Li Fu's son was admitted to a prestigious university, and Li Fu was so happy that he danced with joy, and then he actually lay on the table and cried.

This reminds me of Fan Jinzhongju, who was extremely happy and crazy, and fortunately was woken up by the father-in-law Hu Butcher. The middle lift will bring corresponding social status and economic benefits. The appearance before and after Fan Jinzhong's move has indeed changed greatly. Even his father-in-law changed his previous contempt and trampling and became a promise. Others and others are even more flattered, afraid that he will have power in the future and will be able to rely on some. Snobbery at a glance!
Someone said:
When you get fame and fortune, think that all this is impermanent, not eternal, and you will not get carried away.
When you suffer, think that all this is impermanent, not eternal, and you will not be miserable.
When you find that all of this is impermanent, the mood will become more and more calm. Nothing on earth will stay forever!
But the truth is that very few people can do it. When a parent, child, or relative becomes an official, he becomes arrogant and cannot live forever. Once out of power, it becomes dejected. It is often easy to go to extremes.
How to stay humble between gain and loss is also an important lesson in life that needs to learn to practice.