Most women are emotional animals and will face many emotional choices in their lives, each of which affects their lives more or less.
The right choice will help you on the road to happiness; the wrong choice may drag you into the mud and make you suffer for the rest of your life.
A wrong love, most of your life or even a lifetime to pay, sounds cruel, but it is the truth. For example, 7 years ago, the heroine Yao Di, who "saw you on Monday", fell in love with the article that there was a family and a baby at that time, and she was born to beat her career to the bottom.
In June, Yao Di, who had disappeared for a long time, suddenly appeared and posted pictures and posters of the launching ceremony of the costume blockbuster "Fengshen Daji Disaster Merchant" on Weibo, with the text "Daji is already in place".
In the film, Yao Di will play a generation of fox spirit Su Daji. As soon as the news came out, attracting the attention of millions of netizens, Yao Di's Weibo comments exploded in an instant. The one with the highest praise so far is "This year, anyone can be an artist." Huh".
More netizens ridiculed that Yao Di, who destroyed other people's marriages and families, played Su Daji, who was possessed by fox spirits to plague Yin Shang, which was simply the true color.
Judging from the Weibo comments, netizens are not friendly to Yao Di, who is full of confidence. The Internet has a memory, 7 years ago "see you on Monday" chen sentiments, netizens have not forgotten, yao di made mistakes that year have not forgiven. I really admire the courage of director Zhang Zhe to boldly use tainted artists, and I hope that the box office will not collapse because of this.
On March 29, 2014, the article and Yao Di publicly held hands with photos were exposed, and then the article itself came forward to admit the fact of the derailment. His wife, Ma Yili, weighed her feelings for many years, saying that "love is easy, marriage is not easy, and it is okay and cherished", and she is willing to accept the article home. After another 5 years, the ending netizens all know that in the end, they did not escape the "one parting and two wide, each rejoicing", and the family of four was separated.
Seven years have passed, and every mention of any of the three names of Yao Di's article Ma Yili today can't help but remind people of the other two. Because of a derailment storm, the three names are firmly tied together, and no one is particularly reluctant, but no one can take it apart.
The matter of extramarital love is exactly the response to the sentence "there is no winner after the gunshot". Over the years, the article Yao Di has become synonymous with tainted artists, and there is no sign of turning over the career with great efforts. Although the strongEr Ma Yili's career is getting more and more popular, the psychological shadow of betrayal in marriage is expected to haunt her for a lifetime.
The biggest hurt a woman suffers usually comes from feelings, especially the special intimacy of marriage. Ma Yili, who was devoted to her baby at that time, was really innocent.
Although there is no right or wrong in the matter of feelings, it is a matter of morality and the bottom line, and right and wrong are clearly distinguished.
At that time, the article was already a husband and a father, carrying the wife who was pregnant with the second baby in his belly, and cheating on the partner who was filming together; Yao Di was single at that time, and it was not wrong to fall in love with a man, but he knew that the other party had a family and a baby, and still did not care about being together, it must be wrong, unforgivable fault.
They are all adults, and if they do something wrong, the price is inevitable. After the derailment incident was exposed, the article was directly reduced from a popular first-line student to no drama to shoot, and Yao Di was labeled as a "little three" since then, ruining her popularity and resources, and everyone was eager to shout and beat.
You should know that before the incident happened, with works such as "Dream of the Red Chamber", "The Era of Naked Marriage", "Thirty-three Days of Lost Love" and so on, Yao Di had rushed into the ranks of Hua Dan, and the star path eye could see a bright light. If it is expected that there will be today's ending, will Yao Di still pounce on the article?
Unfortunately, there is no return key in life, and there is no "if" in the emotional world, only stumbling over, hitting the head and breaking the blood flow, can you understand what is pain and what is remorse.
Because they care too much about feelings and value marriage too much, it is more difficult for women to retreat than men in the face of marital betrayal. In those extramarital affairs, the initiator is not necessarily a woman outside marriage, but the most hurt must be a woman inside marriage.
Whose marriage is flawed, why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman? As a single woman like Yao Di, it needs to be understood that men in marriage are willing to entangle with you, most of them are just because he is tired of marriage for a while and wants to come out and breathe. Just like getting tired of eating nutritious staple foods, I also want to order high-sugar and high-sweet snacks to adjust my appetite.
In fact, men understand better than anyone that staple food is the right way, and snacks can be discarded at any time. Just like the article, after the matter was exposed, the first thing that saw the wind made the rudder ask Ma Yili for forgiveness, and Yao Di was immediately thrown aside, and he couldn't even see that he had any regrets. The off-the-cuff affair, compared to his steaming marriage and family, is simply not worth mentioning.
Pragmatic is men, who always weigh the pros and cons in many ways and make the choice that is most beneficial to themselves. Obsessed with women, after being hurt, they can only heal their wounds alone, and even carry everything alone.
Remembering last year's "president, rich flowers in the world, and internet celebrities", although there was no public ending in the past year, the dust was generally settled.
The president is still the president, the work ability is not replaced, the career prospects are still very good; the rich and noble flowers seem to have sober, self-upgraded to open a studio, and won a large wave of fans; and the Internet celebrity xiao three, the traffic and reputation are destroyed, the career has plummeted, and it has been ruthlessly abandoned by capital. The man was unscathed, and the lives of the two women have changed since then.
In chaotic relationships, women are usually the victims. Whether it is the internet celebrity Xiaosan or Yao Di, they have built a career and a future for a man who is not justified in his name.
Is love blinding, or is there something else to be desired? But what's the difference, it's not all ended up empty. Women, always prone to self-righteous love, and desperate, and moths to the fire, do not want to weigh the value of the value.
Since ancient times, it is easy to fight the country, but it is difficult to grab the country. Digging a wall from other people's marriages is tantamount to snatching the country from others, and the road to the top is inevitably bloody and rainy, and it is difficult to step by step. Moreover, going to other people's homes to enter the house and rob and rob them does not have much confidence in itself. Even if the ascension succeeds, it is inevitable that he will be verbally criticized and drowned.
The stolen man, the stolen marriage, may not necessarily make you feel at ease for a lifetime. Let yourself be steadfast, pinch the index, but also count the cause in your hands.
Can't help but think of a question, can this "Fengshen Daji Disaster Merchant" help Yao Di turn red? Perhaps, in addition to looking at acting skills, it depends more on her luck. In the windless entertainment circle, there are not many precedents for black materials to land, but involving the notoriety of "little three", even if one day it is lucky to turn red, it will always be frequently mentioned afterwards, and the stain is difficult to completely wash white.
A wrong love, a lifetime to pay, the cost of love trials is too high. Therefore, women must always remind themselves that at every step of their feelings, they must choose carefully, do not wronged themselves, and do not hurt others.
There are many good men in the world, why should a leaf obstruct Tarzan? Regret what you didn't do, try to do as little as possible.