My deformed psychology toward educating children
Everyone loves children, and everyone has the hope of jackie chan. But in the way children are educated, there are two almost opposite ways. One is to pamper and take care of everything, afraid that the child will suffer a little, and let all the children's behavior be resigned, so-called let the children grow up in love. The other is strict discipline, and even when children are found to have certain wrong tendencies, they sternly rebuke the addition of sticks and sticks, the so-called scolding out of filial piety, strict teachers out of high disciples, sticks to give birth to prime ministers. In the former way, animals still have a feeling of licking calves, which seems to be understandable emotionally. The latter approach, blunt and vicious, is unreasonable, and seems to be flogged. However, the two approaches necessarily produce two different results. The so-called fight is love, and leniency is harmful. This reality abounds in the world, and the list goes on and on.
The 'x for 28' incident is actually a good thing to think about from a certain point of view, in fact, Xu Mama should thank Tumu, because the power under the stick is healthier and more painful, which should be a good thing. The other baby grew up spoiled and loved to drink and willfully, and that physique actually ruined herself and took her precious life. As the saying goes, the love of the son is deep and the harm is endless. What a pity for the hearts of parents in the world!
Therefore, in educating children, we must have principles and strict love and moderation. Because sticks and doting education have pros and cons.
