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The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

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This smiling little girl is called Xiaoxiao, she is not a patient, but many people in the hospital who have been in bed for a long time know her

No one wants to tell her the harsh reality that she's going to accompany Dad through the last part of his life

Wu Yaodong is a smiling dad, 36 years old, who has a tumor the size of a goose egg at the junction of his brain and cervical vertebrae

The tumor had eroded Wu Yaodong's cervical spine, and he could only lie on the bed, and the slightest accident of the head and cervical vertebrae would break

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

Simply drinking water will produce heart-rending pain, laughing and laughing do not know the pain of the father

He will also hand over the water cup and fruit intimately, and for the fruit handed to his daughter's mouth, Wu Yaodong will still endure the pain and swallow

Xiao Xiao only knew that her father was sick and needed her care, but she didn't know that her father's illness would never be cured

Wu Yaodong's tumor had been operated on three years ago, but he did not expect that it would recur and be more serious than the last time three years later

For his wife Haruko, who has always been inseparable, Wu Yaodong believes that there is no better person than Haruko

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

The long hospitalization did not make Wu Yaodong better, but made Wu Yaodong's condition more serious

When the pain arose, Wu Yaodong didn't even have the courage to live, and they could only pin all their hopes on the operation

The situation is more dangerous than expected, the tumor is surrounded by venous plexus, and the slightest carelessness may cause heavy bleeding shock

There is no precedent, the doctor can only take one step at a time, on the way to the operating room, smiling and running in the front

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

She wanted to bring good luck to her father, and Smile didn't know how dangerous the operation was, she just wanted to give him a little strength

The operation was not so smooth, the tumor location is very complicated, and the slightest carelessness will be at risk of getting sick

Fortunately, the tumor was successfully removed in the end, and unfortunate things happened before the next operation

Wu Yaodong's tumor is a growth tumor, even if surgery can not solve the fundamental problem, can only temporarily prolong life

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

Haruko couldn't tell Wu Yaodong about this cruel reality, he wanted to live so much, he wanted to be with his daughter all the time

However, God did not give him this opportunity at all, and Wu Yaodong inadvertently learned the news

He chose to abandon treatment, and he wanted to spend the last days of his life with his family

It was his daughter's birthday, and with the help of medical staff, he prepared a surprise for her

It was probably his last birthday with his daughter, and the ward was full of balloons

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

The balloon was tied with photos and Wu Yaodong's unspeakable love for his daughter, but the accident happened

Halfway through the birthday party, Wu Yaodong blocked the pipeline because of his cough, and the doctor rescued him urgently

After Wu Yaodong gave up treatment, he wanted to do something for his daughter before leaving

He approached reporter Ma Dong to help him fulfill his wishes

He hopes that Ma Dong, who is also a father, can give her a little encouragement when he enters elementary school at the age of 7

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

Let her go to school well, live hard, and tell Xiaoxiao Daddy to stay with her all the time

Ma Yaodong wished that he could do all these things by himself, but he couldn't do such a small thing anymore

He wanted to prepare all the birthday gifts for Xiaoxiao until he turned 20, and he wanted to tell Xiaoxiao that his father was always with her in this way

Ma Dong prepared a pink room full of memories for XiaoXiao, which contained many pictures of them

There are also gifts for the next 20 years, and the most important thing is the letter he personally wrote for Laughter

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

Each letter is what Wu Yaodong wants to say to his daughter in the future

Hearing her husband's letter, Haruko couldn't help but cry, and in the face of Xiaoxiao's simple face, Haruko did not dare to tell Xiaoxiao the truth

"What if Dad goes to a faraway place and never comes back" "Let him come back"

Children's world is that simple, and they may never understand why they should go far, far away and never come back

"He can't come back to spend your birthday with you," I heard my mother say that my father couldn't accompany her on her birthday in the future

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

She laughed and cried, without her father's company on what she thought was the most important day

Then she must be very disappointed, very sad, Haruko seems to want to tell Xiaoxiao in this way that her father's illness can no longer be cured

I hope my daughter can slowly accept the days without a father

If it weren't for the illness, how could Wu Yaodong leave his daughter, there is too much helplessness in the world

Some things simply didn't have a chance to choose, and before going home, the daughter prepared a surprise for her father

He wore a pink doctor's uniform and presented his father with a picture of their family of three with the words Dad cheering

The 36-year-old father was sentenced to "death" by tumors and prepared a final gift before leaving, a documentary

Wu Yaodong asked her why she was wearing this dress, and smiled that she wanted to be a doctor and wanted to accompany her father forever

Wu Yaodong didn't want to accompany them all the time, but he had no time

Two months later, Wu Yaodong's illness was not cured after all, and the tumor spread and took her life at the age of 36

There are too many things in the world for us to choose, and all we can do is to grasp the life in the moment

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