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Why do you hate me and stay in my house?
If you don't love me, why marry me and have children?
This sentence is the "cone heart" of Frank and Aibo's marriage in the movie "Revolutionary Road" when the marriage between frank and Epoch is on the verge of breaking.
The story of the couple of Amber and Frank appropriately reflects the lives, contradictions, choices, affairs, and boredom of most couples in real life...
Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet portray frank and Love, the psychological changes and demeanors of the two characters, which make people feel empathy.
Many unmarried netizens, after watching "Revolutionary Road", seem to have a fear of marriage, because frank and Aibo's marriage is a true portrayal of most marriages in reality.
As we all know, Frank and Amber's marriage is a failure and a heartache, but it is such a marriage story that is worth learning.
When Aibo and Frank first met, Frank was a talkative young man with lofty ideals, and Aibo was a future star who aspired to become an actor. They met at a party and then entered the halls of marriage
After getting married, Frank worked a job he didn't like, and Amber became a full-time wife after failing a stage performance. Over time, Aibo felt bored and empty for this dull and boring life.
One day, Frank's whim gives Amber hope for life, and Frank tells Amber that he is ready to quit his job and move his family to Paris. Aibo is very happy about her current life, because she has long wanted to change her lifestyle.
However, Frank was promoted by his superiors because he proposed the "production scheduling" plan, and the remuneration increased several times, and the future was bright, of course, Frank's heart was shaken.
After some thought, Frank decided to cancel the migration plan, and when Amber learned about it, he thought that Frank was cowardly and did not have the courage to pursue the life he liked, and Amber said to Frank: "If you don't try, you will always fail."
However, AiBo did not think that the house and car were bought by Frank who spent 10 hours a day doing a job he did not like. For Frank, it's not that he doesn't have the courage to pursue a better life, it's that he sees reality.
At first, Frank decided to resign when faced with the rich conditions of his boss, but his heart was extremely eager to stay and develop, but Aibo did not agree; so Frank deliberately made Aibo pregnant, in order to achieve the purpose of convincing Aibo to stay.
However, aibo, who has already had enough of the boring life, can not obey, so Aibo decides to abandon the fetus in her belly. Epbo's marriage to Frank is broken, also from the moment Frank deliberately made her pregnant, a couple who were originally harmonious and sweet life quarreled endlessly, until Ebo died and Frank raised the child alone.
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From Frank's perspective
Frank does not want to pursue his ideal life, but the reality is often cruel, and the future life is unpredictable; if Frank goes to Paris, it means that he has to find a new job and start from the bottom. However, he is 30 years old and has 2 children, how dare he let go and pursue the life he likes.
Put yourself in the perspective of Aibo
Aibo is an idealist, and in her eyes Frank has a clever mind and should not be bound by children and current life. But most of the reasons are that Aibo herself can't stand the dull life, except that the children are housework, she wants to change her lifestyle for herself, so she no longer loves Frank, and even hates Frank.
Tell us about my views
Frank didn't do his duty as a husband, and didn't enlighten and comfort Him when Heber was tired of his children and housework every day. And Ai Bo does not understand that life after marriage must be bland and tedious, and after marriage, it means who does housework, who manages children, who manages money... Marriage is as simple as this: "You understand my hardships, I understand your difficulties" – but how many people can understand? How many people can live a dull life over and over again until the end of their lives?
However, the ideal pursued by Ai Bo is worth emulating, because our life is like a white colt crossing the gap, how can we not look at the life that our hearts yearn for? That's exactly what I think Frank and Amber, the only value worth looking at in this failed marriage. However, the pursuit of ideals should be based on their own situation, if you have become a mother/father, you should give up your ideals and consider for your children, if you do not have any worries, then please be bold to pursue the ideal.
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Leaving aside the above arguments, I still have this view of the marriage story in The Revolutionary Road
Most of the reasons why Frank and Aibo's marriage is broken is that they have different views on life, and from the above remarks, it can be seen that Frank is a realist and Aibo is an idealist. Although the couple's current life is enough to envy others, Aibo is not satisfied with the current life, and she longs for a better married life.
However, Ai Bo did not think that the perfect marriage or love did not exist, and if it did, then it must be a short marriage/love - just like the story in these two movies
Titanic, also co-starring Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet in 1998, gives us a tragic and beautiful love story. Jack, a country boy, only had the opportunity to meet Ruth, a noble woman who had fallen into the house because he gambled with a friend and won a ticket to the Titanic.
For Jack, winning the Titanic ticket was the luckiest thing of his life, even if he lost his precious life in the end to keep Ruth alive, he never regretted it. Although Ruth did not go with Jack, Jack remained in her heart until the two sideburns were white and returned to the Titanic shipwreck, and Ruth still remembered the story of what happened here with Jack.
Jack and Ruth went from the first time they met to the unrepentant love of each other, and they both knew in their hearts that they could not be together at all. First of all, Jack is poor and white, ruth's mission is to follow her mother's orders to marry the rich billy, in order to achieve the purpose of reviving the family. But Ruth eventually fell in love with Jack at all costs, as she wished.
The 1980 classic romantic-style film 70 Years Back in Time and Titanic have the same magic: Richard hypnotizes himself back to 1912 and quickly becomes a lover with Alice. Alice is also attracted to Richard, and no matter how Much Alice's assistant tries to stop it, the man who could change her life, Richard, with her, will not help.
After Richard and Alice were together, the two talked about the future, and Richard's plays; just as the cheers continued, something unfortunate happened. Richard accidentally sees the coin he brought from 1971, time and space are distorted, and Richard instantly returns to 1971. Richard was so distraught that he tried to hypnotize himself back in 1912.
However, Richard could not go back to 1912, so Alice died alone, and Richard died of longing and eventually died in the hotel and went to heaven to meet Alice.
The "love" expressed in "Titanic" and "70 Years Back in Time" is not only fascinating, but also regrettable, because many of us hope to get such a beautiful love, without any impurities of life involved, only "love" fills each other's souls.
Langston Hughes once said, "You are a rose of mine, and you will never return after the height of summer" – this describes a short-lived love.
The reason why short-lived love is beautiful is because it is too late to add flaws to love: when in love, there is only romance and sweetness, and after marriage, it means that sweetness and romance disappear, followed by real life, which is simply "chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea".
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