Author - Skull Teacher
#Celebrity Interpretation ##在学校被孤立了怎么办 #
"Celebrity Boyhood"
As you suspect, it is not Sanmao in "Sanmao Wandering", she is a Taiwanese female writer Sanmao who confesses to being extremely true and pure.
"The power of example is infinite"
Sanmao, 12 and a half years old, with little courage, entered Taipei Provincial No. 1 Girls' High School with a nervous mood. What frightened her was that unlike the whole class punishment of the elementary school teacher, it was a hurt to her self-esteem.
After the brilliant Sanmao went to middle school, I am afraid that it was the influence of psychological factors, her math scores fell all the way, the best test could not be 50 points, but other homework is not bad, Chinese, English, geography are the three courses she is good at.
After entering the second year of junior high school, due to poor mathematics, the teacher's eyes on him in class were very cold, which made the sensitive Sanmao unbearable. She was a self-respecting and somewhat neurotic girl, and because of the cold gaze of the math teacher, he was dizzy every time he took math class and couldn't listen to anything. "Because I feel like his eyes are like knives that will fly and kill me at any moment."
Despite this, Sanmao still found a trick, and every time the teacher came up with a small test question, he would arrange a few questions behind the textbook and ask the students to do it. Sanmao's memory is 10 points outstanding, so she memorizes mathematical problems every day, and can memorize more than 10 algebra problems in one night without effort. So at that time, she scored 6 consecutive 100 points in class. Slowly it caught the attention of the math teacher.
One day, the math teacher took advantage of the break in class time. After sampling the exam questions of the third grade of Sanmao Junior High School, I only heard the teacher say: "Chen Ping (Sanmao's original name), you sit here, after 10 minutes of class, you calculate these exercises." Sanmao froze and sat for 10 minutes, she said to the teacher. "I won't do it, teacher, I'm sorry. The teacher waved his hand and told him to go back to the classroom.
What happened later was the guide that allowed Sanmao to be imprisoned for seven years.
At the beginning of the class, the teacher said in front of the whole class: "There is a classmate in our class who likes to eat duck eggs the most, and today the teacher wants to invite him to eat two more." Then he called Sanmao to the front, at the podium. Two circles were drawn in chalk on the ground as "dungeons". Let Sanmao stand in the middle of the "dungeon", face the teacher, and insultingly draw a circle on his eyes...
A few years later, Sanmao can still be sore together, the scene at that time, she once told this -
"The teacher took the brush and dipped it into the ink, dipped it full, and the full brush was fat, and then began to draw on my eyes, drawing a large circle around my eyes, drawing like a panda, while smiling and saying to me, 'Don't be afraid, it doesn't hurt or itch at all, it's just cool.'" The ink was black, tears slid down my cheeks, I squeezed my mouth tightly, the black ink slid into the corners of my mouth, and the teacher said to me again, 'You turn around and show it to the whole class.' ’”
"The teacher waited for the students to laugh enough and told me to stand in the corner of the classroom until the end of the class, so I stood in the corner of the classroom with a face full of black ink, and I wanted to wait for the class to go to the bathroom to wash my face."
"But when the class was over, the teacher said to me, 'Don't go, you go out of the hallway, go around the playground and come back to the classroom.'" I obediently followed the teacher's words around the big playground for a week before returning to my seat, next door a classmate surnamed Yang pulled me to the bathroom, because there was no soap, I could only splash it with water on my face, I couldn't wash it at all, my face was gray, I wiped it with my skirt before going back to class. ”
"I didn't shed a tear after this happened, nor did I tell my parents that I had been so much mentally stimulated and insulted at school, and I was willing to do it, but what he gave me was a humiliation that I had never suffered in my life, and I lay in bed at night and cried desperately, but the next day I went to class as usual, and the after-effects of this incident were revealed until the third day."
Indeed, the after-effects that were revealed were terrible. Three days later, in the morning, Sanmao went to school as usual, and when he walked to the corridor and saw his classroom, he immediately fainted and fell to the ground. Immediately after the serious psychological obstacle became more and more serious, I tied the laces of my left foot, and when I remembered the laces of my right foot, I thought that I was going to school, and I immediately passed out unconscious. This is a mental illness, the patient's organs are all closed, do not want to touch the outside world again, only feel that shrinking in their own world is the safest.
In order to imprison himself, Sanmao added iron windows to the window, and the door was also locked, and when he was happy, he opened them, and when he was unhappy, he lifted them up. During that time, the hearts of his beloved parents hurt, and they found countless psychologists for her to treat her, but they could not untie the knot of herself as a "bad boy" in her heart. It was almost at the age of 19 that Sanmao slowly re-entered into contact with this society, and the price of these 7 years of captivity was the bottle of ink and a brush.
Fortunately, Sanmao's parents gave him warmth and love, and some teachers and friends gave her friendship and confidence. Although he and she suffered from autism and begged her to stay at home, she did not really leave home one step at a time, and one day a week she went out to paint oil with Gu Fusheng. Teacher Gu said to her: "The paintings you draw are not very good, but I read your articles and think you have a little talent for writing articles. The teacher gave him an address, and later Sanmao found a girl who had just graduated from National Taiwan University, Chen Xiumei. Chen Xiumei is now the famous Taiwanese writer Chen Ruoxi. With Chen's help, Sanmao finally entered the Cultural Academy, and that day Sanmao could not suppress it, he cried and laughed and was nervous, and he finally walked out of the small room where he was imprisoned and started a new life.
Until now, Sanmao thought that the math teacher was the first person to change his fate, and she was now very grateful to him, if it were not for his corporal punishment he would not have embarked on the road of literature, he also dared to accept the bleak seven years, seven years she did not know how many books she read, laid a solid and strange foundation for her later life and writing.
This is the story of Sanmao.
The author has this to say:
As a practitioner of education work, I have a deeper thinking, as a people's teacher, how should you treat students in the teaching process.
At present, the Education Bureau clearly stipulates that corporal punishment is prohibited, and various localities are also emphasizing its implementation, but the actual situation is not ideal.
From a humanistic point of view, everyone is equal, that is, teachers and students communicate equally, but few people do it, which is affected by many aspects.
At present, test-taking education has not been completely reformed, and parents, teachers, and schools have all achieved results. Even if you know that reading is not the only way out, but for the sake of face, this is what Chinese has been asking for most for thousands of years, and it does not pressure the child how to produce results.
Not all students are excellent children, 100 children have 100 looks, and it is difficult for naughty children to be experienced by non-educators.
Like students, teachers are not perfect, 100 teachers have 100 different teaching styles, traditional Chinese thinking: filial piety under the stick. Nor is this a method.
For many reasons, the most important thing is to have patience, and I think "patience" is really the most important skill you should have to pull into a relationship between you and your students.
The road of teachers is still long
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