Not all mothers are loving mothers, my mothers are "tiger mothers". Unfortunately, the "Tiger Mother" did not cultivate a tiger girl, but only got a daughter who only wanted to be stable and mediocre in the world.
When I was a child, when I didn't pay attention to listening to the lecture in class, I would see a pair of stern eyes outside the window.
When I peek at the storybook without homework, I always have to prop up my ears to hear if my mother has come to the door.
After the exam, the most frightening thing was that she asked me to take out the exam paper and show her the score.
When I was left to do housework, I was most afraid that she would suddenly check the cleanliness and hygiene to see if there was any trouble, whether there was a sneak peek.
Playing crazy with her classmates is afraid that she will find out that the hide-and-seek drama is staged all day long.
In addition to work, she also has to cook and wash clothes, but also manage our sisters to study, and she also has to play hide-and-seek with us day after day, fighting wits and courage.
I used to think she was annoying and particularly scary. Now suddenly realized that she must be very tired, very helpless, very sad. Fortunately, later, my college entrance examination results were OK, and the last exam (college entrance examination) was a small counterattack, and I went to a local university.
With a job, with a family, with a child, with the burden of making money to support a family, with age, with experience, with sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty but pale years, with tutoring homework chicken flying dog jumping heart plug days, with the monthly salary how to "reasonable arrangement" is not enough to spend the experience, with racking their brains to start a business to pursue wealth freedom restlessness ... Although the days are still the original days, slowly, but found that the mother is old, the hair is white, the legs and feet are not good, love to forget things, no longer spur us to let us progress, but let us eat, drink and have fun and live a good life.
Mom became a kind old lady with a silver hair, and she wanted us to come home often, eat the meals she cooked, talk to her, play poker with her, or accompany her around the park when the weather was nice, or take them out on a tour (although this opportunity was rare, it was obvious that she was particularly eager). Listen to her nagging about what's uncomfortable, let's accompany her to the hospital to see. Let's bring her some pickles from home, let's go to the field and pick sweet potato leaves and sesame leaves for her, and cook us noodles. Let's give her some locust flowers from the tree, elm money, and steam rice for us to eat.
Where is the shadow of "Tiger Mother"? Just an ordinary old lady who is attached to and dependent on her children, and her heart is full of children.
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