The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the focus of people's attention since ancient times, and it is also the core of many family conflicts, I think that in fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is particularly difficult, and it is particularly easy to get along with each other, the same women, they know each other better, but they are also more likely to tit-for-tat, so there is a lot of learning to follow in getting along. I think that if you want to make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law harmonious, first of all, you must respect each other, secondly, there should be no excessive interference and intersection, of course, the most important thing is that the man who is a son and also a husband must have a high enough emotional intelligence.
First, respect each other and understand each other. In a man's life, perhaps the most important woman, one is his own mother, the other is his daughter-in-law, and in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this son is mostly in a dilemma, can not be directly reasonable, can not be too towards one of them, otherwise the patient in the family cries, no one obeys anyone, and finally the chicken flies and the dog jumps. I think that if you want to live in harmony at home, the most important thing is to stop some arbitrariness or contradictions at the source, although two people should respect each other, understand each other, respect is the premise of everything, if we can respect a person, then there will certainly be no excessive contradictions and problems with him.
Second, do not have too much interference and intersection. After all, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not mother and daughter, so it is easy to have contradictions in the trivialities of life, which can also be understood, after all, the biological mother and daughter have been together for a long time, and there will be many contradictions, so the best way is to let two people avoid too much getting along and intersecting, and they can live separately. And in the daily life of some of your new family important decisions, try to let their parents participate in the discussion, so that the small two can discuss their own life, because the two generations after all have different ideas, there will be a generation gap, so let them excessively interfere in their lives, there will be a lot of contradictions.
Third, boys must have enough emotional intelligence. In fact, come and go, the most important role in the mother-in-law relationship is this boy, she as the son of the mother-in-law, as the husband of the daughter-in-law is also the most direct middleman, his ideas and performance directly determine many things, so this boy in the daily life or must have enough emotional intelligence to resolve and avoid contradictions and conflicts, whether it is the wife management or the mother-in-law man is particularly bad for both the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it is not conducive to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to operate, but there are some people in life who get along very well, even better than their own mother and daughter, and there are many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the entertainment industry, such as baby, Kunling and so on. I think that if you want to have a good mother-in-law relationship, you must be a daughter-in-law to be pleased, enough to respect your mother-in-law, after all, she is an elder, and to remind your other half not to ignore your parents, and then chat with them more in your daily life, don't keep them away from thousands of miles, even if you are already a family, you must get along well, so that you can be harmonious and happy.