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Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
What is the pattern, the pattern is our vision and method of looking at the world. The pattern also determines our vision and opportunities. An adult with a pattern, standing tall and seeing farther, can help us embrace a larger world.
So how do we become a patterned person and share three effective methods with you.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" >01 learn to empathize </h1>
Pattern is, in a way, a manifestation of one's insight. The more insightful people are, the more they can have a larger pattern, and this insight is a kind of self-examination and self-expansion based on the environment.
Learning to think in empathy is the premise of our pattern. In fact, in life you will find that if a person is very self-sufficient, then often his pattern is very small, because he considers the gains and losses of individuals.
And a person who knows how to think differently tends to think about more people. Pattern is, in a way, the result of expanding horizons and ways of thinking.
You are immersed in the world of one person, and the world you enter into the world of many people, the world you feel and the world you see are different. For example, if you are immersed in a person's world, you will invisibly magnify a lot of things, whether it is failure or success, it will make us magnify.
We magnify failure and think we're particularly bad, and we magnify success and think we're particularly bad. In fact, these amplified results not only fail to help us know ourselves, but also make us begin to lose.
So if you want to improve the pattern, the best way is to learn to empathize, the stronger your ability to empathize, the bigger your pattern.
Marx once said that he had all the shortcomings of others, and it was precisely because he understood so many people that he would write a profound "Capital" out.
If we want to improve the pattern, we must first learn to think in empathy, which is the first important way for us to expand the pattern, through this method, let us know more people and see the bigger world.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" >02 learn the theory of evolution and read the trends of development </h1>
If we want to improve the pattern, we also need to learn the theory of evolution. Evolution is a trend, an unstoppable trend.
Evolution tells us that human development is continuously moving forward, and this progress will make our minds continue to move forward, and it will make our minds more open and inclusive.
Zhang Quanling once said that we want to dance with the times, if we don't dance with the times, when the times abandon you one day, we won't even pit you.
Evolution is actually a process of opening people's hearts in a certain way, and it is also a process of releasing the self. We need to grasp this trend, which is the foundation of our expansion pattern.
The fundamental way to expand the pattern is to understand the trend of society and human nature and people's hearts, and the closer we understand the trend, the more naturally our pattern will become larger and larger.
The so-called pattern is essentially to understand what the direction of human development is from the perspective of sentient beings. What we have to think about is how society can get better, and as we move in that direction, your future will be fully open.
Learning the theory of evolution is essentially a deep understanding that the individual is only a microscopic shadow in front of the times, and if we read the evolution of life, we will not wander, but know how to move forward.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" > connect the larger world from the point of view of compassion</h1>
If a person wants to expand his own pattern, what he also needs to expand is his compassion. Compassion is fundamental to the pattern we build.
Without compassion, our pattern cannot continue to expand. In fact, whether it's an entrepreneur or an individual's continuous iteration, you'll find that compassion is a profound wisdom.
A person with compassion, often soft at heart, is full of love and warmth for the world. Compassion is the key to our connection to the world.
A person with compassion in his heart tends to be more likely to understand others and to connect with them. In fact, both philosophers and many religions have articulated the idea that there is a lot of suffering in life.
This suffering is the community of our human destiny, and compassionate people will establish a common connection with each other through human commonality, and through this connection, we will help us enter each other's world.
The more people you connect with, the more information you have, and naturally your pattern will get bigger and bigger.
The broader the pattern has a lot to do with the information we connect, the more extensive the information we connect, the more we will not be defeated by the little annoyance in front of us, but know how to use the pattern to achieve a greater cause.
In essence, expanding the pattern has a lot to do with our understanding of the breadth of the world, wong Kar Wai once said that a person's life is the process of seeing himself, seeing heaven and earth, and seeing sentient beings.
The pattern of a person is the same, we find our own place by seeing ourselves, seeing the heavens and the earth, seeing sentient beings, and using the theory of evolution to continue to add value to this era, you can become the best version of yourself.
Today's topic: What do you think are the ways to improve the pattern, welcome to discuss and exchange.