I've been thinking about a problem for the past two days. Why do people like to read emotional texts so much? Why are there so many editors who write emotional articles? Is it really for traffic?
I think it should not be, because we need too much pressure in life at the moment, too much emotional pressure, and need an outlet. A little emotional comfort needs to be found in this fast-paced life.
There's nothing wrong with writing emotional essays. It is not a cheap article, as long as you write well enough and deep enough, subjective enough, it is also possible.
In fact, sometimes think about it, we think so much, it is because we forget the original intention, you write the article that the original intention is not to help others to bring a little help?
Whether it is an article on what subject, whether it is a point of view or a story, what does it matter? Don't be too high-minded, we just need to get a little warmth, a little comfort when we read the article. A little help in life.
It's not really necessary to get any Shangfang sword, life sword, life fun. Don't set too high a desire for yourself, position this thing can be slow, don't be too anxious, and don't be too exaggerated.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 What exactly does the movie "Tropical Rain" say? </h1>
To tell you the truth, I like the director of this movie, that kind of gentle and gentle, moist and silent personality is what I like, especially the paragraph he said at the end of the film, I just want to shoot with my personal growth, infect my personal growth experience.
Yes, who said that you have to make an epic masterpiece, who said that you have to make a super big IP, who said that you have to make a blockbuster feeling? Maybe you're just taking a picture of a simple little thing in life, and our life is what it is.
Originally, it was to find the meaning of your survival, the meaning of your life, the meaning of life in a simple life.
I saw a Japanese movie called "Seagull Canteen" about a few years ago, and I have forgotten what he played, and I remember that it was the heroine in the movie, and she always had a faint smile on her face.
Very healing, very warm. There is no male protagonist at all, and there is no story of big ups and downs, it is the story of a restaurant. From no one patronizing to the final fire, to the final healing of people's hearts.
The only thing to see is the scenery in the film, the cherry blossoms in the film, and the layout of the restaurants in the film. But what is there to watch compared to some big IP dramas? But it is such a movie that you can still remember clearly after watching it for many years.
So what does the movie "Tropical Rain" say? The heartache of a middle-aged woman, the heartache of a 40-year-old middle-aged woman.
Why should I write this passage in two sentences? Because a 40-year-old woman and a 50-year-old woman are both middle-aged women, but the heartache in them is not the same. The marriage dilemmas they face in life are also different. Of course, the choice is also different.
The heroine of the film is a teacher in her 40s, working in Singapore, he has been married to his lover for many years, has not had children, has been trying to find a way to have children, they have tried many ways, but they have never succeeded.
I am a very well conceived person, I have never encountered such a thing, but it is also very uncomfortable to see a movie like this. There is a scene in the movie where on a rainy day, the pregnancy injection is injected into the stomach. I could feel that pain, that psychological pain, that physical pain.
She really acted out the kind of pain that she wanted to have children and couldn't get. Maybe this child is a goal of their marriage, and even their sex together has changed.
Also, it is very sad that you are having sex with your lover for some purpose. It's also sad to think about that process. A process of love becomes a process of instrumentation. It was as if I thought of the animals mating, which was very embarrassing.
The heroine is a teacher, and he has a student who has an attachment to him. It can't be said to be love, nor can it be said to be affection, it can only be said to be a kind of attachment.
Because this student did not get the love of his parents from an early age, his parents' indifference to them led to the kind of Oedipus complex he had when he became an adult. Therefore, when we educate children, we must give children more love, not too much companionship is love, but when you are with your child, you must seriously accompany him, this is called effective companionship.
Her husband is often away from home. The film does not write that this female teacher cheated, that is, this boy has been with her, looking at her helplessness, and there is an old father in the film, that is, her husband's old father!
This old man is a paralyzed old man, and for so many years, the heroine has been taking care of him. It can also be seen that the old man is satisfied with this daughter-in-law and loves this daughter-in-law very much. Like your own daughter.
We also all say that there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, which makes sense. Her own son did not take much care of the old man, and as a daughter-in-law, she has always taken care of this old man.
In this way, the heroine and his students and this old father often go shopping together to watch movies, eat delicious food, and feed durian. This durian is the foreshadowing in the movie, and I found that every movie has a foreshadowing.
There are many people in life who like to eat durian, like his sweetness, like his endless aftertaste, but the smell of durian is unbearable for many people, it is smelly.
So this female teacher did not do anything to be sorry for the male protagonist. It has always warmed this home, warmed the male student. Finally the female teacher returned to his hometown, and the sun came out.
I didn't understand the play at first, the whole play is gloomy, just without a little sun, and then the director explained that he deliberately made that effect. Because he felt that the heroine's life was like a gloomy weather, and he could never see the sun.
The rain was continuous and unceasing, pressing down on her breathlessness, the pressure of life, the pressure of not being able to conceive, the pressure of her old father, and the pressure of her leaving home.
There are no big ups and downs, but it is very touching. In fact, this kind of healing small movie is also very good-looking, and you don't have to watch any big IP dramas.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 Good birds choose trees to rest</h1>
I knew this phrase a long time ago, but it never left his profundity. Do you know? A lot of things require real experience in your life to know how he feels.
I've seen a movie called "The Taste of Orange Sand" before, in fact, I sometimes have to say ah, the Japanese small movie is quite fresh. It's also very touching.
Sometimes to make a touching movie, you don't need to spend a lot of money, you don't need a lot of scenes, it may be the simple small scenes in life that can move you.
The film is about an old man who has suffered from leprosy all her life and has not been free, and has been living in a leprosy hospital. But this old man would do gong burning.
It is the kind of gong roast that we have loved to eat since childhood, the one with bean paste sandwiched between the two layers. But because he had leprosy, she was not welcomed by anyone, and she had no chance to make it.
At the age of 78, she confidently braved the courage to run to a shop that made gongs. And the store manager told him her wish, she wanted to work there.
The store manager was also a melancholy young man, and he was also a person who had experienced things. He couldn't get out of the shadows all the time, so the gong roast he made wasn't tasty either.
After some twists and turns, this old lady worked in this shop. As a result, the gong roast she made was very delicious and very popular.
One of the girls is also a depressed person. Because some things in the family can't get out. It was also because this grandmother's sunlight healed her.
The old man also died in the end, because of leprosy was complained about by guests, and finally dismissed, and finally died not long after the net red hospital.
It's very, very healing.
It's whatever your state is, no matter what kind of dilemma you are in at the moment? There will be people in need of you in every corner of the world. It's just that you haven't found something that works for you yet.
Good birds choose trees to rest
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 The warmth of women is infinite</h1>
Not only is the female teacher in "Tropical Rain", she went from the beginning of the life of a chicken feather complaining, to later out of life and back to his hometown.
It is all about telling us that our power is infinite, as long as you are warm, yes, it will always warm the world. There will always be someone who needs us.
The grandmother heroine in "The Taste of Chengsha", he uses his own hands to make a delicious gong roast. Delicious bean paste. They are all telling us that freedom is good, life is good, and it is good to live.
The 4 heroines in the "Seagull Canteen" drama are all very warm people. The owner of the shop, and the depressed Japanese woman who lived with her. And the serious woman in transit, and the local Finnish woman.
All 4 of them used their own life experiences to write the power of warmth, and finally they all walked out of the right track of life and walked out of the true meaning of their lives.
Do you know? We women have their own maternal aura, the gentle breath in their bones, and your smile are all the strength of life. It's all the warmth of the world. It's just that you don't know.
On Saturday, August 7, 2021 at 8:03 pm, the weather in Beijing was sunny