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Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others
Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming encountered an extremely cold winter.

On December 1, his beloved grandmother passed away, and he posted a message of condolences for his grandmother. 3 days later, the writer Qiong Yao passed away, and Huang Xiaoming had collaborated with her in "Huanzhu Gege 3", and she was heartbroken again.

Looking further back, his new relationship has become a frequent visitor to hot searches, and the rise of "Kexue" imitating his girlfriend Ye Ke has damaged Huang Xiaoming's image as an actor again. The box office of the new movie was lower than expected, and Huang Xiaoming was forced to bow and apologize at the press conference, "I have seen everyone's messages to me, and I will definitely take care of my personal affairs."

Then, he deleted the official announcement Weibo, and in the encyclopedia introduction, Ye Ke became his ex-girlfriend. This may be his explanation.

Recalling that in 2017, the head teacher Cui Xinqin was a guest on Huang Xiaoming's variety show, and the two chatted about another female classmate, Huang Xiaoming said that the other party was an actor, and the teacher asked Huang Xiaoming, what are you.

He said, "I am a naïve and stupid Xiaoming. ”

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others
Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

In 2017, director Dong Yue's first work "Blizzard is Coming" won a good reputation, and he was full of ambition and wanted to continue to ink on the complexity of human nature.

Meng Zhong appeared in his pen in this way.

He was a lonely young man in the 90s, failed the bar exam three times, was abused by his father, and was scolded as "waste" by everyone. In the middle of the night, he was enraged by a drunk man and kicked him down the river.

He is also a successful lawyer many years later, not greedy for money or profit, and obsessed with running for the poor and speaking out for justice. For a case of sexual assault of a minor, Meng Zhong stubbornly ran and insisted on letting the criminal be arrested. It's just that Meng Zhong has always had a voice in his heart: You have saved people and killed people.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Clip from "The Man in the Wig".

The role of Meng Zhong was won by Huang Xiaoming on his own initiative.

At that time, Huang Xiaoming finished filming "Chinese Partner", and won the three major actor stars of Golden Rooster, Huabiao, and Baihua with the role of Cheng Dongqing.

In order to get the opportunity to star, Huang Xiaoming put himself very low. Dong Yue once said that actors are a scarce resource for him. Actors are hard to find, but Huang Xiaoming's cooperation is extremely high.

Meng Zhong is thin, and Dong Yue asked Huang Xiaoming to lose at least 30 pounds. Huang Xiaoming used an extreme diet method, only drinking vegetable juice every day, and lost 15 pounds in a month.

Because he did not consume enough carbohydrates and protein for a long time, his brain cells lacked energy, and his mood went to depression uncontrollably. In addition, Meng Zhong himself is also a dark character, and there is a scene in the bed, after filming, Huang Xiaoming suddenly had heart palpitations and was stuck motionless on the bed, which frightened Dong Yue.

When trying on makeup, the image of middle-aged Meng Zhong is "a lawyer who combs his big back hair and grays early", Huang Xiaoming feels that this is not enough, the bald, sparse hair corresponds to the theme of the wig, which will be more impactful.

It's just that the decision to cut the hair made the team staff embarrassed in every way. After filming this drama, Huang Xiaoming's subsequent filming required him to maintain a good image, but Huang Xiaoming insisted on cutting it.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Middle-aged Meng Zhong Huang Xiaoming

This can be said to be the most challenging role in Huang Xiaoming's career, and it is also the heaviest and most sorrowful role. From beginning to end, Meng Zhong was like a tight bow, and he didn't even smile.

"I especially want to play such a role, on the way to act, what I hope at any stage is to break through myself crazy and be a good actor, so I keep looking for different roles to challenge, and try for those heavy, three-dimensional, complex, and humane roles, and I am willing to pay for it." Huang Xiaoming said.

It's just that Huang Xiaoming's hard work did not get the desired results.

On November 16, "The Man in the Wig" was released, and the box office on the first day was only 2.09 million yuan, and it was declining day by day. A week after its release, the box office was only 4 million. On November 23, the movie landed on the video platform, and the total box office stopped at 4.2 million.

After watching it, many viewers said that this movie is like Huang Xiaoming's personal show, relying on his performance to support the fragmented plot. Netizens commented on this movie: It was pit by publicity, pit by editing, and pit by Kexue.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Clip from "The Man in the Wig".

That may be the case.

During this time, Huang Xiaoming has always stood on the cusp. In September, he officially announced his new relationship, but soon, his girlfriend Ye Ke's past was tried by netizens again and again.

Her previous relationship was picked up, and a series of words and deeds in the live broadcast room were complained about - when asked if she had plastic surgery, she said "micro Do"; When selling clothes, introduce the clothing design "one without two"; said that he never went to the toilet at school, "I think that thing is rude"; even affected Wu Bai, because of the sentence "Sing these obscene songs of Wu Bai".

Netizens rushed to imitate her accent and movements, and "Kexue" was born.

It didn't take long for someone to break up and Ye Ke was pregnant, so he asked Huang Xiaoming for a breakup fee of 270 million. An Internet celebrity named "Monster" then broke out the recording of the call with Ye Ke, inducing Ye Ke to talk a lot about his private life.

"Monster" still said during the live broadcast that Huang Xiaoming asked someone to bring him a message and wanted him to let Ye Ke go. In the end, Ye Ke publicly apologized, clarified the so-called "sky-high child support" and "celebrity training class" and other rumors, and withdrew from the network.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Ye Ke officially announced his retirement from the network

Ye Ke left the online world, but the gossip did not dissipate.

Huang Xiaoming's image as an actor has been seriously consumed in the back-and-forth tugging war, and at this moment, it is difficult for the audience to pay for the poster of Huang Xiaoming's starring movie on the ticketing platform.

At the premiere in Xiamen, Huang Xiaoming was forced to apologize to the audience, "I have seen everyone's messages to me, and I will definitely deal with my personal affairs." Then, he bowed deeply.

He bowed for a long time, and the audience resounded with sporadic "Brother Xiaoming, come on", until the director on the side helped him up, he sobbed a few times, lowered his head, and did not dare to look into the eyes of the audience.

It didn't take long for netizens to find out that Huang Xiaoming deleted the official Weibo.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming responded to the recent controversy

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Once, Huang Xiaoming was a well-deserved son of heaven.

He took the road of acting by mistake. Because his father worked in the Electric Power Bureau, he thought that "Nortel" was also learning to generate electricity, so he volunteered in a daze.

On the eve of the exam, he was in a car accident, injured his leg, and was carried on a stretcher into the interview site. I didn't expect to pass the interview of Beijing Film Academy, but because of my good appearance, I was specially recruited by the teacher to enter the school, and I also left a comment of "beautiful wood"-

The performance of the first try, the second and third attempts was not good, and was described by some teachers as like wood, only his homeroom teacher Cui Xinqin insisted later, "Even if he is wood, he is also a beautiful wood."

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming's old photo

If it is said that being an actor is a profession that looks at aura, Huang Xiaoming is just the opposite of aura. The teacher asked him to perform catching crickets, and he said that there were no crickets in Qingdao; Let him perform butterfly catching, he said that butterflies are only in the park, not in class.

In the 96-level Nortel star class, Huang Xiaoming is unique, but fortunately, he still has a trait, obedient.

In the year after graduation, the TV series "The Son of Heaven" was preparing for filming, and the producer called Cui Xinqin and wanted Chen Kun to play the role of Liu Che. Chen Kun was filming at the time, and the schedule conflicted, so Cui Xinqin recommended Huang Xiaoming. The producer had heard of this student and felt that the conditions were not met, but he sold Cui Xinqin a face, and decided to give Huang Xiaoming a chance to meet.

Cui Xinqin hung up the phone here, immediately contacted Huang Xiaoming, and talked openly about it with him, and also said that the other party originally liked Chen Kun, and he picked up the leakage of his classmates.

If you are an arrogant person, you may not be able to disdain the opportunity to pick it up, but Huang Xiaoming didn't expect this layer at all, he only knew that the teacher arranged an interview, hung up the phone and rode a bicycle to the producer.

But it was also this naïve clumsiness that allowed Huang Xiaoming to get this opportunity.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "The Son of Heaven".

In "The Son of Heaven", Huang Xiaoming is the male protagonist Liu Che, Chen Daoming is the male supporting role, his staff.

At that time, Chen Daoming was already a senior who was a combination of actor and emperor, Huang Xiaoming was not afraid of tigers when he was a fledgling, and he felt that he was the emperor, and his momentum must not be lower than that of a strategist. He held back his strength, but he also acted very well, interpreting the sharpness and sharpness of the young son of heaven remarkably.

In 2002, Huang Xiaoming became popular with a drama and became one of the four major students in domestic entertainment. Later, he said that it was precisely because of this drama that he mistakenly thought that the entertainment industry was amiable, and as long as he worked hard, he could get results.

He has been singing all the way and is sought after by tens of thousands of people. The martial arts novels he read as a child, and when he grew up, he became a character in them. I watched the first American movie when I was a child, and later I also worked with the actors in the film. "People are like that, when you reach a certain height, you feel like you are doing the right thing." Huang Xiaoming said.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Stills from "The Son of Heaven".

After acting in a few plays, in 2007, Huang Xiaoming released a solo album, and he also had to break through the road of acting and singing. Not long after, he was invited to sing the Olympic tribute song "One World One Dream".

There's a lot of English in the lyrics, and there's a line to be sung at the highest note: No fears, No hunger, No faithless, Not at all.

Huang Xiaoming sang a little hard and applied to re-record it. After the re-recording, he still felt bad, but almost all the staff were praising him, and he was also a little fluttering, feeling like the reincarnation of the god of song.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

黄晓明演唱《One World One Dream》

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Returning home from Vanity Fair, Huang Xiaoming is the eldest son, eldest grandson, and eldest grandson. Similarly, Huang Xiaoming's parents protected him well.

Being admitted to Nortel was his first time living far away from home. On the day of the report, a family of seven sent him to the dormitory, which also alarmed the teacher. Because the dormitory was facing the toilet, his father had to ask him to change the dormitory. When he was in college, Huang Xiao didn't show up tomorrow, and his mother never put pressure on him, but only told him that it was a big deal to go back to Qingdao to be the host.

Many years later, Huang Xiaoming and his parents went to Taiwan, China, and his mother suddenly vomited and diarrhea, and fainted on the road. Huang Xiaoming rushed his mother to the hospital and was diagnosed with high cranial pressure. That was the first time Huang Xiaoming saw his mother faint, and he was so panicked that he didn't know what to do.

In 2016, he and his mother appeared on a reality show. During the recording of the show, Huang Xiaoming learned that in fact, before this time, his mother had fainted twice, but his parents had been hiding it from him.

As soon as the other party finished talking about this, Huang Xiaoming's eyes instantly turned red in the camera.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

When Huang Xiaoming heard that his mother had fainted, he burst into tears

At the age of 40, Huang Xiaoming and his mother still have a very close relationship.

Every year on his birthday, his mother would edit a long text for him, which wrote from 3,700 grams when he was born to the size and size of his current experience, with deep affection.

This heavy love has always pressed on Huang Xiaoming's heart, forcing him to hand over the corresponding responsibility.

After work, every Chinese New Year, he would buy gifts for his aunts, uncles, uncles and other elders at home, "I feel very guilty when someone is unhappy." ”

He has 7 cousins, and he has to meddle in the life of almost every younger brother, although he says that "the most important thing is that they work hard first", but after the establishment of the company, three younger brothers were arranged by him to work beside him.

There have been many collisions between family affection and the workplace, and Huang Xiaoming wants to take care of both sides, but he is often unable to do it. "It's actually a problem for me, and a lot of times I know how to do it, but I ask my mom for advice...... I really care about what they think and I want them to be happy, so I always take into account their feelings before making a lot of decisions. ”

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming and his mother

The influence of his mother on him can be seen in many ways, even, in the choice of partner.

In 2015, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying held the wedding of the century.

From the beginning of the wedding, the wedding battle is very grand. Wang Sicong, Huang Bo, Wu Jing, and Tong Dawei are the best men, Li Bingbing and Ni Ni are their bridesmaids, Li Xiang's daughter Wang Shiling is a flower girl, and He Jiong Xie Na is the wedding host. Before the wedding, there was also a red carpet catwalk stage, and almost half of the entertainment industry came to watch the ceremony.

At the wedding scene, Huang Xiaoming danced the dance of Yang Ying's idol BIGBANG, and spoke domineeringly: "My baby, you are finished, you will wait for the next few days." ”

Huang Xiaoming's remarks are circulating again on the Internet today, and many netizens feel that he is addicted to acting as a boss. But few people pay attention to the latter sentence - "I have never been so nice to a woman, except my mother." ”

In a later report, Huang Xiaoming also bluntly said that the reason why he chose Yang Ying to marry was because her temperament and personality were very similar to her mother.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying's wedding of the century

Family occupies too much weight in Huang Xiaoming's life.

In the variety show in 2016, he told his mother that he was so old and wanted to have more autonomy in his career. But her mother replied categorically: "40 years old is inexperienced." ”

So in Huang Xiaoming, there are many contradictory but reasonable qualities. He is arrogant, but he often says that his background is inferiority. Sometimes he doesn't care about the audience's opinions, and his acting features fly wildly, but he also unexpectedly listens to persuasion, saying that he will go to oil. He likes to take care of everything, but he often can't take care of the aftermath.

Including 9 years later, Huang Xiaoming's public process of handling the second relationship is still a familiar taste. At that time, the scandal between Ye Ke and Huang Xiaoming was very noisy, and the entry "Huang Xiaoming is not married" suddenly appeared on the hot search.

Ye Ke posted a chat record with Huang Xiaoming and the staff, and Huang Xiaoming said in that picture: "Don't do it, I'll do it." Then, he posted the official announcement Weibo.

After that, Ye Ke fell into the whirlpool of public opinion and was powerless to struggle.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming and his mother

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

When talking to Lu Yu, Huang Xiaoming analyzed the public opinion image of public figures.

"When you make a bad scene, all the normal things in you become your shortcomings. But when you have a successful work coming out, no matter what you do, others will help you out. ”

Therefore, when did Huang Xiaoming's reputation reverse, and it was also when he was derelict as an actor and did not hand over good works.

In 2010, Huang Xiaoming took over the filming of "Bubble Summer". In the original book, Luo Xi is a superstar, and his appearance is described extremely beautifully: there is a bewitching mist under his eyes, beautiful lips like cherry blossoms, delicate skin like porcelain, and a shabby shirt on him with the dignity of a prince.

So, when Huang Xiaoming's face appeared on the screen with uncontrolled facial features, the slogan "cherish life and stay away from Huang Xiaoming" appeared in the comment area of this TV series.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "Bubble Summer".

This year, Huang Xiaoming was 33 years old. After giving him countless gifts, fate finally began to ask him for a price.

首先是《One World One Dream》那首歌里,他的唱功被网友吐槽,“not at all”听起来很像是中文的“闹太套”,他因此被群嘲。

Then there's his height. During the filming of "Bubble Summer", the actress who played with Huang Xiaoming was tall, and Huang Xiaoming put a heightened plank under his feet, so Huang Xiaoming's height was questioned. On the Internet, his height has been transmitted from less than 175cm to only 173cm, and when he participated in the "Chinese Restaurant", there was also a guest who said that he was no more than 1.7 meters tall.

It was also in the "Chinese Restaurant" program that he ushered in a greater storm of fame.

One time, Yang Zi's hand was squeezed by the door and asked everyone if they had any ointment. Huang Xiaoming saw that her hands were purple, and urged Yang Zi to go to the hospital, Yang Zi felt that there was no big problem, so she applied iodophor and tied a band-aid, and decided to observe for another night.

The next day, Yang Zi's hand injury became more and more serious, not only could he not move, but he also became more and more painful. Huang Xiaoming wanted to accompany her to the hospital, but Yang Zi insisted: "I think it should be fine." Huang Xiaoming said to her: "I don't want you to think, I want me to feel." ”

But through the spread of the Internet, people did not remember Huang Xiaoming's care and responsibility, but only remembered his arrogance, paternity and machismo.

The rise of "Mingxue" came earlier than "Kexue", and the courseware is more abundant.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "Chinese Restaurant".

Huang Xiaoming was at a loss, and the harder he tried to grasp his past preferences, the more he couldn't grasp them.

He tried to repost the Weibo of black fans, but was ridiculed for having no pattern; In the show, taking off his shoes and measuring his height proves himself, and it is extended that the more people who care, the more ghosts they have in their hearts; Later, he simply laughed at himself and played his accent on the talk show stage, and a few lines of words floated on the barrage: disgusting, greasy, get out of the entertainment industry.

After many years, the voice at that time is still floating in Huang Xiaoming's ears. He said: "Whether it's reading comments or on the road, you feel that you are being spurned by dogs, you feel that as long as there is your news and comments in the world, there is no good one." ”

During that time, the sky was dark, and Huang Xiaoming even empathized with those artists who committed suicide. Until, he grabbed a straw and became Dongqing.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming laughed at himself in "Paramount Tonight".

In 2013, Chen Kexin was preparing to film "Chinese Partner", and he wanted to ask Huang Xiaoming to play the role of Meng Xiaojun, but after reading the script, Huang Xiaoming felt that he was more suitable for Cheng Dongqing - a rural silly boy who only became a famous school with the entire English dictionary on his back.

Chen Kexin advised him to think carefully, and Huang Xiaoming said to the director: I'm actually quite dirty.

Later, Huang Xiaoming said more than once that Cheng Dongqing is the character who is most like himself, "All his ways of doing things, understanding, and ways of dealing with the world are the same as mine, including his psychological process, his helplessness, and his drunkenness and scolding, are the same." ”

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "Chinese Partner".

There is a scene in the movie, after Wang Yang's wedding, the three brothers fought with the strength of wine to vent the bitterness and grievances of entrepreneurship. Meng Xiaojun decided to break up, Wang Yang didn't want to play with them, Cheng Dongqing stayed alone in the huge banquet hall, bowed down, and cried.

This scene was added by Huang Xiaoming himself, and his bitterness and grievances were also accompanied by tears. Later, he said: ""The Chinese Partner" is also a summary of my own life at that time. ”

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "Chinese Partner".

Huang Xiaoming relied on Cheng Dongqing to make a comeback, and his evaluation of him on the Internet quietly changed.

In 2017, his performance in "Langya List 2" was still good, and netizens' description of him changed from one side to one side: When Huang Xiaoming doesn't regard himself as a handsome guy, his acting skills are particularly good.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming in "Langya List 2".

When he is recognized professionally, he can finally let go of netizens' evaluation of him.

In the 2020 Spring Festival Gala, Huang Xiaoming starred in the sketch "Airport Sisters". He took the initiative to ask to use the Qingdao dialect in the sketch to play with his height stalk, and another actor Wang Zijian replied to him with the sentence "I don't want you to think, I want me to feel" when he said "I feel".

"When you get used to it, it's not really that big," he says. Life is like this, it's nothing more than others laughing at you, and then you laughing at others. The process of your gradual maturity is the process of your ability to endure more and more. ”

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

At the end of the sketch "Airport Sisters", there is also a strong sensational dialogue.

Huang Xiaoming received a call from his mother and asked him to say hello to his grandmother, and an old voice came from the other side of the phone:

"Who are you?"

"I'm Mingming."

"Mingming, what's the matter with you?"

"Grandma, I miss you, I can't go back to see you during the Chinese New Year."

"It's okay, when you come back, grandma will celebrate the New Year."

In the winter of 2024, Huang Xiaoming's grandmother passed away, and during the Spring Festival this year, there was one less kind old man on the dinner table at home.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming and grandma

Huang Xiaoming is a very family-loving person.

During their marriage to Yang Ying, they lived together in Shanghai, and the two families lived in the same house, and Huang Xiaoming would rush home whenever he was free.

He said: "Maybe what I wanted in the first half of my life was fame, flowers, and applause, but from now on, what I need more is family, affection, and warmth." When I'm frustrated, at least there's a warm home waiting for me. When many people blame me, at least I come home and have a laughing family. ”

It is conceivable that the partner he needs will not be a woman with a strong sense of ambition, but a wife who can revolve around him and be gentle with him.

After being with Ye Ke, Ye Ke intentionally or unintentionally showed some moments when the two got along. Once Huang Xiaoming was socializing and wanted to talk to Ye Ke on the phone, during which Ye Ke said 8 words of "love you".

Once, Huang Xiaoming saw the news of Alain Delon. When his life came to an end, Alain Delon summed up his past: "In my life, I have everything but happiness. ”

Huang Xiaoming was very uncomfortable to see, and he felt that love is the most important thing in the end of a person's life. Love makes the dead wood spring, and it will also make people's hearts and intestines broken.

Huang Xiaoming: Others laugh at me, I laugh at others

Huang Xiaoming's recent stills

Yi Lijing once asked Huang Xiaoming how to evaluate himself as an actor.

"A big factor in the success of an actor lies in the entire production team, and one person is powerless." He replied earnestly, "But when you come across something bad, you slack off." A really smart person should be able to make the right choices instead of wasting all their time on things that won't make you improve, but will make you fall off. I just did so many things that made me fall. ”

But what he didn't realize at the time was that the narrative of the fall wasn't just a career.

In a recent interview, Huang Xiaoming lost his usual spirit.

The host asked him how to understand the name "Mengzhong" in "The Man with a Wig", Huang Xiaoming said: "When you are sometimes helpless in the face of reality, very depressed and unable to say it, and there are many things that you don't know what to do, you especially want to wake up and find that it is just a dream, you especially want to pinch yourself, is this a dream?" ”

He's answering the movie, but everyone knows that it's not just the movie. The wind outside the window was whistling, and Huang Xiaoming's winter came undeniably.

Some references:

1, "Luyu has an appointment for a day" |

2. "Position"|Yi Lijing interviewed Huang Xiaoming

3, "South Wind Window"|Huang Xiaoming, now my thoughts have changed

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