"We're sending a signal to the kids!" Children, you can't do anything without us", with the excessive help, overprotectiveness, and excessive care of parents, we deprive children of the opportunity to build self-energy efficiency, which is an important criterion of the human mind, far more important than the self-esteem established through parental praise. "In layman's terms, if a person without a mind, even if he is excellent in some aspects, he is not a complete person. As a good "giant baby, mother" falls, see if you are also destroying your own children in this way!
Zhu Yuchen, an actor we were once familiar with, appeared in a supporting role in the network drama "North and South" in July, but the acting skills are still VERY OK, and this good "Mother Bao" who has been loved, protected, and manipulated by her mother for 42 years is still single.
The love affair with the national goddess Tang Wei and Huo Siyan was once envied by the vast number of melon-eating masses, but they were all beaten by his mother who loved him, and when it came to this good mother, Huo Siyan once said that the pressure was huge, she thought that Mother Zhu wanted Zhu Yuchen to marry a new mother and take care of this good mother treasure like Mother Zhu. Ma Bao, who has been protected by his mother for more than 40 years, netizens are both mocking and sympathetic, in the eyes of netizens, such love is pressure and pathological... We don't deny the love that any mother has given to her children, but we need to understand that you can't take care of him for the rest of your life.
The above is a giant baby in Shanghai a few days ago, a small cotton jacket that has been jokingly called leaking, scolding dad for living expenses, if it is replaced by me, I will decisively stop sending money to him.
Two flowers bloom, we each have a branch, the child's practice is certainly wrong, but I think who caused this mistake, from the father and his little cotton jacket chat words, it is not difficult to see that this father is also a maker of mother's treasure.
The essence of education is not only the transmission of knowledge, but also the cultivation of personality. Make them know how to be grateful, self-sufficient, and not complain about others. As the saying goes: freezing three feet is not a day's cold, the Son does not teach, the Father is at fault. If parents neglect the character education of their children and spoil them too much, so that their children form an extreme personality, they will eventually "eat their own consequences".
Only the love of parents for their children in the world is the most sincere, purest, and most selfless, just like Mother Zhu said, I love him with my whole life, which anyone believes, but understand that this kind of love will create a child without a mind, and eventually harm him.