The cousin went home and returned home with her baby who had just turned three months old, it is said that it is our tradition, when the daughter of the married child gives birth to a child for three months, she must be taken back to the grandmother's house by the mother for a while, just like the child has to move the nest during the full moon, otherwise it is not good for the child, and I don't know if it is superstition.
But since this baby came to the house, the former cold and cold house has become suddenly lively, my cousin's family is a demolition household, after the demolition of the old house, I lost several sets of houses, the family conditions are very good, the seven aunts and eight aunts also rushed to step on, my cousin came back to the first thing said: "Or go back to the mother's house, this time I am relaxed, I do not have to take children for at least half of the time." ”
My cousin was right, because the children were all brought by the seven aunts, and what else did she bring.
Cousin is the earliest of many brothers and sisters to marry, after all, people look beautiful and always have the good luck of early marriage, really respond to that sentence, early marriage is good, because there are people who help bring children.
A group of brothers and sisters suddenly promoted, are very happy, the cousin child just put down, they rushed to hold the child, all want to be close to the child for the first time, all want to spoil the child, and then we found that the cousin this mother since giving birth to the child, but at the speed of emaciation visible to the naked eye, the aunt said: "How can you not be thin?" Worry about this and worry about that every day, it is not easy to go back to the mother's house to have relatives to help hold the child She can be easier, only to hold less than a day, she began to worry about the child being held around to the child is not good for the child, adults with their hands to touch the child's face will not be bacterial infection, the elderly kiss the child She is eager to take the child to wash her face immediately! ”
I looked at a cousin, only to find that the cousin's obsessive-compulsive disorder seems to be a little more or less serious, obsessive-compulsive disorder in fact, in fact, everyone has more or less, such as going to the toilet to wash hands repeatedly, doing things in order, otherwise it will be particularly uncomfortable, not married before the cousin is also a little, but after giving birth to a child, her obsessive-compulsive disorder is so serious that she is reluctant to let adults touch the child's face and hands, afraid that adults have bacteria in their hands, if someone sneezes in the room, she will immediately wash and disinfect all the children's things, especially the milk bottles and other such washes and washes It's just that it hasn't become brand new. In this way, my cousin, who was originally a little obsessive-compulsive, became more and more anxious, so she worried and had to ask her aunt: "Mom, am I sick and have postpartum depression?" ”
After listening to it, the aunt scolded: "My stupid girl, what are you depressed, you are obsessive-compulsive disorder, and you care too much about the child." "I know there's no need for this, but I can't help but think about it, I used to just stare at myself when I was nothing, and once it involved your child, your obsessive-compulsive disorder escalated minute by minute."
The aunt said, "Where were the children of the past so expensive?" When I was young, I let myself crawl on the ground to play, and now I haven't climbed to directly lift the child up, when I was a little injured when I was a child, I didn't rub the medicine, and now I am injured and disinfected and rubbed the medicine, and I can't wait to go to the hospital. When children were naughty and mischievous, they would be beaten, and now they can't even be scolded. The cousin immediately retorted: "You can eat the food for one more day, but are you willing to let the child eat it?" ”
The aunt immediately stopped talking, even now, the children are grown up, overnight dishes she will never let us eat, those who said "the previous children are not so expensive parents have ever thought, in fact, you also gave the best care of the child in the most limited conditions, the best things are left to the child, the rough age has rough refinement, and in this exquisite era, parents are eager to give the best things in the world to their children." ”
My cousin was learning to sing lullabies again, because she was about to coax the baby to sleep, then I remembered my own wishes when I was a child, I said that I would grow up to be an engineer and build my own tall building, and my cousin said that she hoped to become a singer, and she could stand on the stage of everyone to sing to everyone and let the people in the audience cheer for her.
I have to say that wishes are always wishes, and eventually failed to materialize, cousins married prematurely, doomed to become a singer, she can only sing to the baby, but what does it matter? The baby in front of her is her only audience, and even if her baby grows up in the future, she will always remember that her mother is a singer in her heart, because her baby is her most loyal fan.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > conclusion:</h1>
The love of parents has always been a lifetime, and every step of our growth is inseparable from the care, teaching, and every step of our parents' efforts. As children, we must be considerate of our parents and be filial to them when we grow up. Because our parents sacrificed too much for us.