After watching "Goodbye Lover", after watching Zhang He and Guo Keyu, ten years of marriage, turn around and say goodbye, a little sigh, a little sadness
Although the divorce was a year, although the show began, Zhang He and Guo Keyu did not communicate in their eyes and language, but it was precisely at this moment that there was still love between them, because there was love and timidity
Guo Keyu married Zhang He in the best years to get married and have children, the career no longer has the original glory, so whenever the show talks about this decade, he can't help but blush, Zhang He is entangled in this decade Guo Keyu's attitude towards her, no wife's concern, no communication between lovers, let him feel that there is no love between them
In fact, I think that when Guo Keyu emphasized this decade, she was already wronged in her heart, and she had already compared the results of this decade with the results she had obtained, and she felt that it was a loss and not worth it
When two people want to measure, it means that both people feel that they have to pay more than each other, and they both feel that they have lost, and the gap has since arisen
In fact, love has never lacked expression, what is missing is the original intention
I remember Guo Keyu said a sentence, she said, a sentence is accusation or help, should be the person who listens to interpret, married life, sometimes the party who said it actually wants to convey care and love, but the people who hear it do not necessarily think so, so it is not that people will not express it, but when they say it, the original intention is not there, if your heart is still consistent with the vows you made when you married, then what she hears is definitely what you want to express
Ten years of marriage, contradictions do not arise one day at a time, and it is simply impossible to repair it through the program for ten days
Their marriage, in the final analysis, both people are too extreme, less of a rare confused mentality, Zhang He's pursuit of perfection, machismo, Guo Keyu is too idealistic, a little illusory and ethereal, one pays attention to results, one pursues process and feelings
Marriage is not easy, ten years is not easy, I hope they are happy, because their marriage allows me to have more interpretation of their marriage, and even some grievances and things want to open at once, marriage do not worry too much about right and wrong, marriage is not easy