Text/Zhao Xinfang
(Yu Hewei version of Cao Cao)
You Heng was a famous scholar in the Three Kingdoms period, counting the dragon among people, but he was too willful, regardless of time, harmony and object of casual scolding, scolding everyone hated him, scolding himself at the age of 26 and losing his life.
I really wouldn't die if I didn't die.
<h1>(1) You Heng's most famous scolding was to scold Cao Cao, and the scolding made Cao Cao lose face</h1>
When You Heng was 20 years old, Kong Rong wrote the "Table of Recommending You Heng" and recommended You Heng to Cao Cao. Cao Cao was a man of talent, and having heard of You Heng's fame, he recruited him to be an official. You pretend to be sick and don't go.
It is not surprising that the literati and celebrities used these reasons to be sick. Cao Cao summoned several more times, but he still ignored him.
Cao Cao was indignant, knowing that he could beat the drum, so he deliberately summoned him to be a drum officer, that is, a person who specialized in drumming.
(You Heng)
One day, he arranged to review the drum songs of the drum historians, hoping to humiliate him in front of the civil and military officials. You Heng actually came that day. According to the regulations, the drum historians must take off their original clothes and change into the special costumes of the drum history to play and meet Cao Cao. You Heng did not change his clothes and went to the temple, playing the drum song of "Yuyang", his appearance and performance posture are different, the rhythm of the drum song is tragic, and the people who hear it are all emotional.
After You Heng finished playing, the subordinate scolded: Why don't you change your clothes and dare to play Jinmi? You Heng shouted good, so he took off his clothes and walked naked to Cao Cao and scolded. He scolded Cao Cao for not being right in his heart and concealing usurpation, for not reading poetry and books with a dirty mouth, for not being able to read poetry and books, for being blind in his eyes, for not being able to listen to advice. Calling himself a famous man in the world, but using him as a drummer, he is the most vulgar person in the world!
You Heng scolded for a while and did not relieve his anger, and sprayed the people in Cao Cao's camp next to each other: Xun Yu could only go to the grave and comfort the sick, Xun Yu watched the tomb to guard the tomb, Cheng Yu was the gatekeeper, Guo Jia was a teacher, Zhang Liao went to fight the drumming and Mingjin, Xu Chu went to herd cattle and horses, Le Jin was a servant of yamen, Li Dian went to pass books to send a book, Lü Qian went to sharpen his sword and forge a sword, Yu Ban went to back the stone to build a wall, Xu Huang slaughtered pigs and killed dogs... The rest are not worth nominating, they are hangers, rice sacks, wine barrels, and meat bags!
The faces of the civil and military officials present could not be hung up, and the great general Zhang Liao got up and drew his sword to kill him, but was stopped by Cao Cao with a wave of his hand.
You Heng still did not keep his mouth shut, and the more he scolded, the more vigorous he became, and he looked back at the various crimes of Cao Cao's unauthorized power and chaos, the disaster of the country and the people, and even his family background from the eunuch came out and scolded him. This story of "drumming and cursing Cao" has been passed down for thousands of years.
At that time, Kong Rong was not present, and when he came back to know about this matter, he counted You Heng and said that Cao Cao was sincere to you. You Heng was embarrassed by his face, so he had to agree to make amends to Cao Cao. Kong Rong hurried to see Cao Cao and said that You Heng was madly ill, and he woke up and asked to apologize.
Cao Cao was happy, and ordered the gatekeeper to report that when a guest came, he would quickly report it, but in the middle of the night, he saw You Heng dressed in civilian clothes, holding a three-foot-long staff in his hand, sitting at the gate of the camp, and beating Cao Cao with a large staff. Cao Cao was so angry when he heard this that he almost couldn't hang up.
(Cao Cao and Guo Jia)
<h1>(2) Cao Cao did not want to ruin the reputation of Guang's talents, and had a ruse of killing people with a knife</h1>
Cao Cao was so angry that he bit his teeth and really wanted to kill him, but he also thought that if he killed him, he would be scolded by others for not having a stomach, which would affect the recruitment of talents and be detrimental to his career. Cao Cao's cleverness came to him, thinking that Liu Biao was short-tempered, so he introduced You Heng to work at Liu Biao in Jingzhou.
Liu Biao already knew about You Heng's reputation and wanted to get to know him, and now he came to be his subordinate, and he smiled happily. According to the current words, he is concerned about him politically, he is taken care of in life, and his talents are brought into full play in his work.
You did a good job at the beginning of the balance period, and what makes people sigh is that the old problems were quickly committed.
Once Liu Biao and a few literati were discussing writing a sonata, after You Heng arrived at the scene, he picked up the sonata by himself and glanced at it, and then threw it on the ground after tearing it three times and tearing it twice, Liu Biao was annoyed and ashamed, but he realized that this was Cao Cao's strategy of borrowing a knife to kill people, and he could not be deceived. The old traitorous Liu Biao sent him to Jiangxia Taishou Huangzu to seek a post.
(Huang Zu)
Huang Zuliang was hired and put him in the business of writing a recital. In terms of level, You Heng handled these affairs like a small dish, and handled them very properly, and Huang Zu was very satisfied.
Soon Huang Zu was entertaining guests on the boat, and You Heng could not control his mouth, and frequently made nonsense at the table, which made Huang Zu unbearable, so he reprimanded him in public.
You Heng gritted his teeth and stared at Huang Zu and scolded the dead old man. Huang Zu was very angry. You Heng was followed by another scolding. Huang Zu, who was born in the army, was not as good as Cao Cao and Liu Biao's belly and scheming, and after his anger reached the extreme, he drank the order and took it down and cut it. Huang Zu's master book has always hated You Heng, and when You Heng was taken ashore, he ordered his immediate execution.
It is said that Huang Zu felt inappropriate after a while and ran out of the cabin barefoot to rescue him, but unfortunately did not catch up. Huang Zu was very distressed and buried You Heng thickly.
<h1>(3) Woohoo, you Heng, Kong Rong, Yang Xiu's three friends became friends of the three difficulties</h1>
You Hengzi Zhengping, a native of Pingyuan County (present-day Deping Town, Linyi, Dezhou, Shandong), had a straightforward and arrogant personality from an early age, and liked to discuss current affairs and belittle others.
During the Jian'an period of Emperor Xian of Han, he came to Xudu to study. Just arrived in Yingchuan (present-day Xuchang), there was a carved wooden board hidden on his body, because he could not be appreciated for a long time, he could not find a way to find employment, so that the thorn characters on the board were blurred.
At that time, Xudu had just been established, and many readers came here from all over the world to seek a career.
Someone asked You Heng, why don't you go to Chen Changwen (Chen Qun) and Sima Boda (Sima Lang)? You Heng said contemptuously, how can I make friends with people who kill pigs and sell meat? Someone asked him how Xun Wenruo (荀彧) and Zhao Zhichang (Zhao Rong) were? You Heng said: You can borrow Xun Wenruo's face to mourn (jokingly refers to Xun Yu's weeping and mourning face), and Zhao Zhichang can let him manage the kitchen meals (ironically Zhao Rong is talentless).
You Heng is proud of his talents and will not live in harmony with others, which is strange to say, but he also has two good friends - Kong Rong and Yang Xiu. Even if you are a good friend, You Heng has never spared them in his mouth. He once said that the eldest son, Kong Wenju, and the younger child, Yang Dezu, these two people are okay, and the rest of the people are mediocre and mediocre, and it is not worth mentioning.
(Kong Rong)
In fact, Kong Rong was twenty years older than him.
Kong Rong mainly admired You Heng's knowledge before becoming friends with him. Kong Rong has nothing to say except to let the story of the pear pass on for thousands of years.
Kong Rong was often opposed to Cao Cao's policies and was killed by Cao Cao because of his arrogance.
Yang Xiu was even more miserable, he had made a big mistake when he went to support Cao Zhi, and he still did something stupid to be clever, because the chicken ribs gave his life.
Your Heng's energy was not as big as these two brothers from the Hao clan, so why were they also killed? In a word, it is too much to scold people!
ay! It seems that a person, even if he is highly respected and talented, must also learn to cultivate his self-cultivation and control his mouth!
(Cao Cao, Xun Yu, Cao Zhi, Guo Jia)
【About the author】Zhao Xinfang, pen name Zhao Shi, has been engaged in a variety of types of work and a variety of enterprise management work. In recent years, he has published novels, essays, poems, and nursery rhymes on the Internet and in local newspapers and periodicals. He is a member of Chongqing Nan'an District Writers Association.
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