I found a strange phenomenon, I have a lot of good girls around me, not to say that they are traditional well-behaved women, but there are many good looks and good personalities, do not drink or go to bars, and come home on time every night before 10 pm, but they all have a superpower, that is, very attractive to scumbags!
It is said that good girls go to heaven and bad girls smuggle houses, but in love, those good girls don't get good, and what they get is a whole body injury. I sometimes don't understand, these girls don't look bad, up to the kitchen under the hall, why is it always scum in love?
It was later discovered that these girls had the following three characteristics. Girls who lack love want more love. You will find that there are many good girls around who lack love, and they carry the harshness and harshness of their parents in their growth, and live carefully. Perhaps because of the high requirements of their parents, they have been tightening a string, or they have been cold and overwhelmed by their parents. Once they are away from their parents and see the boys who make them feel warm and considerate, they will easily move their hearts and desire this warm love like falling into a honeypot.
I have a friend next to me, because the concept of patriarchal preference is deeply rooted, so she has lacked love since she was a child, the strictness and indifference of her parents have made her lose confidence and hope in the future, and later, she met a boy, the boy was very concerned about her, she seemed to have walked from the hell of the family into the paradise of love. Therefore, the girl gave back to the boy with her love without any reservations, but she did not expect that in the end it was wrongly paid, after half a month of opening the room. The boy blocked the girl's WeChat. I gave you sugar, and you gave me arsenic, and I ended up scaling my body.
I'm sure there must be girls around you who feel very cold, they rarely send circles of friends, although they are very cold when they are talked to by the opposite sex, they are actually a paper tiger. Once you meet those boys who are entangled and stalking, your heart will be soft. Most girls aren't really cold, they're just used to wrapping up their true selves tightly and not getting hurt. When one day, open her heart, you will find that under Yujie Bingqing's face, it is actually the innocent lolita child's heart, when encountering a high-ranking scumbag who is stalking and beating, it is impossible to resist!
People often praise a girl for being very sensible and not causing trouble. However, in love, girls who are too sensible often do not get sugar. Love is originally to support each other in difficulties, but a sensible girl often carries everything down. Such girls are the most easily overlooked in love, just like you treat others unconditionally, but that person thinks that you are worthless, and sensible girls are always silently and unprincipled in love. And such flattery often becomes the Achilles heel of his own scum. Are these girls wrong? In fact, these girls are not wrong, they all have a good heart, but their kindness is too blind, easy to be used by scumbags, but it has become a weapon to hurt themselves.
So, girls, I hope you learn to have light in your heart, thorns in your body, kindness and sharpness, polish your eyes, and distinguish the tricks of those scumbags. Before meeting a good person, love yourself, love life, try to make yourself more radiant, but also believe in yourself, worthy of being loved, worthy of being gentle!