"Fu Wenpei, you don't hide inside and don't make a sound, I know you're at home, you have the ability to rob men, how can you not open the door?"
Seeing this classic line, I believe that many people have already imagined the picture of Aunt Xue patting the door in their minds. When it comes to the TV series "Love Deep rain", many people think of her for the first time.
Some people think that she is the only woman in the play who has an opinion and dares to challenge feudal ideas. In fact, the real-life "Aunt Xue" is also very assertive and has never regretted divorcing twice.
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Never regret divorce
Wang Lin, the actor of "Aunt Xue", graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy and starred in the female number two of the popular TV series "Love Full of Pearl River", which was loved by many audiences.
When she thought that Wang Lin would be able to embark on the peak of her career, she decided to marry a wealthy Hong Kong businessman, return to her family, and marry and teach her children.
Stills from "Love Full of Pearl River"
"But life will always make you feel that you are thinking too simple at that time, you think that you do not have a career as an actor, but when you re-awaken this desire to act, you will feel that it is very painful to stay at home." 」
After being Mrs. Kuo for several years, Wang Lin wanted to go out to act and prove her worth, but her husband was not willing to let his wife show her face.
Under the balance, Wang Lin took the initiative to propose divorce.
After the divorce, Wang Lin received the role of "Snow Aunt" in "Love Deep and Rainy", and has since embarked on the acting path of "bad guy professional household".
The work is getting better and better, and the relationship is going well. Wang Lin ushered in a second marriage, and her husband was very supportive of her career, but this marriage did not have much passion and was too calm.
Wang Lin longs for a romantic life, but unfortunately her husband is a straight man who does not understand the style, and they begin to quarrel constantly. Wang Lin did not want her children to grow up in this environment and resolutely divorced.
Venus once asked Wang Lin: "What is your advice to young girls in love?" ”
Wang Lin said: "Women should enjoy every stage of themselves. ”
Whether married or single, it is a different test brought about by each stage of life.
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The legendary woman of the Republic of China who rushed out of the cage
Dong Zhujun, the founder of the Shanghai Jin Jiang Hotel, a shop founded for nearly a hundred years, came from a poor background and was forced to become a Qinglou Qingqiao when he was a child.
In the Qinglou, she met the revolutionary Xia Shi. The two have a long-term relationship, and Xia Shi originally wanted to redeem Dong Zhujun, but Zhujun believed that he was not an item and had to leave the Qinglou by his own ability.
Later, in the face of Xia Shi's marriage proposal, Zhu Jun, who was only 15 years old at the time, made three demands:
1. Improper concubines;
2. Want to study in Japan;
3. In the future, when summer is working outside, she will be a helper.
Teenage girls are easy to get lost, but she knows how to fight for self-esteem and self-reliance.
After graduation, Dong Zhujun returned to her hometown in Sichuan during the summer period, and she used her wisdom to win the respect of the Xia family and open a factory and company. However, at that time, Xia Shi was dismissed from his post, and his wife and daughter were abused at home, and serious differences with his wife had arisen.
Zhu Jun could not bear it any longer, so he left the house and took his daughter to Shanghai.
Although her life in Shanghai was poor, she still insisted, perhaps because of her spirit of not accepting defeat and winning the favor of everyone, some nobles funded her to establish Jinjiang Restaurant.
She used her knowledge of studying in Japan to turn the Jinjiang Restaurant into a high-class venue, and since then it has become a hit, and even Du Yuesheng has to wait in line.
In addition to the restaurant, she also opened a tea room, employing only women and encouraging women to work independently.
Some people say that Dong Zhujun is a fully awakened woman who does not allow herself to become a vassal of men.
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What exactly is an independent woman?
The popular variety show "Strange Story" once had a hot topic: should independent women receive bride price?
Some players believe that after receiving the bride price, love has become a business, and in the future, they will have to listen to their mother-in-law's words, and the housework is their own.
The player who finally received many netizens' likes was Xi Rui, who believed that independent women should have the right to choose.
Independent women are free to choose their own way of life, have the confidence to control their own future, and have no fear.
Like Wang Lin and Dong Zhujun above, they dare to say goodbye to inappropriate marriages and dare to choose their favorite lifestyle.
But life is full of uncertainty, there is no "weapon" to resist the risk, there is no guarantee to protect the family, let alone a sense of security?
The China Probate Bank has hosted many women, some of whom are single mothers and some of whom are unmarried. They want to be able to plan ahead, protect their property, and leave it to the people they love the most.
@Single Mom in Shanghai
Dear baby son, my mother is very proud of you, from childhood to adulthood you are very well-behaved, a thousand words can not say the mother's love for you, when you see this passage, I have with infinite thoughts and concerns about you, into another world.
You don't have to be sad and sad, you have to take responsibility for taking care of yourself and your family, thank you for being my son, you are the most reassuring to me, and you are also the most expected of me. Thank you for becoming a family in this life, and I hope that in the next life we can still be mother and son.
@Hebei's single mother
My child, because of my selfishness made you a single parent, this is the pain of my life, mom can't make up for the hurt to you, but mom really loves you. I sincerely hope that you can grow up healthily, and your mother will always be your strong backing. Mom will grow old slowly, can not be with you all the time, you must be happy and happy.
I want to say to you sincerely: I'm sorry.
@Unmarried in Shanghai
I saw that Zhou Runfa donated all 5.6 billion yuan, and he had a sentence that touched me deeply: people can't own property forever in this life.
Therefore, I want to donate all my assets to the state, whether it is for poverty alleviation or charity, and I came to the China Will Bank to make a will in the hope of fulfilling my wishes.
In fact, they may not be afraid of death, they are afraid that when the accident comes, they will still have regrets, and their families have not yet settled down.
They worry that it is "too late", too late to filial piety to their parents, too late to watch their children grow up.
The China Will Bank reminds you to make arrangements in advance while you still have the ability to leave a better future for your family. Even on the day of saying goodbye, the family can take our love and live happily and happily.
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