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The parents of "ancient and modern" parents recognize that they are "losing at the starting line", and it is useless to "play chicken blood" for the baby

author:Tianyan News
The parents of "ancient and modern" parents recognize that they are "losing at the starting line", and it is useless to "play chicken blood" for the baby

  "The Son does not teach, the Father is at fault", this is the consensus of the ancients.

  Today's consensus of "chicken mothers and chicken fathers" is: "The son does not teach, the baby is wrong."

  From pregnancy to college entrance examination, to the baby reported dozens of prenatal classes, interest classes, cram classes, accompanying reading and losing money, if the baby is still not out, is this the fault of the parents?

  "Child, I tried my best to let you study, just to think that you are better off than me, you must be out of the ordinary!"

  There is no parent in the world who does not love their children.

  But imagine that parents "try their best", based on wrong cognition, can hurt the baby's life.

  If parents naively believe that success is a straight line, without the need for time, place, people, and opportunities, then make-up classes have become the only "blessing" for babies.

  The Zhao family reported five interest classes to the baby, the Qian family invited ten tutors for the baby, the Sun family sacrificed the baby's weekend practice, and the Li family let the baby die calligraphy from morning to night.

  Throw the baby into the interest class and cram class, and the baby will run early and run fast. Sitting on the sidelines and playing with her mobile phone, when she is a supervisor, she can win the game.

  If the parents are completely unaware of the choice of track, then "getting ahead" will become the only track for the baby.

  As long as you keep giving the baby "chicken blood", the baby runs on a track of thousands of troops and horses, and can also ride the dust.

  Unfortunately, after more than ten years of tossing and turning, the first batch of "chicken babies" became old-fashioned and dull one by one, and only won anxiety and depression.

  Parents themselves do not know anything about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, how to distinguish between the two hanging children's interest classes in the market?

  Parents themselves can not define the happiness of life, how to find happiness for the baby?

  Parents themselves are too lazy to improve their education to lead by example, how much will the baby have?

  On October 23, the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education was promulgated, which not only clarified the responsibility of family education, but also asked parents to learn how to teach their children.

  As a parent, you can't "lose the starting line of tutoring".

  When the "anxious chicken baby" grows up to become a "lying youth".

  The new generation of parents should ask themselves about the template of their children's "presence".

  Is there something wrong with Baby's track?

  If you do nothing yourself, can you return to your hometown?

  "Cao Chong is five years old and called an elephant, Mozart is six years old writing music, Sima Qian is seven years old and smashing a cylinder, and you can only urinate at ten years old", this kind of words, can you still say to The Baby?

  Text/Comic Zhou Tao

Edited by Hu Rui

Editor: Min Jie, Shi Yuling

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