She was once recognized as a "talented woman", 12 men were deeply fascinated by her, the richness of love history was staggering, Gao Xiaosong once praised her as a real "Beijing big honey", and the writer Wang Shuo divorced her and left her property.
She is Xu Jinglei, who claims that "since the age of 19, there has been no shortage of men around". What is so special about her?
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Xu Jinglei was born in 1974 to an ordinary family in Sanlitun, Chaoyang District, Beijing, to ordinary workers, and a younger brother beneath her.
Since she was a child, her father has carefully cultivated her, and when she was less than three years old, her father had already bought her a pen, ink and paper, sent her to the Municipal Children's Palace to learn calligraphy, and practiced brush characters to memorize Tang poems every day.
Under the strict requirements of her father, her childhood was almost entirely occupied by study, and there was little time for play. In order to give her family a better life, when she was 10 years old, her father resigned from the factory and invested in a factory that made neon lights.
However, due to too much business and the limited technical conditions at that time, all the words on the light box had to be written by people.
If you find a professional calligrapher, you will add another expense, so Xu Jinglei's father will set his sights on his daughter who is successful in calligraphy.
This led to The experience of Writing for a number of well-known brands on Xu Jinglei's resume.
For a long time, Xu Jinglei's characters could be seen everywhere in the streets and alleys of Beijing, so she was given the name of "Talented Woman in Beijing".
Later, after entering middle school, Xu Jinglei saw others painting, and she liked to paint, so in order to learn to paint, the 17-year-old often rode a bicycle through the vast city of Beijing.
At that time, her heart was on applying for the Stage Art Department and the Arts and Crafts Academy of the Central Academy of Drama. However, unfortunately, in the first year of the college entrance examination, she did not make the list.
After the end of the college entrance examination the following year, she was mistakenly admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy, and became a classmate with actresses such as Jia Jingwen, Liu Lin, and Liu Zi.
Unlike others, she was not exposed to formal acting. After entering the university, she was like a wild horse that had lost its reins, and it was common to pretend to be sick and skip class, because of this, she was criticized by the class teacher for not being self-motivated.
In addition, in life, she also went her own way, smoking and drinking, clubbing and bungee, and wearing weird clothes and playing rock and roll.
However, it was such a bad Xu Jinglei that deeply attracted the attention of Wang Shuo, who was known as the great talent of the Beijing circle at that time, and Wang Shuo was very fascinated by the sassy and real temperament in her body.
However, at that time, Wang Shuo had been married to Shen Xujia for more than 4 years, and their daughter was also 3 years old. But Wang Shuo did not care about these things, but instead took pains to win the popularity of this "talented girl in Beijing" who had no performance foundation.
So Xu Jinglei soon ushered in the first play in her life - Zhao Baogang's "A Matter of Wind and Snow and Snow". With this work, Xu Jinglei became popular as a hit, and then she continued to play.
Wang Shuo even directly let her serve as the heroine of his novel "I Love You", and when this work was adapted into a TV series, Wang Shuo hoped that Xu Jinglei would provoke this beam.
With the help of Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei soon became hot, and was also known as the "Four Little Flowers" of the show business world along with Zhou Xun, Zhang Ziyi, and "Big Eyes Gege".
Since then, Xu Jinglei has been in the major award circles of China's performing arts industry, and in those years, she directly won the award and got it softly. It is worth mentioning that in 2000, she was also listed with Pu Cunxin and others as a literary and artistic worker.
In 2003, Xu Jinglei was ready to transform into a director, from the screen to the backstage, Wang Shuo was busy with zhang Luo, while guiding, while personally doing screenwriting, but also specially invited Jiang Wen, Ye Daying, Zhang Yuan and other friends in the circle to help, so there was the "My Father and Me" released in 2004.
With this film, Xu Jinglei directly won the Best Actress Award at the Chinese Film Awards and the Golden Rooster Award for Best Debut. In September of the same year, Xu Jinglei won the Best Director Award at the Spanish Film Festival for directing "Letter from a Strange Woman".
At the time of the initial rise of blogging, Xu Jinglei's blog hits exceeded 10 million in just 112 days, and she was called "the first blogger in China".
Subsequently, she won the first female director in the mainland with the high box office of "Dulala Promotion", and since then, Xu Jinglei's status as the "Queen of the Beijing Circle" has been established.
So what happened to Xu Jinglei's rich love history? Move your fortune's little finger to nod, and we'll move on.
Xu Jinglei's career can be so smooth, behind it is inseparable from wang Shuo's help, in the face of wang shuo's top resources, Xu Jinglei's heart is naturally full of admiration and admiration.
According to rumors, at that time, in order to be able to be with Wang Shuo, Xu Jinglei even personally found Wang Shuo's wife, Shen Xujia, and threatened to let the other party give up Wang Shuo.
But Shen Xujia also did not show weakness, bluntly saying that she was Wang Shuo's mother, and Xu Jinglei could not replace her. However, the reality is that Wang Shuo would rather divorce than be with Xu Jinglei.
In an interview, Wang Shuo once said bluntly that after his death, the right to dispose of property will be handed over to Xu Jinglei.
Although Wang Shuo was obsessed, Xu Jinglei and Wang Shuo did not come to the end, and there were several scandals during the period. What's going on?
The first is Gao Xiaosong, who once revealed that he once wrote a song in the name of his girlfriend, that is, the "Lei" he created in 1995, which is suspected of referring to Xu Jinglei.
Gao Xiaosong has expressed his praise for Xu Jinglei more than once in public, and in Gao Xiaosong's eyes, Xu Jinglei is the real "Beijing Dasami". "Sa" is a heroic sassy, and "honey" refers to a girl, not only beautiful, but also a style.
Then there is Wang Xuebing, the two met during the filming of "Love Spicy Hot", in which the two play a couple.
Subsequently, the two also starred in "Carry Love to the End", and in the process of cooperation, the two frequently rubbed out scandals.
It is worth mentioning that during the period, even involved li Yapeng, it is reported that although Li Yapeng already had a girlfriend Ke Lan, he also had ideas about Xu Jinglei.
At that time, there was also news on the Internet that Li Yapeng and Wang Xuebing were fighting for Xu Jinglei and fighting on the set.
However, before this scandal was confirmed, there was another rumor of Xu Jinglei's love affair with the famous music writer Sanbao. The two dated for three years, which ended with the man splitting his legs.
After this, Xu Jinglei and Huang Jue fell in love again. The two met through "Letter from a Strange Woman", the film has not yet been completed, and the scandal between the two has already spread.
However, just when everyone thought that the two would eventually come together, the man turned around and married someone else. After this, Xu Jinglei was involved in the "love triangle".
At that time, Gao Yuanyuan was in a relationship with Zhang Yadong, but one day, suddenly the media exposed the picture of Zhang Yadong and Xu Jinglei shopping together.
Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong met through the film "My Father and Me". However, in the end, Zhang Yadong did not choose a single one, but at the same time, he also had a scandal with actresses such as Wang Luodan and Mo Wenwei.
After this, Xu Jinglei's side appeared again with the figure of a man, who was no one else, but the new writer Han Han. At that time, the two often commented on each other's works across the screen.
Once, the two were photographed dating in Beijing, Xu Jinglei directly and generously admitted, saying that Han Han came to see her, and it was only the two of them, and asked back, "They are all adults, and the opposite sex meets alone, do you still need to report to teachers and parents?" ”
In 2009, Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing met because of "Dulala Promotion", and later, Huang Lixing revealed in an interview that he and Xu Jinglei would have physiological reactions when they kissed.
In 2010, after the duo starred in the movie "Intimate Enemy", the scandal became more and more widespread. However, in 2011, some media filmed Xu Jinglei and Jackie Chan kissing passionately in the car, and public opinion was in an uproar.
After this incident, Xu Jinglei's male friends around her all retreated. There is only one exception, and he is Huang Lixing.
In 2013, Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing's cohabitation in Taipei was exposed, and Xu Jinglei did not deny it. Moreover, later she also showed a bourne love on the social platform and confirmed the relationship. Today, the two still have a good relationship.
It is worth mentioning that in addition to these people who have already been mentioned, Xu Jinglei has also had gossip with two people, one is the model Song Ning and the other is Ji Xiaobo.
Xu Jinglei once exposed a relationship, saying that she was in love with a Mr.X, and was later pulled out by netizens that this person was the model Song Ning. The scandal between Xu Jinglei and Ji Xiaobo was exposed by employees of the man's company.
It is rumored that Ji Xiaobo is Xu Jinglei's financial support, and many of the hotels, yachts, and equipment used by Xu Jinglei when filming are undertaken by Ji Xiaobo. In order to thank the other party, Xu Jinglei specially thanked him in the film.
For many years, Xu Jinglei has seen so many men around her and so many scandals, except for Huang Lixing. Perhaps, a generation of "talented women" really found their own true love.
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