People sit in their homes, pots come from heaven. The latest issue of "Goodbye Lover" has just been broadcast, Tong Chenjie's ex-husband and former international footballer Xie Hui was accidentally sent to the hot search, and the black was very miserable.
In the program, Tong Chenjie publicly commented on the two husbands before and after, saying: My previous marriage was more of a formalism. If my ex-husband comes to this show, you will find that Wei Wei is 100 times better than him. Wei Wei is not a person with a particularly strong formalism, he is very careful, he has a strong insight, and he will bring me a lot of warmth.
Although Tong Chenjie does not have the name of her husband, most netizens know that he is the famous "Xie Hui" in football, that is, the club system was spit on when drinking and stringing a while ago, and was secretly recorded by the wine friends with ulterior motives across the table, and was forced to "take the initiative to resign" as the head coach of a football club. When the two fell in love, they were once known as China's "Xiaobei and Hot Girl" combination.
On October 4th, Grandpa Xie Hui just on Weibo happy to show baby, wife is beautiful, son is cute, like a winner in life. There are good things fans to go to CUE bloggers, "Brother Hui, the woman said you are not as good as that host." "It's not a big deal."
As a public figure, in the show, the public negative evaluation of the predecessor, this style somewhat jumped out of Tong Chenjie's rationality and atmosphere, it is estimated that he was indeed overwhelmed by the predecessor.
Look at guo Keyu, rarely evaluate the ex and the former ex, every time he says it, he insists on a word, but he "boasts" vigorously, at least to prove that he is not blind.
Compared with Wei Wei's poor performance of "being a husband" in the show, it is reminiscent of Guo Degang's famous words: It is not that I am too good, it all depends on my peers.
As Tong Chenjie's former and current husbands, Xie Hui and Wei Wei should be able to belong to "peers". In the eyes of netizens, Wei Wei is really not a qualified husband, but he did not expect to be so good in the eyes of Tong Chenjie, and he really should write a letter to thank Xie Hui.
"Wei Wei is 100 times better than him", it is estimated that when men hear this sentence, they will secretly poke and poke Tong Chenjie to praise. In the era when inner volumes were prevalent, if women all changed their minds and popularized "worse than poor" husbands, men must be much more relaxed.
What Tong Chenjie experienced in her marriage to Xie Hui was clear to only the two of them. In the memory of netizens, the live broadcast of the wedding that year allowed all the people of Shanghai to witness their happiness and romance, and Tong Chenjie was envied by many young girls.
To tell the truth, as a bystander's perspective, Xie Hui has a successful career, and his wealth and fame are far more than Wei Wei.com. Judging from the world's conventional evaluation of men, Xie Hui was much more successful than Wei Wei. But for the feelings and life in marriage, there is no success or failure, there is no right or wrong, only the right and the wrong.
Obviously, in Tong Chenjie's view, the current Wei Wei is the more suitable one. There is no worst, only worse. Can't help but feel sorry for Tong Chenjie, such an excellent and outstanding woman, why did she choose a less reliable man twice? Once can be classified as accidental, classified as bad fate, twice is worth finding its own reasons.
Tong Chenjie has a good appearance and a figure, is the first generation of world supermodels to go abroad, has a vision and a pattern, is transparent and rational, has a precise logic system for handling things, has a strong execution, and has the shrewdness and wisdom of Shanghai women. But when you face a man, you are confused and humble.
The first marriage ended, proving that Xie Hui was not a suitable person. Getting along with Wei Wei is also extremely uncomfortable, looking like a husband and wife, but like a mother and son. One is the "old mother" who has broken her heart in every detail, and the other is a "giant baby boy" who relies on all kinds of harsh demands and does not think about growing.
For such a man who has no sense of marital responsibility, Tong Chenjie regards it as a treasure. Unprincipled tolerance, bottomless pay, a steady stream of wrong signals to men, he does not need to pay too much. As long as you make her happy, make her happy, and provide a little emotional value, you can make her feel fulfilled, and she will always need him and can't do without him.
Good women are always taken in by scumbags, LaiHan can also marry a good wife, marriage is so incredible, the so-called one thing drops one thing. Wei Wei seemed to pinch Tong Chenjie to eat his set, and he was at ease to enjoy the dividends of marriage.
Tong Chenjie, "awake in the world", can't see Wei Wei's stinky body? She actually knew better than anyone that she just chose to turn a blind eye. Because of her childhood experience, this single-parent girl who lost her father's love prematurely and grabbed horses in her original family grew up to feel that men's kindness to women is a rare luxury ornament, worth a hundred times magnification, and cherished.
Since childhood, she has never experienced the love from her father, nor has she seen her father's warmth to her mother, Tong Chenjie lacks a sense of security in her heart, and her expectations for men are not high. Although he later had a successful career early, in the intimate relationship, the other party gave a little sweetness, was content and grateful, and was willing to pay more in return.
After the failure of the first marriage, Tong Chenjie was disheartened, and it was Wei Wei who warmed her back a little with love and gave up her career to come to Shanghai for her. Although in the eyes of many people, Wei Wei is not worthy of Tong Chenjie at all, and has a lot less light than her ex-husband Xie Hui, she has no hesitation in marrying.
Tong Chenjie in the show, it seems that there has been no mention of the love between the two, only said that these years are very grateful to him, not willing to see him wronged, typical of the old mother hurt her son's mentality. In front of the child, the mother unconsciously humbles and dotes, and is happy without asking for anything in return, which is the current Tong Chenjie.
At the beginning of the show, I felt that Tong Chenjie was "awake in the world"; later because of her bottomless "humble" tolerance, she mourned her misfortune and angered her; as the show progressed, she was too lazy to be angry and too lazy to be distressed, because you could never wake up a person who pretended to be asleep.
What is slightly comforting is that after 16 days of travel, Wei Wei began to realize his own problems and was willing to face himself bravely. At the night chat of the three male guests, he promised to drink less and have a good career in the future. As for the once tangled matter of having a child, he was willing to respect Tong Chenjie's ideas and strive to give his wife a greater sense of self-confidence and security.
Emotional observer Hu Yanbin said, "A person can face his true self without looking for external excuses, which is a kind of growth." I hope that Wei Wei will keep his promise, grow and mature as soon as possible, and become a man worthy of Tong Chenjie's so much effort.
Whether a man is good or not, he must rely on his own words and deeds to prove it, not rely on other men to set off.
After 7 years of marriage, since Tong Chenjie feels that Wei Wei is good, netizens please consciously hold the criticism in their stomachs. In addition to killing people and setting fires, cheating on domestic violence, men have nothing good or bad. Whoever uses it reviews, the customer says good is really good. Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
Taking a step back, even if Wei Wei wasn't good enough, there was no need to worry about Tong Chenjie. Spiritual independence, strength online, a person can also be self-consistent and calm, can live well. Men and marriage are just the icing on the cake.