#情感点评大赏 #
Text/Wang Minguan
As the saying goes, no coincidence is not a book. In a person's life, there will always be countless coincidences, perhaps countless times of passing by, but there are always a few coincidences, perhaps to achieve some of our dreams.
Here is a comrade-in-arms of mine, talking about his own romantic marriage, it is really a coincidence, explaining what is fate. He often told us in a proud tone that he met his current lover on the train home to visit his relatives and achieved a good story of love.
One year, he went home on family leave as prescribed. During this period, his parents at home also urged him to quickly find a match, fall in love, and get married. But at that time, he was still studying at the military academy, although his friends also introduced a few, but after meeting, he did not feel very satisfied, so it was a delay, and several years passed. Before going home this time, the family was also repeatedly urged, he was holding home to rest for a while, if there is a suitable, first talk about the attitude of ok, so he bought a train ticket from Qingdao back to his hometown in Shanxi and went home to visit his relatives. At that time, the cadre could buy a hard sleeper ticket for reimbursement, but he did not buy it because of the tourist season, so he had to buy a hard seat, which was to go to the railway station.
Coincidentally, after getting on the train, on the opposite side of the seat of the carriage, there sat a girl with clear eyebrows and a beautiful face. After driving, the two said hello and chatted with each other, only to learn that this girl is also a fellow in Shanxi, taking advantage of the school summer vacation, taking a leave of absence to travel to Qingdao. Just after a few days of playing in Qingdao, take the train home today.
The two of them were about the same age and talked speculatively, and along the way, they almost didn't say anything. My comrade-in-arms also brought tea and water along the way, although it was the first time to meet, but it was very enthusiastic. Later, I talked about whether I was still single, and furthermore, whether I could leave a phone call with each other, and I could contact each other again later.
The girl saw such a handsome young man, who had just graduated from military school and was also a promising naval officer. I also deeply feel that this kind of opportunity may not be able to encounter several times in a person's life. Although he has not yet directly expressed his liking, he still likes the young man in front of him very much. So, the more the two talked, the happier they became, and they talked all night. When I got off at Taiyuan Station the next morning, I was really a bit attached.
After a night of chatting, this young man also knows some of the girl's situation, the two are in the same city, she graduated from college when she was a middle school teacher, and she has not yet found the right person, the age and height, is also the kind he likes, the key is that the two people can really talk, as if there are endless words together. Along the way, he beat drums in his heart, and several times he wanted to say, let's make a friend, but he never dared to say it. It wasn't until he got off the train to part ways that he plucked up the courage to say, "Let's make friends first." The girl smiled affectionately at him and replied, "Wait for my call!" "Didn't say yes on the spot. So, after leaving the train station, they separated and went home separately.
He went home to see his parents, who saw that he was tired and didn't say much, so they let him eat some breakfast and rest first, so he went home and lay down on the bed and fell asleep.
When he was still sleeping soundly, suddenly the mobile phone rang, it turned out to be a call from the girl who took the train home together last night, asking him if he had time to go to her house at noon tomorrow, and he said busily, yes!
So early the next morning, he simply packed up his belongings, changed into a naval uniform, bought two bottles of fenjiu from the store, asked for the girl's home address, rode a bicycle, and went straight to the door.
It turned out that after the girl returned home, she also told her parents about the situation she encountered on the train. Parents listened, full of promises, saying that they can encounter such a good thing, it is also a hundred years of encounter, quickly let the young man come to the house to let the second old man see, if appropriate, you can fix this family affair on the spot.
In this way, the girl herself also feels that this young man is very reliable, besides, on the train can meet the naval officer in her mind, or a fellow countryman, it is really a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, if this opportunity is not grasped well, after passing through this village, there is no such shop. The girl's family is also a very assertive person, as long as they look at the person they like, it must be a very good person. Looking at the second elder who had no opinion, he was even more confident. So early the next morning, she called the young man and formally invited him to the house for his parents to see.
The young man went to the girl's house, and the girl's parents were very happy to see them, but just asked about the situation of the young man's family, and they were busy cooking in the kitchen, and they wanted to welcome the future aunt with practical actions.
What followed was clear. This young man met by chance on the train, and he was also very fond of the girl married. After getting married, she gave birth to a big fat boy, in order to work conveniently, the woman went to Qingdao with the army, and now this family is happy in Qingdao, and the career development of the two is also very good.
Think about people sometimes, as if in the dark, the real thing is a kind of fate in the matchmaking. There are thousands of miles to meet, no reason to meet each other. Some people say that when the fate arrives, they can't stop it. This is really a kind of heavenly arrangement, perhaps, that is, at a certain hour in a certain month of a certain year, we have met and met, which is a kind of fate in itself. Of course, many times, perhaps this fate can only pass by due to many factors, which still shows that fate is not enough. For example, in this vast world, or in the life of a person, between people and people, especially between men and women, if there is no connection, it is like two parallel lines, which can never cross. Perhaps more cruelly, it is to be able to watch the other party's disappearing back, and there is nothing you can do, you can only watch the person you like disappear below the distant horizon, which is called a heartache, sadness and despair.
It can be seen that being able to seize the opportunity, understand the current affairs, make a decision at the moment, move forward bravely, and control the main line of one's own destiny is also the basic quality that a mature person should have.
I believe that the power of love can really create miracles sometimes. And when working hard in the direction of love, some fleeting opportunities, if you can grasp it tightly, it will also write a wonderful story.
February 8, 2022