College is a good path, but it's by no means the only way.
The annual college entrance examination is coming, although the difference is that this year has been postponed by a month, but the same is the attention and attention of the people of the whole country.
Most of us have experienced the college entrance examination, the hope, courage, sweat, carnival of that hot summer day, and the parting of the next mountain and sea.
This college entrance examination, which bears the fate of the individual, and even the future of the whole family, really has too many topics to talk about.
Today's article is sent to the students who are about to take the college entrance examination, the stars do not ask the passers-by, and the time pays off. Normal heart, you win.
I wish every student to travel lightly and get what they want.
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Before we Chinese do things, we often say one word - God bless.
It's not superstition, it has nothing to do with superstition, it's just that we misinterpreted it.
If we want to be blessed by God, there is a condition, that is, we must fight for ourselves. This is also what the I Ching says: only by blessing from Heaven can there be no disadvantage.
Many people interpret self-blessing as blessing from heaven, but this is actually not true.
Heaven will not bless anyone, and if Heaven blesses someone, it will be unjust: bless Zhang San, what should Li Si do? It can be seen that we ourselves have misinterpreted it, and then we have been passing it down with false rumors.
Since God has blessed us, we have worked hard and God will help us, that is, God will help us.
We all know that at the moment when the moon is full, it is about to start to lack. When people seek perfection, they actually cannot live with themselves. But man must seek perfection.
That's why Confucius said: Take the Fa from the top, get the middle.
That is to say, people must have ideals, can not give up, and must do their best to do it. If you don't work hard, even if God wants to bless you, there is no way to start.
Many people say that we Chinese are very dependent and passive, and these are all wrong. Chinese didn't depend on anyone, because there were too many people to rely on.
We simply have nothing to rely on, think about it, and find that we are still relying on ourselves.
Therefore, no matter what you do in the college entrance examination or in the future, you must first fight for the anger yourself, and first go all out. I believe that every student with a dream has long been prepared, just waiting for the sword to be sheathed.
Then be normal, let the effort be put into words, and then wait for the flowers to blossom.
Because Heaven does not fail everyone who strives, opportunity does not give up everyone who is fully prepared.
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Because it is not easy to enter the university, both parents and children want to do their best to squeeze into the narrow door of the university, as if it is humiliating to not be admitted to the university, and there is no future.
In fact, going to college is a good way, but it is by no means the only way.
For our Chinese, whether or not to go to college is actually quite simple.
If you are admitted to a good university, you must do everything you can to read; if you can't pass the examination, you really don't have to make up for it and then make up for it, and you are desperate to squeeze into the university.
People who can read easily read well; if they must read so hard, simply give up.
In fact, everyone is born into this world, and each person has his own innate life plan, that is, the Mandate of Heaven.
Nature gives people a mission, so that they have their own differences and strengths, and then a lifetime to play and use, play different roles in society, and do different things throughout their lives.
Therefore, each of us will do different jobs and take different paths, just like someone is destined to go to college, and someone is destined to go another way.
Never compare yourself with others, and don't blindly learn from others. Because you are not him, he has come to practice his homework in this life, and you have come to practice your homework, and there is no comparison.
For the college entrance examination, some people succeed and some people fail, which is inevitable, because everyone's destiny is different.
Everyone is better off going their own way, no one should interfere with anyone, no one should laugh at anyone, you take your Yangguan Road, I cross my canoe bridge, you repair yours, I repair mine, we have places where we collide, and there are also places where we are independent.
The I Ching tells us that anything you want to gain, you will have gain, as long as you have gained, you will be auspicious.
Therefore, don't be proud of success, don't be discouraged when you fail, take it as a rare experience, and start the next journey of your life.
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After graduating from high school, about 18 years old, it should be more mature in all aspects, and some things should be prepared in advance.
If you want to be employed, you must prepare for employment, and if you want to go to university, you must prepare for college.
But whether you are preparing for college or employment, the basics of being a person should be solid.
The so-called basic is the ability to support itself. As long as it is an individual, it is necessary to support itself.
Why? Because then you have a sense of accomplishment, and only then will you have a sense of security when your economy is stable.
Therefore, when you go to college, or get employed, you can't be lazy, because everyone has to work.
Don't be afraid of suffering, because after suffering, your fighting spirit will be tempered.
Such a person will be welcome wherever he goes in the future, because he will have a sense of responsibility.
Therefore, especially parents, at this intersection of life, to help children to be self-reliant and self-reliant, they will open the sky, enter the university happily to study, do not take the exam and will not be inferior, and work hard.
Honestly speaking, it may be too late for a person to start a business to go to college, and it doesn't matter if many people don't follow up on their achievements in a lifetime.
The college entrance examination is an opportunity to change your destiny and a watershed in your life.
Life is a series of choices, and this choice is the fate of a lifetime. So, start now and make every choice carefully.
Finally, best wishes to this year's candidates:
May everyone write about the glory of the future;
May everyone go through a thousand sails and finally get what they want;
May this glittering history of struggle become the pride of your life!