Singer Liang Wenyin, who has sung "The Happiest Thing", "Love Has Always Existed", "It's Good to Cry", and "The Child in The Heart", was exposed to have divorced this year. There were media to understand the matter, Liang Wenyin did not answer the phone, replied to the message that he was in class, but when asked about the divorce, the other party showed the status of not reading the unannowledge message.
Liang Wenyin and her husband Zhang Nian ended their four-year marriage, they have been to the same church in the past, so some parishioners said that the reason for this separation was because the south betrayed the marriage. The two used to show their love and happiness, but the most recent time they uploaded a couple photo was in April this year. Friends who know Liang Wenyin should know that she was busy with the promotion of the new album in 18 years, so she has had little communication with her husband, but she will also date her husband especially, but her husband at that time rarely appeared.
Subsequently, Liang Wenyin admitted the fact that he and her husband Zhang Nian were divorced, and said that the two sides had peacefully broken up. Although it is not known why the two were separated, the unhappiness of marriage cannot be separated from these three factors.
First of all, the self-esteem and sensitivity of humidity in marriage is a good state of mind, but if these two mentalities are excessive, it is easy to force your marriage to a dead end. If one of the spouses is belittling the other and does not respect himself, then the other spouse will always be in a sensitive state in order to defend the dignity of the self, care about the other party's actions, especially the other party's unintentional words or unintentional actions, which will total for a long time. This mentality is too much love to say well, and it is nerve sensitivity to say badly.
Then there is the most terrible thing in marriage is to shirk responsibility, in the marriage can not be the least timely difficulties and setbacks, when the wind and rain hit, the most needed is the sense of responsibility of both parties rather than each other shirk responsibility, evasion and prevarication. You choose to marry a person is to choose a life and a marriage, since both parties are self-selected, then no matter what happens, you should also bear everything, rather than letting this escape tear the feelings of two people apart.
Finally, the most important point is the expected return value. No one is how much you give, I will definitely repay you how much. If you have been expecting equality, then if only one party does not do well and does not love enough, then the other party will be very disappointed and annoyed, so that unhappy emotions will come as scheduled, and all the happy things that have been done in the past will be forgotten. Actually it's very undesirable, whether it's love or friendship or any emotion, it's very unrealistic to pursue equality emotionally, and if you love enough, don't think about it so much.
Therefore, we must remember that unhappy marriages, in addition to objective problems, are actually more of the behaviors we do, and sometimes we let ourselves go.