Recently, Lu Xun's grandson Zhou Lingfei appeared in Shanghai to participate in the interview of "Lu Xun Culture Week", which resembled Lu Xun's eyebrows and beard, causing netizens to watch strongly.
The bullet screen also lamented the power and magic of genes:
"The beard is the soul."
"There's an inner flavor."
"Eyes and beards are like."
"Lu Xun's genes exploded."
"One look is kissed."
What was dug up was zhou Lingfei's account of everything he had experienced since he was a child with the label of "Lu Xun's grandson".
For example, people around him naturally believe that Lu Xun smokes, he will also smoke, Lu Xun will write articles he will also write, Lu Xun abandoned the medical practice, he was arranged to work in the health center, because "you want to complete the unfinished business of your grandfather."
Netizens sighed:
"Lu Xun's grandson has endured too much."
"Lu Xun's grandson could not escape Lu Xun's life."
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="15" > the aura of parents and grandparents</h1>
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" > may also be their shadow</h1>
Earlier in an interview with CCTV's "Thank You, My Home", Zhou Lingfei talked about the pressure and confusion of being "Lu Xun's grandson".
When I was a child, I was particularly happy, "no one cared about me, no one mentioned Lu Xun to me", until the fifth grade, the class began to talk about Grandpa Lu Xun's article, and the teacher said to him:
"Lu Xun is particularly great, you have to do a good job, you have to behave well, and you have to write a good composition, because that's like Lu Xun."
As soon as they went out, the students directly called "Lu Xun Sun Zi" and "Lu Xun Sun Zi" like this, and the call was smooth, and even directly called "Sun Zi". In the Beijing dialect, calling someone else a grandson is not a good idea.
Lu Xun's articles are not easy for primary school students to understand, so Zhou Lingfei often hears "complaints" such as "I have to memorize your grandfather's articles again".
In addition, "Lu Xun's grandson must have the appearance of Lu Xun" is like a tight curse, which has been circled on his head since he was a child, making him like a thorn in his back.
Everyone thinks that you can only be Lu Xun's grandson, and you can't be yourself.
In order to escape this "not taste" feeling, he wanted to leave home and leave the familiar environment at a very young age.
But the more "escape" the more desperate, because when found, it is impossible to escape.
At the age of 16, he was not yet old enough to join the army, and he and the recruiting officers were soft and hard, and they went to the northeast to join the army.
But not many happy days, when the recruits introduced, the commander's sentence "Zhou Lingfei, Lu Xun's grandson!" "Just beat him back to his original form." When assigning work, the platoon commander of the recruit company said straight to the point: "You are Lu Xun's grandson, you must be very good at writing articles", so he was arranged to write as a correspondent.
Although I thought, "I can write, I don't have much time to read books", but at that time I could only write hard, but I couldn't write for a day.
(Anyway, "Lu Xun's grandson can't write articles", really how to look at it is like a paragraph... ）
In the evening, the platoon leader came to see him to see the progress. He complained: "I really can't write it." ”
The platoon leader didn't believe it and said, "Write quickly!" He handed him another cigarette, "You smoke, you won't be sleepy when you smoke!" ”
Zhou Lingfei said, "I can't smoke." ”
The platoon leader said, "Mr. Lu Xun can smoke, you have to learn from him." ”
He was also placed in a health center because Lu Xun had studied medicine, and it was thought that he should also complete his grandfather's unfinished business.
"Desperate", he finally chose to study in Japan, thinking that when he got there, no one would know me, and he could "be myself" again.
Although the above passage is humorous and funny, we can't help but sigh:
The aura of the ancestors is always their own, and while shining around them, there are also shadows left for their children, because no matter how hard they try, they cannot surpass.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="85" > parents are the top 1% of school bullies</h1>
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="86" > children are reduced to ordinary people</h1>
In the past two years, I have often seen some Kochi or university professors come out to give speeches, and they like to complain that their children are "reduced to ordinary people".
Liu Yu, an associate professor at the School of Humanities and Social Sciences of Tsinghua University and a well-known writer, said in his speech:
"My daughter is becoming an ordinary person inexorably."
Ding Yanqing, an associate professor at Peking University who was popular all over the Internet before and laughed at himself that "my wife and I are graduates of Peking University, and my daughter and we are too far apart", was once a 6-year-old "prodigy" who could memorize the Xinhua Dictionary. He graduated from Peking University and later entered Columbia University for further study, but his daughter's grades were very mediocre.
He also tried to "chicken baby", trying to catch up with the child, and the reprimand when tutoring his daughter's homework resounded throughout the office floor of Peking University. However, he found that the enemy could not defeat the "Mandate of Heaven".
He complained:
"My girlfriend is so far from us!" No way, you have to accept this stuff. ”
"I wanted my child to change his life against the sky, but the child made me learn to accept my fate."
This resonated with netizens, some of whom said that their classmates were xueba, undergraduate Tsinghua, master's and doctoral Harvard, wife Ben Shuo Qinghua, but the son was the first from the bottom:
"I haven't been trained in my life, and my son got it after he went to school."
Some netizens said that the husband has a senior title of teacher, but the daughter is counting down. Having a baby is like opening a blind box:
"Sometimes you wonder if you haven't done enough good in your previous life, causing your children to torture you in this life."
In fact, it may not be the child who torments you, these are just statistical "mean reversion".
"Mean reversion" was proposed by Darwin's cousin Galton, referring to:
The extreme characteristics of parents are not completely inherited to the child, and these characteristics will slowly return to the average of the masses in the child.
The CHILD's IQ will also depend on the average IQ of the Patriarchs, which has been determined by the Patriarchs throughout the ages, and if your IQ reaches the "ceiling" of the family IQ, then your child will return to the average. Otherwise, in the process of human evolution, if this IQ is always getting higher and higher, won't the IQ have already reached tens of thousands?
This "family IQ genetic shock map" circulating on the Internet also clearly shows this ↓
This is not the myth that people have now, China's first pastoral poet, Tao Yuanming, who wrote "picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain", has long hated his 5 sons and is not steel, he wrote in the poem "Blame" that he has two sideburns, but the five boys do not follow his pen and paper. The eldest is 16 years old, but he is very lazy, the second is 15 years old, and he does not like to learn, the third is 13 years old, he does not even know 6 and 7, and the fourth is almost 9 years old, and he only knows to find chestnuts and pears to eat.
Now, many parents have gradually learned to accept this fact:
A Tsinghua Zhibo child taught the 5th grade child to teach and taught and cried out, but after an English test, knowing that the child had improved, and finally not the penultimate, he smiled happily and rewarded the child with two chocolates.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="88" > fair environment</h1>
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="89" > is also the best environment for children to grow</h1>
Let's talk about "Lu Xun's aura", Zhou Lingfei's father, Zhou Haiying, once carried more expectations from the outside world, because he was "Lu Xun's son".
At first, Lu Xun's expectations for his son only hoped that he would not be an "empty writer or artist". Lu Xun was also more enlightened in his way of educating him, and Xu Guangping wrote in "Mr. Lu Xun and the Sea Baby":
"Go with the flow, try not to blow him too much, or even not to disobey his liking, except to a certain extent that is extremely intolerable and unreasonable."
In such a family environment, he was not too disciplined to take which path he had to take, but found out on his own in his own exploration. Since childhood, he likes to study toys, clocks, electronic products, especially like to play with a toy called "building iron", similar to building blocks, turning over and over disassembling, assembling into small trains, cranes.
Later, he "dismantled" all the way into the physics department of Peking University to study radio, and became a cadre of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television, engaged in a profession and literature without any edge.
Regardless of whether the parents have a halo on their heads, the core competitiveness will always grow on the children themselves.
What can help children achieve their own aura is the environment of "educational fairness". In the context of educational fairness, children wearing halos do not have many advantages, and children from ordinary families and even poor families can also achieve "counterattack" through their own efforts and use their own strengths.
Some time ago, Zhang Guimei, the principal of Lijiang Huaping Girls' Senior High School, which let more than 2,000 girls out of the mountains, was written into the "Brief History of the People's Republic of China", and she was also seen in textbooks. Netizens commented unanimously: "She deserves it."
With the precision and deepening of the national poverty alleviation project, those children who once "lost on the starting line" can also receive education and competition equally. The dream of educational fairness is justified by people's teachers like Zhang Guimei and the country's policies into more corners.
And "reading" is also becoming the growth path that everyone must go through, not the only way out.
After the "double subtraction", the situation of multiple tracks gradually appeared in front of us, providing a broader space for children to exert their own competitive advantages.
The fairness of education is also reflected here: when the child's advantages are used and treated well, there is an education that suits themselves is the real education. Instead of being forced to "throw" into a track that you're not good at.
Every child has a chance to shine in life, and it doesn't have to be achieved by the aura of their parents.