When Liu Ran had known her boyfriend for only three months, she gave herself "the first time" to him, when she was only 16 years old. Her mother educated her harshly, but Liu Ran decided to pursue what she saw as "love."
Because of this, she completely broke with her family.
Happiness and risk coexist. Half a year later, Liu Ran found that her menstruation was delayed, and after going to the hospital for examination, the results surprised the two people: ectopic pregnancy, and the doctor recommended that she operate as soon as possible.
After consulting with her boyfriend, she signed the consent form for the operation, and although she saved her fertility, Liu Ran's fallopian tubes were cut in half.
Lying in the hospital, Liu Ran recalled what she had done over the past year, regretting it, and she dialed the phone at home and said, "Mom, I was wrong." ”
Knowing that she was hospitalized, her mother could not cry and drove over that night.
Liu Ran realized at this time: the closest is not to parents.
In the eyes of elders, early love is shameful and not allowed, but in real life, tasting the forbidden fruit at the age of 16 is not a new thing.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, the age of first sexual life is refreshed again and again</h1>
The age of first sexual activity and the age of first childbearing represent the beginning of reproductive behavior, and both have important implications for adolescent development and evolutionary adaptation.
Recently, the research team led by Felix R. Day of the University of Cambridge and Melinda C. Mills of the University of Oxford published an important research result in the journal Nature.
The research team integrated the age of first sexual activity in 387338 individuals and the age of first childbearing in 542901 individuals, and found that the age of first sexual intercourse and the age of first childbearing gradually increased, with 1/3 of adolescents in the UK having their first sexual intercourse age less than 16 years old, while the average age of first childbearing was 30 years old.
So, what is the domestic concept of love?
In the "2015 Chinese Marriage and Love Survey Report" released by the Peking University Social Survey, the first sexual behavior of different groups of people is slightly different.
The age of sexual behavior in the pre-80s population was late, with an average of 22.17 years old; after the 80s, it was 22.10 years old; the time of the first sexual intercourse after 90 occurred earlier, the average was 19.78 years old; and the post-95 generation was earlier, with an average of 17.71 years old.
It is worth noting that from the perspective of family background, the first love time of the family child with emotional problems of the parents is earlier. Specifically, the age of first love of children who are divorced and not remarried, divorced and remarried by one party, remarried by divorced parties, and children in separated families are all 16 years old and below (occurring at 15.23 years, 15.50 years, 15.82 years and 16 years old, respectively).
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, how old can I have sex? </h1>
"A girl who hid in a toilet at the age of 14 and had a miscarriage" "A 16-year-old girl forcibly had an abortion"... Hidden behind these living news is not only the psychological distortion of premature sexual behavior, but also an irreversible damage to the female reproductive system.
In terms of physiological development, the age group that is developing but not completely is premature sexual behavior. The vast majority of people are basically mature after the age of 18. Of course, this is only the physical condition, but whether the psychology is enough to assume "responsibility". After all, sex may also have "serendipity", and the consequences and effects after this need to think about whether you have the ability to bear it.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, what are the harms of having sex too early? </h1>
Sexual behavior tends to be younger, which has a lot to do with the lack of sex education. Due to the lack of sex education, many young people only understand "pleasure", but do not know what kind of harm these behaviors will bring to the body.
1. Susceptible to cervical cancer
In recent years, the incidence of cervical cancer has remained high, and the age of onset has tended to be younger. The literature points out that the age of first sexual life is one of the factors of HPV infection. The ninth edition of obstetrics and gynecology mentions that the < of first sexual activity is closely related to the occurrence of cervical cancer at the age of 16. Women aged 17-20 with first sexual intercourse are 1.5 times more likely to develop cervical cancer than women aged 21 years or older, and women with a primary sexual intercourse age of less than 17 years are about 2 times more likely to have sex.
2. Infections of the reproductive system
Premature sexual life, sexual organs are not mature, under the impact, it is easy to lead to infection of the reproductive system, such as tubal obstruction, vaginitis and so on. If cleaning is not in place, or lack of necessary protective measures, it will also cause gynecological diseases such as urethritis and pelvic inflammatory diseases, and even infect syphilis, gonorrhea, AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases in severe cases.
3. Unwanted pregnancy
Although the "fruit" is not ripe, the seeds sown by "stealing the forbidden fruit" may also cause an "unexpected harvest". For this risk, most of the young teenagers are reluctant to bear this heavy responsibility, and what awaits the young girl will be the crowd.
One abortion, lifelong injury.
After doing abortion, the uterus becomes thinner, menstrual irregularities, tubal adhesions, pelvic inflammatory disease, and in severe cases, even symptoms such as nonovulation and infertility. She has since been deprived of the right to become a mother.
Sex is the second basic physiological need of human beings, and it is as indispensable as eating. But just as diet is taboo and restrained, sex needs to be restrained. Desire may exist, but desire cannot be early, and a momentary indulgence is likely to be an overdraft for the health of the next few decades.
Resources:
[1] Nature Sub-Journal: Is First SexualIty and Reproductive Age Written in Genes? The Cambridge and Oxford teams found 371 relevant genetic loci and found that late childbearing was associated with longer lifespans. Singularity Net. 2021-08-07
[2] The report states that the average age of post-95 first sexual activity is 17 years old than that of post-80s. Guangzhou Daily.2016-01-11
[3] "At what age is appropriate to start having sex?" "The answer is...". Health Medicine. 2019-02-14
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