When love loses its enthusiasm, we all want to find someone else to try, or can this one arouse my enthusiasm?
My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. Since I had to rely on others for a lot of things, I ate with a boy in my class and completed group assignments together, and I was close to him that semester.
One day the boy's whole dorm room added my friend and asked me if I meant to develop with him, and I was actually very impressed, but I didn't say it directly.
I envy other people who eat with their boyfriends every day, envy others who go to and from class with their boyfriends, and I just have a boyfriend who lives on the phone, nothing, and looks at it with no end in sight.
Once, a boy in our class said to me: "Jiang Mengyao, you don't have to worry so much, even if you have a boyfriend, you can try it first!" "I'm on the verge of falling. I don't know what my heart really thinks.
But my boyfriend, in the days when I was sick, immediately skipped class from a far away city to take care of me. That sense of familiarity and security was irreplaceable by anyone, and from that moment on, I knew what I wanted inside.
After graduation...
Mom said, your boyfriend, can't be a big deal. Jiang Mengyao immediately turned his face, slammed the door, hid in his room, and did not come out.
Li Jiawei will definitely have a bright future, he can speak eloquently, he is capable, and he is self-motivated. Most of all will take care of me.
Jiang Mengyao felt that this matter of looking at love, the eyes of her mother, was really a bit... Otherwise, how could she have found a man like her father who was at ease with her encounters?
In love for more than a year, see Jiang Mengyao really like, when Li Jiawei came to the door, Jiang Mengyao's mother was also enthusiastic in the kitchen, Jiang Mengyao was happy, pushed her mother out of the kitchen, said I cook with my father, you and Li Jiawei talk.
When the meal was served, Jiang Mengyao felt that Jiang Mengyao's mother's face was a little wrong, and her smile was a little embarrassed.
After Li Jiawei left, Jiang's mother said, Yao Yao, this little Li told me, you are not a person who can live a life.
It turned out that the crux of the matter was here, Jiang Mengyao pulled her mother and said, what is this, he always said to me, saying that I am a spoiled baby by you, and I will definitely rely on him to live in the future.
Mom, you can rest assured.
When talking about marriage, Jiang Mengyao and Li Jiawei ate together, and Li's mother kept praising Jiang Mengyao.
But back home, Mother Jiang said, Yao Yao, if you are really married, you will have to rely on yourself in the future, and Mother Li will not be able to help.
Jiang Mengyao brushed her lips, and Mother Li said that after giving birth to a child, she would bring it.
In the second year of marriage, Jiang Mengyao gave birth to a baby. The baby is one year old, Jiang Mengyao began to work, handing the baby over to the smiling mother-in-law.
On the third day, as soon as Jiang Mengyao pushed the door after work, she saw her mother-in-law lying on the bed and the baby sitting on the ground. A month later, the mother-in-law said that she was unwell, could not take the child, and left.
Mother Jiang dragged her body that had just undergone surgery to bring Jiang Mengyao a child, but she never said anything, your mother-in-law seems to be unable to help you.
In the third year of marriage, Li Jiawei became busier and busier at work, and his temper became bigger and bigger. A quarrel Li Jiawei shouted, you are not a person who can live a life at all. Jiang Mengyao cried, and she remembered what Jiang's mother had said long ago.
In the seventh year of marriage, Li Jiawei's career has not yet developed much, and Jiang Mengyao no longer imagines Li Jiawei's bright future.
Jiang Mengyao said, Mom, how do you know everything?
Mother Jiang said that you are looking at the people around you with love glasses, and I am using my own eyes to see your love.
I really should have listened to you.
Although Li Jiawei has not made great achievements, he is good to you, good to his children, and has a sense of responsibility, and you are also happy.
It's true?
When you get to my age, you'll be able to see it. Mother Jiang suddenly said with embarrassment, in fact, your grandmother once did not see my love well. Jiang Mengyao and Mother Jiang laughed together.
Girl, we often see the world through love, in love, we see people and things, because of the increase in imagination, increase in concentration, so, lose their authenticity.
But one day, love and passion fade, and we will know that people, things, and love are the way they are. Like, girl, one day, you will also use your mother's eyes to see love.
When the pressure of life and work hits, life is thrown to the ground, and the mess is exhausted.
At this time, what the two people need more is not passion, but to go together, to share weal and woe, and not to give up.
Under the grind of life, love and affection have been fused together, and stupidity cannot be distinguished.
After experiencing the initial intensity and sweetness, the marriage gradually faded in the rice, oil, salt and trivialities of life.
The two people who were originally passionate at the beginning witnessed each other's growth in the process, and even all the advantages and disadvantages slowly and even assimilated into one person.
I often hear people talk about "husband and wife". Two people who are not related by blood, where there is any "husband and wife", is nothing more than living together for a long time, hobbies are similar, personalities are complementary, and the style of dressing and dressing is approaching.
Each other has penetrated into life.
In the early days of love, like "Chunjiao and Zhiming", dare to love and dare to hate, passion is continuous, and later like "Chunjiao Saves Zhiming", after 8 years, there will be disagreements and quarrels, but Chunjiao always has Zhiming in her heart, and Zhiming is exactly the same.
But true love is not a temporary favor, but a long stream that knows that after three or five years, it will lose its passion, but it is still necessary to stick to it.