Wen | Gu Ziyu
01.
The most beautiful scenery in the world is just two people in love, arm in arm into marriage, the next cute child, the family living a happy life.
However, this is not the case for some idiot men and women in real life, they are in love, married, but live a hot life.
Ms. Zhang and her husband have been married for 4 years, but their lives do not have a sense of happiness, they fight all day long, and people on the whole street feel headaches for them.
The reason is that the two sides have their own reasons, Ms. Zhang said that the in-laws' family is not good, affecting their small family life, and the husband always looks towards the in-laws' family, regardless of their own feelings.
But her husband said that Ms. Zhang had been married for 4 years and refused to have children, and now she couldn't get over it, but she insisted on giving birth to this child, and he suspected that this child was not his own.
Ms. Zhang said that the reason why she did not want to have children before was because she had a cleft palate, and she was worried that after the child was born, it would be the same as herself, which would be too painful.
She said that the reason why she got married too late was because of this disease, when she was introduced to her husband in her 30s, she didn't know her son for a long time, and she was worried that her children would follow her, so she didn't dare to give birth to children.
Married for 4 years, Ms. Zhang was pregnant twice, and did not have children, which made her husband and in-laws have great opinions about her, and the old man will cry sadly when he mentions his grandson.
As they grew older, they were unable to hold their grandchildren, making the old couple feel that they could not lift their heads in front of the villagers, and they felt that the daughter-in-law was not sincere in living with her son.
02.
Ms. Zhang does not have a fixed job, and the family's expenses are supported by the income of her husband's part-time work, but the in-laws are old, have no financial resources, and need their husbands to help, which she is very dissatisfied with.
Ms. Zhang grew up spoiled by her parents and sister since she was a child, and she felt that the elderly should not clean up the life of their small family, and their lives would not have so many contradictions.
She asked her husband to take care of their own small family and not the life of the elderly, and the contradictions between the two people became more and more, and finally they had to live separately.
The husband himself rented a house outside, did not give Ms. Zhang the key, Ms. Zhang went to break in, damaged the house so that the landlord complained, and the two quarreled and caused the neighbors a headache.
Such a day really can't go on, at this time Ms. Zhang is pregnant, she and her husband ask for money, but the husband said that this child is not his, the two people will fight when they meet, the chicken flying dog jumping, it is not at all visible that this is a couple.
Speaking the harshest words and cursing the most ugly curses, I really can't imagine how these two people came together in the first place.
Ms. Zhang said that she made up her mind to give birth to this child this time in order to get revenge on her husband: to give him a drag oil bottle and let him keep pouring money into this child!
Ms. Zhang's idea is too surprising, having a child is not for the proof of love, nor is it a continuation of love, but to retaliate against the other party, this kind of person is indeed very different.
Imagine, even if you give birth to a child in revenge on the other party, then as the mother of the child, you don't have to pay the corresponding price?
If the child inherits his own genes and is an unhealthy child, will he also be very miserable and worry about the future of the child?
Finally, after multi-party mediation, the two sides reached a consensus, Ms. Zhang made the child, the husband gave some compensation, the two people broke up peacefully, and they will never entangle each other again.
03.
Some people are not people in the same world, doomed to be unable to integrate into each other's lives, rather than both sides living in a kind of love and killing, it is better to break up as soon as possible and let each other have a way of life, so that it is good for everyone.
In this failed marriage, there is no winner, the two parties are married in a short period of time, they lack understanding of each other, and it is difficult for couples who marry for the sake of marriage to live the marriage as they aspire to.
Because of her own physical reasons, Ms. Zhang felt that she was getting older and older, and she would marry herself on the spot, but she did not expect that the other party's family was not the same as what she thought, and the two people could not reach a consensus, and finally lived into a pair of wrongdoers.
Sukhomlinsky once said: "When you marry in a hurry, you are willing to risk becoming an unfortunate person." ”
Both people lack understanding of each other, and they have determined their life's events based on feelings alone, which is a little too impulsive and doomed to a tragic ending.
Ms. Zhang's husband wants to find a wife who can be considerate of herself, who can take care of her family and elderly parents, and the family lives a harmonious and beautiful life, but the wife feels that her small family is the most important.
The ideal is very full, but the reality is very bone, originally a blind date car, a family that loves each other, but finally became an enemy like shouting and shouting and killing.
It is said that things are grouped together in groups, the same people can come together, different people will walk and walk will be scattered, perhaps such an ending is the best ending.
Write at the end:
Nietzsche once said: Married life is like a long-term dialogue, when you decide to enter marriage, you have to consider whether you can talk and laugh to the end.
Therefore, when stepping into the door of marriage, we must make a decision after careful consideration, if you marry because of a momentary impulse, there will not be many happy endings.
Marriage is not a one-person thing, one is not happy, another person will also suffer, one should be responsible for oneself, but also responsible for others, that is, do not marry casually, so as to avoid more trouble, avoid more harm.
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About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares with you emotional stories with warmth.
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