In the world of feelings, it is true that meeting the right person can be long and long, whitehead to old age, but when encountering the wrong person, it should be more simply and crisply, and it is better to forget each other than to forget each other, but this "forgetting in the rivers and lakes" is easy to say, and it is really done that the parties must have experienced a period of unforgettable nirvana and growth.
Just yesterday, September 11, Chen Fara's ex-husband Xue Shiheng, who was once a new way junior, suddenly posted a photo of himself on his social network with his new girlfriend dragging his hands.
Looking back at this group photo, although Xue Dashao's girlfriend wore ink chao to show people, basically could not see the appearance of the facial features, but only look at the appearance of this woman, she is tall, fair-skinned, and seems to be a big beauty who is on par with Faraz.
No wonder when the reporter contacted Xue Shiheng, the other party generously admitted that he had a new relationship, and directly announced the engagement: "So happy to share with you that I am engaged to Cherie, we have been together for a while, there are common beliefs and topics, she supports me behind every step, I think now the time is right for us to identify each other's relationship, because the girlfriend is an outsider, so it is inconvenient for me to disclose too much of her information, I hope you understand, thank you for your concern and blessings!" ”
Seeing that "my ex-husband got engaged and finally forgot me", I suddenly felt extremely relaxed for Chen Fara, all because when it came to the failed marriage between Chen Fara and Xue Shiheng, maybe everyone saw the beginning, saw the ending, but did not see the follow-up.
Yes, the beginning of the love between the two began with the "equal transaction of the appearance of the rich woman" between the female star and the rich man, but this equivalent transaction was ultimately invincible to the difference.
Xue Shiheng was born in a very traditional Old money Hong Kong tycoon, although he is not an arrogant and overbearing president, but he can not withstand the pressure of the strong and snobbish original family behind him.
It is said that at that time, the Xue family, who originally looked down on Farah's female star status, asked the star daughter-in-law to follow the three from four virtues of the Niangdao era, specifically to the husband as the guideline, pass on the generations, and go against the grain.
But since she grew up in a foreign country and seen Farah in the big world of the flower universe, she could not do anything about the requirements of her husband's family, she was not willing to give up her acting career, retired to the second line early to have children, and even hid it when she got married.
In the process of fighting between Farah and the Xue family, xue Shiheng has the ability to protect his wife and save the small family.
Unfortunately, the strength of this Xue family in all aspects was unremarkable, he could not escape the palm of his parents' economic jurisdiction, but he was also ridden on the head by his younger brother Xue Jialin, who was at the helm of power, and even Xue Jialin's wife Zhuge Ziqi could be a blessing in front of Farah.
Seeing that this kind of chicken feather life with her in-laws and infighting with her in-laws is not what she wants, Farah simply went through divorce procedures with Xue Shiheng, moved away from the love nest of the two, and even did not do two without stopping, in order to cut the cable thoroughly, simply left the wireless that has been working for many years, left Hong Kong, where she had lived for a long time, and went to New York to study acting courses.
The story developed here, the marriage between Xue Shiheng and Chen Fara should have ushered in a wordless ending in the end of no disease, but what is unexpected is that the Unwillingness of the Xue Family has continued a dog blood plot of "proud for a while, chasing his wife crematorium" for this story.
Yes, not to say that everyone may not know, Xue Shiheng and Chen Fara announced their divorce in 2013, from 2013 to 2020 for seven years, although Farah put down the past in a dashing manner, and turned around to marry a handsome French diplomat, but the Xue family has never been able to forget his ex-wife, always fantasizing that Farah will return to his side.
No, just last year, Xue Shiheng, who announced his development to the real estate industry in recent years, actually went to the United Kingdom to study acting skills in his busy leisure, although for this decision, Xue Shiheng himself explained: "It is because during the epidemic, a lot of business has stagnated, so I took the time to invest in myself."
But the clear-eyed people can see that Xue Gongzi went to act in England, which is similar to Farah's going to the United States to study acting, so it is easy for us to think of the purpose of Xue Gongzi to learn acting, precisely in order to have some common interests and spiritual connections with his ex-wife, so that you can also give yourself a psychological comfort "She has not left me."
No, Xue Gongzi not only implied in his actions that he could not let go of his old feelings, but even clearly stated that he still remembered the past between himself and Farah.
Yes, just some time ago, Xue Shiheng and Zhao Songru, Ye Yunyi, Li Lizhen and others recorded Viu TV's program "Everything Starts from Lost Marriage", in this show, there is a link is to sell their own "love relics", and Xue Shiheng took out a "love relic" is a wedding ring.
Speaking of the story behind this wedding ring, Xue Shiheng is still tearful and unforgettable: "At that time, shopping, she (Chen Fara) saw that there was a set of rings and necklaces so beautiful and liked, but at that time, her own economy had problems, she did not have the ability to buy her, plus the marriage could not be said to others, so in the end I bought a cheaper one for her, and now divorced, I don't know how to deal with this ring."
Although Xue Shiheng said that he wanted to dispose of the wedding ring, he also admitted that he still had hope for the lost marriage: "After she moved away, I felt like a family member running away from home, will you leave a space for her to come back?" I think it will be, if it is me, whether it is the environment or the heart, there will be a place for her, maybe one day she will return home by herself? ”
Seeing that Xue Shiheng had such a deep affection for Farah and could not let go of that dead marriage for seven years, would Farah, who was remembered by others, be moved?
No! I don't think Farah will be moved, only afraid and entangled.
All because for people who have long since given up their old feelings, in the face of the pain and concern of their predecessors, her heart can only be ashamed and flattered.
No, a few years ago, no matter how deeply Xue Shiheng "chased his wife to the crematorium", Farah did not react, did not echo, did not express his position.
On the contrary, as soon as Xue Shiheng announced his engagement yesterday, Farah was like putting down his heart like a big stone to "open champagne to celebrate", of course, not as direct as "directly opening champagne", she just uploaded a nonsensical funny short film to express the relaxed state of mind at this moment.
Only to see that the background of this short film is like the "Xi Wu" video studio, Farah is in this background and shouting and running, and also put on a very shocked expression to ask the camera: "Why am I here?" "In these strange little expressions and small movements, it can be seen that Farah is particularly excited and particularly happy.
However, this nonsense short film, in addition to showing Farah's relaxed and happy mood, it also has a pun function, that is, to promote farah's new Marvel superhero film "Shangqi and the Legend of the Ten Commandments".
Yes, although this "Legend of Shangqi and the Ten Commandments" is controversial and cannot be released in Chinese mainland, it has already landed in American theaters on September 3, and here we put aside the controversy about national feelings in the film and only look at La's own acting skills.
It is said that Chen Fara in this film, playing the male protagonist Shangqi's mother, although her role is not much, but there is a fight scene with Liang Chaowei that is impressive, because the small friends who understand the "fighting scene" know that the action scene is "one minute on stage, ten years offstage", but who cut corners can not shoot a single point can not shoot a qualified standard.
So even though the fight scene between Farah and Wei Zai is only a short minute or so, it is said that Farah has been training for this performance for a long time, leaving a lot of bruises, and after the release of this movie, Farah also posted a photo on his social network to promote the film.
Only to see farah in the photo proudly crossed his waist, his right hand wrapped with a towel, as if wrapped in ice, from this photo can be seen that Farah has suffered a lot of injuries in order to make this film, but for those injuries she feels very worthwhile, and enjoy it.
So seeing Such a Farah, I have to admit that she finally lived the way she wanted to be. Yes, as women, we often ask ourselves, "What did marriage really bring me?" ”
Why there is such a question, it is because in the traditional social atmosphere, a woman enters marriage to constantly burn herself and warm others like a candle, not only to continue to fulfill the obligations of her daughter, but also to be a wife, a mother, a daughter-in-law, but also a woman, but not to be herself.
So this also leads to most women feeling extremely tired in marriage, wanting to jump out of the siege, but helplessly continue to be trapped in the siege in the mouth of Yo-Yo, but Farah's life model tells us that when encountering a marriage that is not suitable, there is only more and more chicken feathers and inability to do so.
Therefore, as long as we can bravely and dashingly come out of the heart and find the next comfortable relationship between the sexes, we can grow into a woman with light in her eyes and hope in her smile.