Four generations of women's adventures ~ encounters: fifth, recognize misguided wrong love

The next day, Teacher Cai said that his family did not have so many things, and Xiaolan said that she did not want to consider emotional issues for the time being.

However, she thought that Cai Yiming was very good, so she asked him if he was free on Saturday, asked a few friends to go hiking, and everyone relaxed together.

Cai Yiming said happily: "Of course I have time, this idea is too good." ”

On Saturday morning, Cai Yiming and his elementary school classmate Qiu Gang came together, and the two men were surprised that Xiaolan and Tingting looked exactly the same.

During the play, Cai Yiming and Tingting were very close, Qiu Gang fell in love with Lele at first sight, and everyone talked and laughed and enjoyed it.

Every weekend since then, Cai Yiming and Qiu Gang have been hanging out with Tingting and Lele. They went to the playground to play, go shopping, eat, and the four of them played happily every time.

Once, they went to see a movie, Cai Yiming and Tingting sat next to each other, and Qiu Gang sat next to Lele.

Qiu Gang took Lele's hand, Lele's heart beat faster, shyly looking at Tingting next to her, Tingting was concentrating on watching the movie. Cai Yiming wanted to pull Tingting's hand and retracted it again.

After the movie, two men send the girl home. Qiu Gang went downstairs to LeLe's house, hugged Lele, and kissed her. Le Le was a little overwhelmed and a little flattered, and then gladly accepted Qiu Gang's love.

Qiu Gang often calls and sends messages to Lele, and Lele enjoys this feeling of being loved. Qiu Gang works as a salesman in an advertising agency and can speak well. His time is more flexible, and he goes to find Lele whenever he has time.

Qiu Gang told Lele that he swore that he would only love Lele alone in his life. Later, he went to no one's place every night, and always used his hands and feet. Lele thought he loved himself too much and tried his best to meet his needs.

One day, Qiu Gang took Le Le home and wanted to live with her. Lele is worried about pregnancy. Qiu Gang promised her that he would not, and Le Le dedicated himself to Qiu Gang.

She thought that the love of women and men was like this, and that after the two of them lived together, they would be married for a lifetime, and she could only force herself to adapt to this life.

A month later, Lele found out she was pregnant. After Qiu Gang knew, he happily said that it was too good, I want to be a father.

But LeLe was not happy at all, and she was not ready to get married and have children. Qiu Gang could only bring her endless pain, but she was already with him and did not break up in her cognition.

Le Le and Xiao Lan talked about their pregnancy, and Xiao Lan also hoped that she would get married as soon as possible and give birth to the child. After Lele's parents knew, they asked her and Qiu Gang to discuss when to get married. Her pain was hard to tell, there was nowhere to tell, and no one to ask.

Qiu Gang's parents did not interfere in their son's marriage, and Le Le and Qiu Gang quickly received a marriage license.

From then on, whether Qiu Gang woke up at night or in the middle of the night, he would ravage Lele.

She thought that all women would have to go through such pain after marriage, others could endure it, and she could only live like others.

Later, she found that Qiu Gang liked to brag, lie, and eat lazily. What's even more incredible is that Qiu Gang asked Le Le for money to pay off his debts every three to five minutes, and Le Le reasoned with him, but he didn't listen at all.

Lele suffered from regret and despair all day, and she did not expect that her life would be ruined like this.

She regretted that she had not been with Su Jian, he was very kind and would definitely treat himself kindly.

People you like and people who like yourself are not necessarily suitable. Blindly taking is not love, and unilateral giving is not love.

People must first love themselves, protect themselves, refuse to be with people who talk about it, and stay away from people who make them uncomfortable.

True love is putting yourself in the other person's shoes, not just satisfying your own needs and desires.