#王栎鑫离婚 #
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Seeing that "Wang Quexin's divorce" was on the hot search really startled me, because in my impression, the two of them were very affectionate, how suddenly they divorced without warning.
Wang Quexin and Wu Yating, who thought that "early marriage at a young age", could grow old with their heads in vain, but they expected that their marriage would break up so early, which was really regrettable.
Wang Quexin called Wu Yating a dear roommate, saying:
"It's a shame I won't be able to show you my sexy purr again in the future." You've worked hard all these years! You are a competent good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter. Thank you for bringing light to my life! Thank you for letting me have two of the cutest babies in the world! Together we will continue to love them and protect them! But this time, I got off the bus first, the previous journey is my most precious memory, thank you for your company! Hope you have wonderful scenery along the way! In the future, if you are happy and happy, I will send my heartfelt blessings! If you have any trouble, I will still be your best friend standing behind you! ”
I always feel that Wang Quexin's post is still in love with Wu Yating, even if it is divorced, but the feelings between the two people will not be so easy to disperse. In particular, Wang Quexin's sentence "If you have any trouble, I will still be your best friend standing behind you", this sentence is particularly touching.
Compared with Wang Quexin's long text, Wu Yating's post is relatively simple, with only one sentence: "Choosing a different way to get along may be our best ending." Be well with each other and wish you happiness! ”
No one knows why they suddenly divorced? But for them, perhaps it's the best outcome.
In fact, there have long been rumors that Wang Quexin and Wu Yating divorced, because their Weibo was always @ come @ go, but since the beginning of this year, the frequency of interaction between the two people has become lower and lower.
If the Weibo interaction between two people has always been quite frequent, suddenly there must be something happening.
Sure enough, there was something wrong with their relationship. The last interaction between Wu Yating and Wang Quexin was in March this year, and the interaction between Wang Quexin and Wu Yating was in July this year.
Wang Quexin is a happy male voice who married earlier, and I said that he was "married young and early" because he married Wu Yating at the age of 26. In February 2015, Wang Lixin and Wu Yating held a sweet wedding, and their daughter was born in November of the same year; in August 2017, their son was born. Every moment of happiness in their affection is recorded on each other's microblogs.
Five years of marriage, children and daughters, but unfortunately it was so scattered.
When my daughter was born, Wang Quexin also accompanied the whole process of childbirth, and said, "I have never had Valentine's Day, and now I have decided to spend time with the same woman every year, because my little lover has come." Wang Quexin knew how hard it was for his wife Wu Yating to have a daughter, he was a very good man and a good father, but once so sweet and glue-like, the two people eventually went to divorce.
When his son was born, Wang Quexin still wrote what he wanted to say to his son.
The love between the two of them in the past gave me the feeling that it was impossible to divorce in this life. Like Wang Quexin, who can understand his wife's hard work and know the cold and know the heat, how can they come to the step of divorce? To be honest, I really don't understand, I believe many people like me can't understand, because their Weibo interactions are so sweet.
Thankfully, the two of them broke up peacefully and wouldn't hurt the child.
However, in Wang Quexin's address to Wu Yating, it makes me feel very strange, because Wang Quexin calls Wu Yating "roommate". How did a woman I once loved so much end up becoming a "roommate"? Could it be that the love between you has really disappeared little by little? Marriage has become the graveyard of your love?
Wang Quexin officially announced the divorce: How did those couples who were like glue and paint go to divorce step by step?
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Wang Quexin's official announcement of divorce reminds me of a couple around me.
Liu Qing (pseudonym) and Xiao Tong were in love when they were in college, and Liu Qing was one year older than Xiao Tong. In my opinion, the two of them are going to be together for the rest of their lives, but not long ago, Liu Qing called me and said, "I want to get divorced, really, I can't get along with Xiao Tong." ”
When I heard the word "divorce," the whole person was scared silly, and I said, "How can it be, you two have been together for so many years." ”
Liu Qing said: "I know we have been together for many years, but do you know? Problems have arisen between the two of us in the last two years. It always feels like there is no love between two people. As you know, Xiao Tong's income is higher than mine, especially in the past two years, her career development has been very good, and I feel that she looks down on me. The two of us had a fight that day, and because she said me in front of my mother, it made me feel like I had no self-esteem. I don't want to continue to live like this, I understand the truth you told me, it is she who makes money to support the family, it is true, but I want to live in a different way, I don't want to do this again. ”
Liu Qing originally really planned to divorce, and he also "ran away from home" for several days.
I was busy calling and asking Xiao Tong what was going on, and Xiao Tong told me: "I earn money to support my family, and all the expenses of our family are basically out of me." He doesn't have to support his family, and I don't even know what he's upset about. Mortgage, car loan, the family's daily expenses are all me, and my in-laws also have to give me money, and he makes me feel that he is worth it. I just said a heavy word and ran away from home, but did you ever think about it for me? I'm a woman in the upside down, what did I say. ”
Listening to their respective complaints, I can only sigh for it.
The lives of two people get better, but they find that the love between each other is dead. Sometimes we will be like this, we will measure who pays less, who pays more, we will care and become calculating, calculating that there will be no feelings between two people.
Liu Qing and Xiao Tong have been in love for nearly a decade, have been in love since 2010, and are still talking after graduating from college. Xiao Tong just graduated and Liu Qing was in a different place, and Liu Qing later chased after him. The two of them went from renting a house to buying a car and having children, and they just changed a good car this year. The lives of two people are getting better and better, but the distance between two people is getting farther and farther.
They haven't been married for long, ten years in love, five years married, and I used to think they wouldn't divorce, but now I really can't guarantee it.
Although the two of them did not divorce in the end, if they did not change the way the two people got along and could not understand each other, then they would probably come to the step of divorce sooner or later. This is something I don't want to see.
What we are most afraid of is that the love between each other is consumed by the trivialities of life, maybe you have really loved each other, but one day when there are more quarrels, even the deepest feelings will gradually disappear.
03
Why Wang Lixin and Wu Yating divorced, we don't know, if it is not because of cheating or domestic violence, which touches the bottom line, then it is likely that two people have reached the burnout period of marriage and cannot feel the love between each other.
When I persuaded Liu Qing, I said: "Men's self-esteem is not so important, you have to see how hard your wife is." Since she is more capable, then you pay more in taking care of the child, and let her see your efforts. A man's greatest contribution to a family is to make money to support the family, since now the matter of making money is more borne by the wife, you take more care of the children and be more considerate of her. Don't let love die, and don't consume love, otherwise you two will only go farther and farther. With the woman you are closest to, don't care too much. ”
I advised Xiao tong, saying: "In a family, do not measure a person's ability to make money by the size of the ability to make money." Making money is also a good time and place, sometimes you just make a windfall, and your income in recent years is better. Don't look down on him, after all, with his support you can make more money. To see each other's efforts, not to calculate how much they give. ”
A good marriage requires two people to compromise and understand each other, don't worry about it, if you think too much and forget the original intention, it will be difficult for you to continue to live.
It is true that two people have loved each other, but two people are more calculated, especially if you do not compromise during the burnout period, you will be separated.
Regarding Wang Lixin's divorce from Wu Yating, I saw a comment from a netizen on the Internet:
"To be honest, if you just don't love and get divorced, then what is the meaning of marriage?" No feeling is permanent, even affection is high and low. But if love is gone, it will be divorced, so what is the purpose of marriage, and can only maintain love? Well, everyone's pursuit is different, just be happy. ”
This sentence is worth pondering for all of us married, is the only thing that keeps us married is love? No, there is responsibility, tolerance, and compromise in addition to love. Responsibility is more important than love. Sometimes it's not necessarily that love is gone, but that you feel that you are tired and can't feel love anymore.
So, think hard about what you're getting married for, and don't just divorce, especially if there's nothing really wrong with your marriage. Of course, if you really can't live on, peaceful divorce is also very good, I hope you choose the lifestyle you want, just be happy.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.