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Almost most women in the world, no matter what kind of person she ends up being, will still hide such a dream full of pink bubbles in her heart. The protagonist of that dream is Cinderella, and she is also a thousand ordinary girls.
In this fairy tale, the miserable Cinderella gets the magic of her godmother, puts on a delicate and expensive dress, and becomes the most eye-catching girl at the banquet. This stunning appearance also allowed her to successfully capture the prince's heart.
The heart-warming prince used the crystal shoes she had accidentally dropped to finally find his Cinderella in the vast sea of people. In the end, they lived happily together.
End of story...
I don't know if you find that fairy tales like this end at the wedding of the prince and the girl/princess, but none of them tell us about their life after marriage. In fact, when you look at this story when you grow up, you will find a strong sense of violation.
Why did Cinderella wear the most elaborate clothes to attract the prince's attention?
Why did she have to attract the attention of a prince she had never met before?
Why, when Cinderella took off her gorgeous dress, the prince could never find her again?
When you delve into this story, you will find that love at first sight is just a matter of seeing the eye. What kind of fairy love, but take what you need.
However, in modern times, there are still many girls who are eager to marry into the rich and fly up the branches to become phoenixes. So, can the finches who marry into the giants really become phoenixes from now on?
I believe that in most cases, they will not become phoenixes, but only a canary lost in the drunken gold fans.
There is a saying in the Severed Queen: She was too young to know all the gifts given by fate, and the price had already been secretly marked.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with advocating a better material life. What is wrong is to think of yourself as a commodity, and not yet have the consciousness of being a commodity.
If you know that your purpose is money, use your beauty and youth to exchange for a ticket to the giants. Then you should be a good person when your youth and beauty are no longer there, and you are cruelly abandoned.
This is not called the so-called sober reality, but just the desire to enjoy. A truly sober girl knows what kind of life she wants, and uses all available conditions to constantly enrich herself to get a better life.
So many female stars have to enter the giants, but how much happiness do they really get? Even those female stars with exquisite appearance and slim figures cannot escape the fate of abandonment and derailment. Why do ordinary people think that those "rich men" will fall for us?
Either you have a very strong personality, or you have great ability. But do you have one?
Everyone thinks differently, and no one else can blame them.
But if you think of marriage as a complete deal, don't expect love. If you just want a harmonious and happy marriage, then please throw away those unearned thoughts first.
Sink your heart and find someone whose three views are the same and who can make you like and like you.
In marriage, the most taboo is the four words of insatiable greed. Understand the foot and management, and most importantly, no matter what kind of situation you are in, please do not give up on yourself.
Only by constantly making yourself better can you see more beautiful landscapes. Otherwise, even if you look at the scenery, you will always be fascinated by the hot kiss given by a certain jun in the corner. Losing a piece of "imperfect" love still can't satisfy you in the end.
【Write at the end】:
Do you envy luxury marriages? Or longing for ordinary love?