Netizens often ridicule "men to death are teenagers", no matter how old men are, they like girls in their 20s, and men's performance on this issue is consistent.
We live in an era of "looking at the face", more and more women have begun to obsess over handsome and talented men, many women want to marry handsome men, Confucius said "food color, sex also", now it seems that this is not false.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and it is understandable that a woman chooses a man who is handsome and genuinely loves her, which can both please her and benefit future generations, which is a good thing to kill two birds with one stone. However, everything must be done according to one's ability, and if it exceeds a certain limit, things will often develop in an unfavorable direction.
There is such a woman, she often suffers from domestic violence, even if her husband is kicked out of the house she does not want to divorce, she said: "He is too handsome, I can't do without him!" "What's going on?
This woman's name is Li Xia, her parents are not harmonious, she grew up under the nurturing of her grandparents, she did not feel the love of her parents, she did not appreciate the warmth of the family, her desire for a happy life is stronger than ordinary people.
When she grew up, she worked in telemarketing at a company, she never fell in love, she didn't have a boyfriend, she wanted to find a suitable lover, join hands in marriage, and live a happy and happy life.
At the age of 20, she was introduced to Wang Qiang, Wang Qiang was 3 years older than her, he was an electrician, he was tall, his salary was very high, more importantly, he was handsome, and he would make girls happy, Li Xia fell in love with Wang Qiang at first sight.
In the process of communication, Wang Qiang booed and asked for warmth and care, which made Li Xia feel the sweet taste of love, and she was trapped in it. Wang Qiang is Li Xia's first love boyfriend, coupled with his good personality and handsome looks, Li Xia moved the idea of "not marrying him".
After knowing each other for two months, their relationship was already very stable, at this time Wang Qiang told Li Xia that his family would soon be demolished, and if Li Xia married him, he would be able to share an extra house, Li Xia's parents felt that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, so Li Xia and Wang Qiang went through the marriage procedures.
After getting married, Wang Qiang loved Li Xia as always, he took the initiative to do housework, cared for Li Xia everywhere, Li Xia enjoyed Wang Qiang's love with peace of mind, and she felt that she was the happiest woman under the heavens.
Li Xia has been insecure since she was a child, and she has a good and comfortable life, which she cherishes very much. She was worried that this happiness could not be maintained for a long time, and she was more worried that the handsome and handsome Wang Qiang would be robbed by other women, so she did a series of things that Wang Qiang could not accept.
She always looked at Wang Qiang's mobile phone, once she found that Wang Qiang and the opposite sex contacted her, she asked the bottom of the matter, and sometimes she deleted the contact information of those women without Wang Qiang's consent, and they had made a lot of awkward trouble because of this matter.
Later, the situation became more and more serious, Li Xia secretly installed a positioning on Wang Qiang's mobile phone, she always paid attention to Wang Qiang's trajectory, she did not find any abnormality, but she always felt that Wang Qiang and other women secretly communicated.
Last year, she installed a surveillance probe in front of her home, and she wanted to grasp Wang Qiang's every move in this way, and her behavior completely angered Wang Qiang.
Wang Qiang promised countless times that he would not betray the marriage, Li Xia did not believe it, she still insisted that Wang Qiang would do something sorry for her sooner or later. She wants to keep the marriage and keep Wang Qiang by her side forever, her intention is very good, but her behavior is very inappropriate.
At first, Wang Qiang could understand her, and he explained, persuaded, and promised Li Xia that what he had done not only had no effect, but had aroused Greater suspicion from Li Xia.
A person's patience is limited, and after all the efforts failed, Wang Qiang really couldn't stand it, and he began to solve the problem by force. Whenever there was a quarrel, Wang Qiang started to beat Li Xia, Li Xia often had a piece of blue and purple on her body, they did not give in to each other, the feelings of husband and wife fell sharply, and quarrels and cold wars became the norm of life.
Some time ago they had a big fight, Wang Qiang drove Li Xia out of the house, Li Xia was homeless, she could only rent a simple rental house, she went home from time to time to find Wang Qiang, Wang Qiang ignored it, he did not open the door and did not let Li Xia enter the door, their relationship was very stiff.
What surprised Li Xia even more was that Wang Qiang actually sued for divorce, he explained: "She is too suspicious, such a day is too torturous, I don't want to live with her anymore!" ”
Li Xia's parents know about Li Xia and Wang Qiang, they can't see Li Xia being wronged, they insist on letting Li Xia divorce, Li Xia can't get her husband's understanding, she can't get the support of her parents, she doesn't know what to do.
She squatted on the side of the road and cried bitterly, she said: "He is too handsome, I can't leave him, but he is too bullying, I really can't stand it!" The people around her all advised her to get a divorce, and she didn't agree anyway.
Wang Qiang said: "She often cries and cries in the middle of the night, she also seriously interferes in my life, I have never seen such a woman, I must divorce!" Wang Qiang knew that Li Xia cared about him very much, but he could not accept Li Xia's bitter entanglement, he could not feel happiness and happiness in such a marriage, but instead of endless pain and torture, he had an iron heart to divorce.
In desperation, Li Xia can only ask the media for help, she hopes to save the marriage, while trying to defend the first man in her life, more importantly, she does not want to lose the handsome Wang Qiang, her good intentions make people feel sad.
After the mediation of the staff, Li Xia realized her own problems, she understood the truth that "the tighter the sand is held, the faster it will be lost", and at the same time, she understood that husband and wife should respect each other and trust each other, she sincerely apologized to Wang Qiang, and she expressed her determination not to leave Wang Qiang.
In addition, Wang Qiang also has many problems, Li Xia is suspicious and willful, often nothing wrong, this is her shortcoming, but Wang Qiang should not be domestic violence, should not use a simple and rude way to deal with, which is not conducive to the solution of the problem will further intensify the contradiction, accelerate the breakdown of marriage.
In the process of mediation, Li Xia told Wang Qiang that she was pregnant, and they quarreled endlessly for 3 years after marriage, contradictions continued, the feelings of the husband and wife were very bad, they were not in the mood to have children, could the arrival of this child save their marriage?
Hearing this news, Wang Qiang showed a look of joy and surprise, he agreed to give each other a chance for the sake of the child, he promised to spend some time with Li Xia, if Li Xia could make changes, he would consider continuing to live with Li Xia. A marriage on the verge of breaking down has room for relaxation, which is really a gratifying thing.
Li Xia is 23 years old this year, she has only been in love once, and she is married to the handsome Wang Qiang, she cherishes this relationship quite much, she wants to bathe in love with Wang Qiang, and be together forever for a lifetime. Her ideas are understandable, but in the process of getting along, she unconsciously makes a lot of mistakes, and these mistakes are superimposed together and eventually made a big mistake.
First of all, the husband and wife should leave some space for each other, but she regards Wang Qiang as a personal item, she regards Wang Qiang too tightly, she always wants to control Wang Qiang in the palm of her hand, and her form of expressing love makes Wang Qiang feel suffocated.
Secondly, she distrusts Wang Qiang very much, in her opinion Wang Qiang is young and handsome, and there are many women who covet him, in order to prevent this from happening, she simply prevents Wei Du from strictly controlling Wang Qiang's every move, and her behavior brings considerable trouble to Wang Qiang.
Finally, Wang Qiang responded to her series of practices, he committed domestic violence against Li Xia, and he also offered to divorce. In the eyes of ordinary people, their feelings have broken down, and there is no need to maintain the marriage, but she is obsessed, she still fantasizes about continuing to live in an unhappy marriage, and her idea is too naïve.
Because the child Wang Qiang temporarily gave up the idea of divorce, if Li Xia did not make changes in time and tried to improve the relationship between husband and wife, their marriage is likely to repeat the same mistakes, even if the child is born Wang Qiang will also ask for divorce again, and it is too late for Li Xia to regret it at that time.
If you are Wang Qiang, can you tolerate what Li Xia has done? What is your opinion on this matter? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.