Wen Li and Zhuang Sister-in-law in "Golden Marriage" did not deal with it when they were young. Wen Li permed her hair and wore a beautiful braji, and the neighbors praised it, only Zhuang Sister-in-law dismantled the stage vigorously, "Where is the youth?" Most of the people on my side are 30 years old, and we are 32 years old there."
Wen Li went home angrily, and every few days, she actually saw that sister-in-law Zhuang was wearing the exact same Braji. Someone asked Sister-in-law Zhuang, "Did you learn from Teacher Wen?" Sister-in-law Zhuang said triumphantly, "You said it was not good-looking, right?" ”
Wen Li went home and threw a tantrum at her husband Tong Zhi, "She knows to learn from me, I wear a braji, she wears a braji, making me look in the mirror all day, or a haha mirror!" ”
Zhuang Sister-in-law's man Dazhuang and Wenli's husband Tong Zhi are a colleague of the factory, or a good brother, but why did Zhuang and Wenli pinch each other for a lifetime, and why did they eventually become good girlfriends?
1, Wen Li's cousin Mei Mei made a big fuss about Zhuang Sister-in-law's wedding, which made Zhuang Sister-in-law hate Wen Li
On the day of Sister-in-law Zhuang's big day, Wen Li's cousin Mei Mei made a big fuss at the wedding scene, shouting that he clearly loved me, but he married another woman!
At that time, Zhuang's sister-in-law was still a yellow flower girl from a foreign countryside, and she had been engaged to Dazhuang for 12 years, and she was inferior and timid in strange Beijing.
She sat in the corner with tears in her eyes, and Mei mei's cousin Wen Li said with the idea of a new woman: Engaged for 12 years? Engaged at 14? Fourteen-year-old marriages are certainly feudal marriages arranged by parents and should be criticized! Marriage without love is an immoral marriage!
Of course, Sister-in-law Zhuang hated the "third party" Mei Mei in her heart, and even hated Wen Li together, thinking that such a little third sister would not have any good sister.
2, after marriage, Wen Li and Zhuang's sister-in-law's lifestyle makes each other unaccustomed
Wen Li is a Beijing girl, a primary school math teacher, beautiful and temperamental, and feels good about herself. Sister-in-law Zhuang came up from the countryside in the field, with a big waist and a round waist, and she had no job in her mother, and she couldn't see Wen Li's petty bourgeoisie.
Sister-in-law Zhuang used to show off in the water room, I also went to work, my leader was good to me, I earned no less than the primary school teacher!
Wen Li is pregnant and eats dried sour apricots, and Sister-in-law Zhuang said "half a favor and half kindness", what is this nutrition? Go, go up to my house, I'll get you a bowl, soybean stewed pig's trotters!
Sister-in-law Zhuang also deliberately knocked over Wen Li's laundry board, and rushed Wen Li back with a loud voice, who has no education, what is called education! Shout out to a group of neighbors to see the joke.
Wen Li can't look up to Zhuang Sister-in-law, speaks vulgarly, bucket waist, rural feudal remnants, but also envies her giving birth to a son, will live a life; Zhuang sister-in-law also can't look up to Wen Li, petty bourgeoisie thinks of herself as high, paid to watch movies first to buy clothes and perm her hair, but she does not plan her days, meat can't eat, of course, she also envies Tong Zhi so painful Wen Li, and Wen Li gave birth to several beautiful girls.
3, the care for the next generation in the difficult years broke the deadlock
Sister-in-law Zhuang is not a bad person, her dissatisfaction with Wenli did not turn to the child, and even she was particularly fond of Wenli's daughter.
Wen Li's daughter Yanni ate a little bit of whizzing rice, and she said, it's okay, my aunt made a bowl of peppery soup, and it would be good to turn around and fart.
Worried that Wen Li's daughter had nothing to play with, she found a little rabbit to make the child happy.
Wen Li is the same, Sister-in-law Zhuang is out of the confinement, Wen Li went to visit, but also can't help but hug and tease.
Sister-in-law Zhuang and Wen Li are both mothers, and children are the softest parts of each other's hearts. The grudges of the previous generation have turned into the love of the next generation, and little by little they have worn away their sharpest edges.
4, mutual understanding in the midlife crisis
In middle age, Sister-in-law Zhuang met Mei Mei again, she and Dazhuang pulled and pulled, but Wen Li went forward to pull her cousin away. Several people theorized, the contradiction escalated, and Sister-in-law Zhuang angrily slapped Meimei, but she hit Wen Li in the face, almost beating her into a concussion.
Mei Mei angrily wanted to report the crime, but Wen Li stopped her and loudly reprimanded her cousin: You are not allowed to go, are you not ashamed? I only know today that I am used to you being wrong, I should have beaten you and scolded you a long time ago, why are you so ignorant? I want you to make a promise that you will never meet this man (Dazhuang) again!
It was also this time that Zhuang Sister-in-law and Wen Li were completely reconciled, and Sister-in-law Zhuang said, to tell the truth, I used to hate you, on your cousin's matter, I made a fuss about my wedding day, but from now on I don't hate you, I know that you are not to people, from now on you will not hate you no matter how much you treat me, we are good!
That is, after that, when Tong Zhi was also facing a midlife crisis, Sister-in-law Zhuang also really stood on Wen Li's side: Teacher Wen was beautiful, in good shape, and culture!
The long river of marriage is not easy for anyone, whether it is a Beijing girl Wenli or a foreign rural girl Zhuang Sister-in-law, they pinch each other for a lifetime, and when they are young, those who are full of stature and appearance are small things.
Stumbling down to find that in that special era, living a good life, raising children, and running a good marriage were the most important - after becoming girlfriends, they fought side by side and crossed the river of years.