education in the name of love is undesirable, and may even hinder the inner growth of children.

Children who grow up in such a family are often accompanied by timidity and inferiority, in fact, they want their parents to boast about themselves, but this has become their heart disease. This growing environment is not fair to them, and they have not done anything wrong. As Zheng Yuanjie wrote in the work "Father and Son", the fathers who scold children are not men, they are cowards, and the children are born by you, if you are not satisfied, beat yourself.

Many parents of the older generation like to use this kind of repressive education to establish their authority in front of their children and use such language to achieve their own goals. After such education, the authority is established and the purpose is achieved, but at the same time, it also causes indelible harm to the child. In fact, speaking well is a compulsory lesson for parents, and it is most correct to educate children in the way of encouragement and comfort.

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