Du Xudong, the famous "evil professional household", a national first-class actor, Hebei Renqiu, graduated from the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts, the rank of a full division, the rank of naval colonel, is a veteran with 36 years of military experience.
Actor Du Xudong
Since the 1980s, Du Xudong has starred in film and television works such as: "There is something to say", "The Gate of the Great Mansion", "The Divine Doctor Xi Laile", "Honghu Red Guard", "Little Station Wind and Cloud", "Rules Before Divorce", "Romance of the New Three Kingdoms", "Family with Children" and so on.
Whether it is the rogue Han Rongfa in "The Gate of the Big Mansion", the bad drug dealer Meng Qinghe in "Divine Doctor Xi Laile", or the migrant worker who shouts "An Hong, I think you can't sleep" in "Jade Fragment"... Du Xudong played a large number of bad people, evil people and villains on the screen.
But outside the play, Du Xudong is a very good person. He shed tears for his daughter's marriage many times, carefully cared for his mother-in-law who suffered from Alzheimer's disease, and regarded his stepmother as a mother-in-law, like a good husband, a good father, and a good son.
When he was young, Du Xudong really made it difficult to find a daughter-in-law. Relatives and friends introduced a lot, basically people think he is ugly.
Du Xudong stills
Although he is ugly, Du Xudong has high requirements for his other half: beautiful, virtuous, and tall. In his words, it is for the sake of the next generation to improve the genes of the old Du family.
One day, someone else introduced him to a student of Hebei Medical University named Liu Yufeng, who was good looking and had a good personality. However, he looked like this, and he was repeatedly frustrated, and Du Xudong thought that people would definitely not want to.
You should know that Liu Fengyu was born in Beijing, not only is he beautiful, his father is also the director of Beijing Electric Power Hospital, and his family conditions are very good.
At this time, someone gave Du Xudong an idea, let him put on the military uniform, and then lined the military uniform higher, and then put on the big brimmed hat, sitting on the sofa and not standing up, so that he could not see the height.
Du Xudong looked like he was wearing a military uniform
That day arranged a blind date, from Liu Yufeng came in to the end, Du Xudong has been sitting upright, did not see the slightest flaw, the two chatted very speculatively.
In this way, in 1983, the 27-year-old Du Xudong and Liu Fengyu married.
After marriage, Du Xudong is very caring for his wife and family, his wife has revealed that his mother suffers from Alzheimer's disease, Du Xudong is often busy before and after helping to take care of it, once the old man pulled a body of stool on him, Du Xudong also has no complaints, so that Liu Fengyu is very moved.
In 1985, Du Xudong's daughter Du Jinjing was born in Beijing Hai Hospital.
Before the couple could be happy, they found that their daughter's two little feet were turned outward, and the doctor couldn't figure out whether it was a deformity.
In front of his wife, Du Xudong did not dare to show his concern. When I was discharged from the hospital, I walked on the way home, and with each step, my heart was particularly heavy.
That night, it was snowing heavily in Beijing, and Du Xudong in the snow felt love and a trace of sadness in his heart, and he said to himself over and over again: If my daughter's feet are really deformed, I will do my best to cure it!
Du Xudong's family of three
It is gratifying that under the careful observation and care of Du Xudong and his wife, Du Jinjing's two little feet no longer turned out after more than 20 days.
That day, when the doctor at the hospital clearly told him that the child's foot was not deformed, Du Xudong was so happy that he picked up his daughter and kissed her again, and tears of joy flowed from his eyes. This is also the first time that Du Xudong has shed tears for his daughter.
Du Xudong and daughter Du Jinjing
In 2012, daughter Du Jinjing got married. But in less than two years, the couple quarreled continuously due to differences in temperament and life concepts, and finally chose divorce. Du Jinjing said to his parents with tears: "I am not suitable for him, we must be separated." ”
At that time, Du Xudong was filming outside, and when he heard the news, his blood pressure suddenly came up and he was almost hospitalized, but he still tried to persuade the two to reunite, but in the end it did not help.
In the autumn of 2014, Du Jinjing chose to divorce after several months of pregnancy. Watching his daughter go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with a big belly to go through divorce procedures, Du Xudong was heartbroken and broke into tears.
After the daughter moved back to her mother's house, Du Xudong asked, "What about the baby in the belly?" The daughter said with tears: "The child is innocent, I want to give birth to the baby." ”
Without a son-in-law to take care of her daughter, Du Xudong and his wife took care of their pregnant daughter, accompanied her for a fetal examination, and sent her to the hospital to give birth. When the daughter gave birth, after seeing the other husbands busy, the daughter was lying alone in the delivery room, and Du Xudong once again shed tears.
Finally, Du Jinjing gave birth to a little princess in the hospital. Until her daughter was 2 years old, Du Jinjing's ex-husband did not show up.
Perhaps because the failed marriage hurt him too much, Du Jinjing decided to raise his daughter alone and never get married again.
Du Xudong patiently advised his daughter: "Marriage is still much happier, but you have not met the right person." If you have been a single mother all your life, why should I have a bad relationship with your mother? ”
With the encouragement and explanation of his father, Du Jinjing chose to remarry in 2017.
At the wedding, he handed over his daughter's hand to his future son-in-law and said emotionally: "Jin Jing has been emotionally hurt, and I hope you will treat her kindly." This sentence contains the deepest love of a father for his daughter.
So far, Du Jinjing has been married for more than four years, and his married life is very happy.
The daughter and her husband are kind and loving, and the family of three is warm and harmonious, and Du Xudong completely put his mind at ease.
However, whenever he remembered that his daughter had gone to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce with a big belly, Du Xudong's eyes would still be filled with tears. This is a father's indelible heartache!
In 1999, Du Xudong's mother died, and his father seemed very lonely and lonely, often sullen.
In order to make his father happy, Du Xudong had the idea of finding another wife for his father.
According to people, a woman named Wu Xinju felt good to everyone, and her father was also very satisfied. Wu Xinju is 57 years old, 13 years older than Du Xudong.
Du Xudong
Although they all felt good, the sister and brother still disagreed, thinking that Wu Xinju had come with the old man's money. In fact, Wu Xinju is very kind and virtuous, and over time, the misunderstanding has become deeper and deeper, and the family has a gap in life.
The sister and brother would give money to the elderly every month, but only one at a time, and instructed the father not to give it to the stepmother.
After Du Xudong learned of this, he severely criticized his sister and brother, and promised his stepmother: "I can understand you, in case one day my father leaves early, you are still our mother, and we will treat you like this." ”
In 2012, Du Xudong's father died first.
After the death of the old man, Du Xudong did not break his word, continued to treat his stepmother as his own mother, not only visited his stepmother every month to give money, but also changed a large house of 120 square meters for his stepmother.
Wu Xinju said: "I am not related to Xudong by blood, but he treats me like a biological mother, and I feel that I am ashamed." ”
But Du Xudong said: "My father is alive, you take care of it yourself, and in 12 years we have already become a family."
The bad guys on the screen are exhausted, and the real good guys in life are Du Xudong, a good husband, a good father, and a good son.