"Golden Wedding" enlightenment

After watching the golden marriage, I think that there are really too many similarities in families with many children, such as son preference, fathers like their first daughters, mothers want sons more, etc. My birth brought disappointment to my parents, the feeling of disappointed expectations! Every pregnant woman will have different feelings, when my mother was pregnant with me, she felt too different from the first child, full of hope, feeling that it must be a boy, but when I fell to the ground, the midwife said that it was a girl, and my mother's disappointment could be imagined. So much so that I don't know what time I was born until now, I guess my mother was disappointed at the time and didn't want to know the time, and then deliberately forgot that painful moment!

From the little sister's clothes are many, I only have one set, I have to wash my own clothes frequently, otherwise I will be scolded because my clothes are dirty! At the age of six, I would wash my sister and myself, cook for my sister and take care of her! When I was almost forty years old, I still remember what color the clothes were, the huge laundry basin where the clothes were washed, the cold water, this is the child of the poor family! The memories are all ahead of the curve, my child just can't remember the things of last year very clearly, only remember where he went to play, there is no particularly profound and clear event!

Junior high school on the school I have never eaten enough, that feeling of hunger is still fresh in my memory, every month the family only gives a hundred food expenses, holidays also have to bring things to the family, so accurate to each meal is one yuan, breakfast does not eat to save a dollar, you can take some vegetables home when you go home on vacation, so that my mother will not hang on my lips from time to time for me to continue to go to school, making me nervous. This kind of uneaten days lasted until I went to college, and finally the golden phoenix flew out of the ravine, and I became the talk of the whole village after tea, and became the parents who raised their heads and no longer humbled for having three children. Having three daughters became their proudest thing, and the daughters did not have to spend a penny to get married to make them stand up.