A sense of boundaries is very important in a relationship.
The sense of boundaries is the bottom line of one thing, and breaking through is another matter. In fact, many non-single men are overly intimate with their heterosexual friends, and many of them do not have this sense of transgression.
Many little fairies often complain that their boyfriends are too close to their female friends. Usually hook up shoulder to shoulder, take the boyfriend's car and sit in the passenger seat, often go out to drink and talk together, and even go out alone... These boys, under the banner of "friends", "buddies", and "small hair", unscrupulously associate with their friends of the opposite sex. They think they are innocent and bright, but their behavior has long exceeded the boundaries of friends, and some people even make some intimate behaviors that couples can do.
These all reflect that they do not grasp the good measure in the process of getting along with men and women, and there is no sense of boundaries!
How to maintain a sense of boundaries in love?
1. Define your boundaries.
Simply put, it is to understand yourself first. Know clearly what's your business and what's someone else's business.
2. Do things that border yourself.
That is what we often say, do your part. As an object, you are alienated from the relationship with the opposite sex, and as a friend, you pay attention to the relationship with the object of having friends.
3. Don't violate other people's boundaries.
Everyone has boundaries, don't cross the line, even the closest person, he has his own piece of space.
4. Guard your boundaries.
Boundaries are also a bottom line, and tell others what your bottom line is. Many times we are hurt because we give others the right to hurt us.