#True Love Lies##Marriage##Cheating##情感头条 #
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Someone asked, "I've been married for a long time, but I now feel like I've met my spiritual partner, should I get a divorce?" “
I remember seeing a saying: "When you are hesitant in the face of choice, please choose what you already have." “
Because, you don't get it to feel good, even if you get it, you won't feel good. What's more, it is under the premise of losing what you already have.
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I often see people complaining: "Before marriage, my wife is obviously a very quiet person, why does she become particularly nagging about everything after marriage?" “
In fact, no one in this world wants to nag you. Because, this matter, one, requires time cost, but requires a lot of effort.
Think about it, the mother's nagging to the child. How many children are able to hear the heart after nagging?
A person is willing to nag you because she cares about you, she is living with you in a down-to-earth manner, and she needs to talk to you about these things.
Assuming you're doing everything well, then, no one wants to nag you. It is precisely because you have a problem that someone will talk about you.
You can not listen, the other party can also not say. Even, you can live like a roommate, is that really what you want to see?
Marriage or life, if everything becomes silent, that is the real problem.
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In fact, everyone who cheats in marriage is nothing more than to pursue temporary emotional sustenance.
Because the other half of the family has seen enough, when he feels that others are close to him, he will be gentle and considerate, and he will understand his own thoughts.
However, when you first got married, didn't you choose to marry because you felt that the other party was considerate and suitable for you? Otherwise, why would you want to get married?
The 'yellow-faced woman' that you now dislike was once the object of other people's pursuit, and she became what she is now for you.
Suppose you really fall in love with the person outside, then why are you still clinging to this marriage? You're just trying to find a balance.
You want to be cared for by your wife at home, and you want to get the cold and cold from the person outside. But under the heavens, there are so many good things.
So, betrayal is betrayal. The occurrence of this thing is your insatiable greed, and life should have been sacrificed, and it is impossible for everything to be as you wish.
So don't feel like you've met your spiritual partner after marriage, you're just constantly, using moral boundaries, to prove yourself cheap.
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Someone said, "Our family has never had these problems, but my other half has betrayed me." “
In these cases, it's usually a couple's relationship or something is wrong, and both of you are constantly running away from the problem.
He doesn't want to solve the problem, you try to avoid talking about it, so the problem will only get bigger and bigger, and finally it will reach the point of no end.
In fact, there is no relationship between a couple that will not produce any rifts, because everyone is a life of chai rice oil and salt, there are problems, it is very normal.
The key is how the two parties in the marriage resolve the issue when the problem arises. Can you reach a settlement or negotiate a solution?
No matter what you are together for, since you have put on a wedding ring and promised to live your life, you always have to pay for this relationship.
After all, the family is not supported by one person, and in the same way, the harmony and stability of marriage also require the joint efforts of two people.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" >4. True love is cherished</h1>
Of course, in this world, there is never any so-called true love, we just can do it and cherish the people around us.
Don't wait until you lose it before you feel regret it. Because, disappointed people, even if you look back, you can't find the original him.
Love is not easy, marriage is even more difficult. Choose carefully and treat the pillow person who is in the same boat with you.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.