In a person's life, he is faced with many choices. It is our choice yesterday that has made us who we are today, what we have today, and what we live today. And our choices today will affect us tomorrow and affect our lives tomorrow. The right choice makes people happy and happy, while the wrong choice makes people go astray or even irreparable. Choice determines a person's fate.
Choice is a natural ability of human beings, it does not need to undergo special training or education, nor does it need to have special qualifications or wealth and power to use it successfully, it does not distinguish between rich and poor, noble and lowly, regardless of origin, it is the greatest ability that everyone is born with, and all people can master it and use it. If we can face up to the existence of this power and begin to use it, our lives can be completely improved, it can fully conform to our own ideals, it will be able to turn failure into success, cowardice into self-confidence, impetuosity into calmness, uneasiness into stability, it can make our wounded hearts peaceful, it can make our troubled and overwhelmed lives come back to life, and become happy and happy.
There is a story about an American, a Frenchman and a Jew who were imprisoned together for three years. Before serving their sentences, the warden promised that they could meet each person's one request. Americans love to smoke cigars, so they asked for three boxes of cigars. The French have a romantic personality and want a beautiful woman to accompany them. The Jew, on the other hand, asked for a telephone so he could communicate with the outside world. The warden complied with their requests one by one.
At the end of their three-year sentence, they were all released. The first to rush out was the American, who shouted as he ran, "Give me fire, give me fire!" "It turned out he had forgotten to light the lighter.
Then came the Frenchman, who saw a small child in his hand, a beautiful woman with a small child in her hand, and a third in her belly.
The last to come out was the Jew, who clasped the hand of the warden and said, "For the past three years, I have been in daily contact with the outside world, and the profits of my business have not only not declined, but have tripled, and as a token of gratitude, I will send you a Rolls-Royce!" ”
The choices of the three people are different, so their lives and destinies are also different. At the fork in the road of life, how a person's future is, whether he can achieve his life goals, and reach the other side of the ideal depends on his choice. No one is born to be doomed to do what they can and cannot do in the future, and when everyone is born, they are like a blank piece of paper, and what kind of life trajectory will be depicted on this white paper is determined by countless choices.
Although we cannot control external changes, we can master the ability to make choices; and to master this power can make ourselves and those around us feel interesting and meaningful.
Many people don't have the power to make too many choices a lot of times, but we can choose to make ourselves as good as possible. Don't take your own choices lightly, today we treat life casually, maybe tomorrow life will treat us very casually.