Reading: In "Ode to Joy", Andy Wei Wei is the most suitable, why did he marry Bao Yifan in the end?

At that time, watching TV Ode to Joy, I regretted that Andy Weiwei's love result was not understood and regretted...

Andy Wei Wei two people have similar IQ, love is in tune, the two love each other, talk about everything, Andy told Wei Wei everything without concealment, but Wei Wei is still willing to accept the consequences of her possible mental abnormality. However, the result of the two was that Wei Wei was inferior to Bao Yifan, who had inserted a bar.

Later, after reading the original book, I saw the meaning that could not be played on TV.

Andy has a high IQ, but when she was a child, her mother went crazy for love, which has always been a thorn in her heart, constantly stimulating her, and she did not dare to talk about feelings for thirty years. Every contact with Wei Wei and Bao Yifan is actually a process of constantly breaking through her previous cognition. Wei Wei made a whetstone, and finally handed over his lover to someone.

Wei Wei and Bao Yifan two to compare, Wei Wei as a founding generation, plus a few years ago experienced between life and death, experience and experience, to deal with things flowing; Bao Yifan as a rich second generation, although a little enterprising, but the ability is average, the biggest feature is that the emotional intelligence is very high, Qu Xiaoxiu inquired about is Bao Yifan's various affairs, and the girlfriend finally became a friend, from this point of view, Bao Yifan is actually a bit of scum. Comparing the two men, I think Wei Wei is completely better than Bao Yifan.

But Wei Wei lost in the past of Andy that he knew too much, and when dealing with feelings, he was too rational, and his heart was too deep, so he felt not sincere enough when he fell in love, which made Andy doubtful, said too much, did too little, even the two were in the same bed, Wei Wei was actually inferior.

Until it was truly confirmed that Andy was asleep. Singularity turned his almost stiff neck and looked at Andy. The night light line was assured, and for the first time he could clearly see what Andy looked like when he was asleep. During the day, her expression was very light, many people thought she was arrogant, the shelf was big, but the singularity knew that she had always been like this, and she didn't even have a fox charm when the two of them were private. He just couldn't imagine that Andy was sleeping with a slight frown. Having experienced so much since childhood, which smart person will not have no heart and no lungs when he grows up. Singularity just watched, didn't reach out.

On the contrary, Bao Yifan did not know Andy's past, and the ignorant were fearless, regardless of what they did, but took advantage. See the original text:

Bao Yifan smiled and slowly floated over, like a flower and willow, and came to Andy's side. But as he approached, he couldn't help but pause, he knew what was going to happen, he had never been a gentleman. But he was still righteous.

Before Andy's third "NO" could be shouted, the newly unveiled meat bun aerosol had surrounded her, and the air around her was forced out, and Andy was suffocating, and her head was blank. When it came time to breathe fresh air again, Andy found himself very unbearably clinging to Bao Yifan's bare arms.

Love has always been like this, when the opportunity comes, we must seize it, not only to be moved but also to act. Not only is there someone else in this society to interrupt your pursuits, but there are so many things that can disrupt your plans...

In fact, love has a personal purpose, just like Andy himself said at the end of the book: the fear in my heart accumulates day by day, deep into the bone marrow. So I hope that someone can pull her out of this state, and Wei Wei's heart is too deep and does not conform, and Bao Yifan's shameless cheeky face is very suitable for her. Since she was the referee, Wei Wei would be out sooner or later.