In March 1979, after the end of the "self-defense counterattack war against Vietnam", the Vietnamese army, which was not willing to lose, did not become peaceful because of its own defeat, on the contrary, they still repeatedly provoked and harassed and invaded China's border areas, seriously interfering with and destroying the normal life of the people in China's border areas, and even brought some major harm.
According to a 1984 Xinhua news agency, "In the past five years, the Vietnamese army has continuously fired artillery at schools, farms and other places in our country, causing a total of 235 deaths to the military and civilians... Forcing farmers to be unable to farm, students to be unable to attend classes normally..."
In order to restore tranquility in the border areas and protect the lives and property of the border people, the Battle of Laoshan was about to break out.

The Battle of Laoshan lasted for nine years, the war time spanned from 1984 to 1993, the main commanders were Xu Shiyou and Yang Dezhi, under the leadership of the two generals, after nine years of bloody struggle, our army finally recovered Laoshan and Ziyin Mountain.
In this 9-year-long Sino-Vietnamese War, the number of casualties was naturally not small, and the soldiers of our army during this period were between the ages of 18 and 25.
These soldiers were originally born after the founding of the country, they should have lived a peaceful life, but when most of our country was living a stable life, they bid farewell to their parents, carried guns and ammunition, and embarked on the battlefield of the old mountain with the responsibility of a soldier.
No one knows whether they were afraid and afraid at the moment they went to the battlefield, and no one knows what their hearts thought when death was approaching.
The only thing we know is that for the sake of the country's territorial integrity and the happiness and stability of the border people, they resolutely chose to fight the enemy to the end, and some even paid for their lives, and Zhao Weijun, who was only 18 years old, was one of the martyrs.
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Zhao Weijun was born in 1968 to an ordinary peasant family in Gansu, and because of his poor family, he was forced to drop out of school after a few years of study.
The child of the poor family was early, although he had regrets in his heart because he could not read, but he did not complain. After returning home, Zhao Weijun became his parents' little helper, always helping the family to share the housework as much as possible.
At that time, Zhao Weijun often followed his grandfather to do farm work, and his grandfather was a person who came from the war years, and the old man always liked to tell his grandson the story of the People's Liberation Army after work, telling him that today's happiness was bought with the lives of countless soldiers.
Under the influence of his eyes, Zhao Weijun was full of admiration for soldiers, and even full of yearning for the life of the troops, then he wanted to wait until he grew up and became a soldier.
In 1985, 17-year-old Zhao Weijun finally became a glorious soldier in the Lanzhou Military Region.
After officially joining the army, Zhao Weijun knew how hard life was in the barracks, and a lot of physical training every day made him feel overwhelmed, but Zhao Weijun knew that this was the path that every soldier would take, and he chose to grit his teeth and insist.
After a period of adaptation, Zhao Weijun slowly adapted to the life of the troops and told himself to grow hard and serve the motherland in the future.
Born in the era of peace, Zhao Weijun did not experience the cruelty of war, nor did he know that death on the battlefield was not far away, he only knew that the duty of a soldier was to defend his family and defend the country, and soon he got the opportunity to go to the battlefield.
In April 1986, Zhao Weijun followed the troops to Wenshan Prefecture and completed the assembly and training, and when everything was ready, Zhao Weijun's unit officially took over the 67th Army of the Jinan Military Region and entered the battlefield of the Laoshan Campaign.
This year, Zhao Weijun was only 18 years old, just put on the uniform for a year, he went to the front line, and his comrades-in-arms stuck to the difficult conditions of the Songmaoling position, in the low and damp "cat hole", they resisted nearly a hundred sneak attacks by the enemy.
During this period, the enemy also dropped tens of thousands of shells on the places where Zhao Weijun and others were stationed, and indiscriminately bombarded them, but in the end they were all resisted by Zhao Weijun and his comrades-in-arms.
Although on the battlefield, shells are everywhere, Zhao Weijun is not afraid, and when the danger is approaching, he will still rush forward without hesitation.
Fast forward to the hottest July, Zhao Weijun has been coming to the Laoshan battlefield for three months, compared to the youth when he first joined the army, after the baptism of war, he is more mature and strong, but just when he intends to continue to fight the enemy to the death, death is approaching him step by step.
On that day, Zhao Weijun unfortunately stepped on the mines planted by the enemy, although he tried his best to avoid the moment when he sensed that there were mines, he was still hit by the explosion and immediately fell into a coma.
After a long time, Zhao Weijun gradually regained consciousness, and he was a little happy in his heart the moment he learned that he was still alive. However, this time of rejoicing was short-lived.
Because the medical environment and medical equipment were very simple at that time, although Zhao Weijun was sent to the ambulance team in time, the treatment effect was not obvious, and the injury was too serious, and he had a continuous high fever.
Relying on his willpower, Zhao Weijun endured severe pain and fought with the god of death, how eager this hot-blooded young man was that he could get back on his feet and return to the battlefield.
But instead of leaving, Death approached him like a devil. Because of the harsh environment, zhao Weijun soon appeared with symptoms of infection, he always switched between waking and coma, and his body was like being burned, and the pain was unbearable.
In order to save Zhao Weijun's life, the ambulance staff had to endure the pain of amputating him, but Zhao Weijun's condition still did not improve, after he was unconscious several times, Zhao Weijun had a bad premonition, and he was afraid that it would be difficult for him to overcome this difficulty.
As a soldier, he was not afraid of death, but the thought of his parents at home made his heart tingle. Therefore, Zhao Weijun, whose face was pale and his lips were no longer blood-colored, made a request to Zhang Ru, the nurse who took care of him, in a weak voice, to change his body in the direction of Lanzhou.
At this time, Zhang Ru's heart was also extremely sad, seeing that this young warrior was about to die, her tears swirled in her eyes, and then she quickly moved Zhao Weijun to the direction where she could see Lanzhou.
Zhao Weijun looked hard in the direction of "home", where there were his favorite relatives, there were his most missed parents, he wanted to go back to his hometown after science and engineering, but this wish was doomed to be unfulfilled.
Although he knew that his life was short, Zhao Weijun was not afraid, nor did he regret his choice to join the army, and he was willing to die for the country.
But he still has regrets in his 18 years of life, that is, he has never been in love. At the moment when death was approaching, he weakly said to Zhang Ru: "Sister, I heard that life without love is incomplete, can you hold me?" ”
Zhang Ru nodded vigorously, her tears had blurred her eyes, and then she leaned over and hugged Zhao Weijun tightly, leaving a light kiss on his forehead and the corners of his lips.
This scene happened to be seen by Wang Hong, a war photographer who passed by, and she quickly pressed the shutter button, so there was the photo "Dead Kiss" that touched countless Chinese people.
After this kiss, Zhao Weijun's life was forever fixed at the age of 18, a young warrior who fulfilled his promise to defend his family and country.
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It wasn't until the end of the war that the photo of "Dead Kiss" was released, and when people knew the story and hero behind it, they all shed tears, and at the same time, people were full of curiosity about Zhang Ru, where did she come from? Where did it go?
Different from Zhao Weijun, Zhang Ru was born in a military family, her grandfather is a Red Army, has made great military achievements, her parents are also the pillars of the country, affected by the family environment, Zhang Ru is also a girl full of justice and determined to become a person who needs the motherland.
When she was in college, Zhang Ru studied medicine, and after graduation, she chose to go to the army as a medical worker, and came to the front line of Laoshan, and truly saw the cruelty and ruthlessness of war.
On the battlefield, Zhang Ru was not afraid, she saved one warrior after another with her professionalism, and every time she saw the young warriors injured, she was very distressed and did her best to rescue them.
However, unfortunately, they did not save Zhao Weijun's life, Zhang Ru witnessed Zhao Weijun's pain and death, and she could not forget the young face for many years after that.
Zhang Ru stayed on the battlefield for 9 years, and it was not until after the war in 1993 that she returned to her hometown. But after many years of military career, Zhang Ru did not want to live so inactively, and the scenes on the old mountain always lingered in her heart.
Years later, she still can't forget the days of fighting side by side with her comrades-in-arms, and she can't forget the sacrificial Zhao Weijun, and she decided to do something.
So, Zhang Ru had an idea, she was going to worship the heroes who sacrificed on the front line of the old mountain, and to see their families for them.
In the end, this wish was realized in 2011, when Zhang Ru and his former comrades formed a team full of "awe and love", and they planned to spend several years to worship their fallen comrades.
After that, Zhang Ru and his comrades-in-arms got the information of the sacrificed comrades-in-arms through the organization, and they walked one province at a time, one city after another, and although the road was arduous, they chose to persevere to the end.
In front of the martyrs' monument of their comrades-in-arms, they sent a bouquet of flowers, poured a glass of fine wine, and performed a solemn military salute to them, looking at the cold tombstone, thinking of the comrades-in-arms who once exuded blood, Zhang Ru had nostalgia and sadness in her heart.....
Among all the comrades-in-arms who worshiped, there was Zhao Weijun. After Zhao Weijun's sacrifice, he was awarded the first class merit by the state and buried in the martyrs' cemetery in Yuzhong County, Lanzhou City.
On that day, Zhang Ru followed Zhao Weijun's family and came to his tombstone to worship. At this time, Zhang Ru was no longer young, but Zhao Weijun's life was forever fixed at the 18-year-old who was boiling with blood.
Although more than twenty years have passed, when she saw the photo of Zhao Weijun on the tombstone, Zhang Ru still couldn't help but shed tears.
What a young life, there were originally many possibilities, but for the safety of the country, he only stayed in the human world for eighteen years, especially thinking of Zhao Weijun's regret that he had not been in love before he died, Zhang Ru's heart was painful.
She and them only walked hand in hand, but left a lifetime of thoughts, especially the hugs and kisses she gave to Zhao Weijun, which let us see what is the great love of the world.
This kind of love, regardless of male and female, has nothing to do with blood, is the "love between comrades-in-arms" who have experienced the test of life and death together, this kind of love is bright and clear, touching the world, and will never be overwhelmed by the years.
Although Zhao Weijun sacrificed, his spirit is immortal and will live forever, and zhang Ru, who is still alive, also fulfilled his silent promise to his comrades-in-arms with actions, comforted them in the spirit of heaven with actions, and helped them visit their relatives who "never said goodbye" with actions.
Today's Zhang Ru is over fifty years old, but she is looking for sacrificed comrades-in-arms and visiting their families for them, and still has not stopped, the comrades-in-arms are gone, but she wants to complete her last wishes for them, which is a responsibility, a mission, and a kind of commitment and love among comrades-in-arms.
Where there are good years, it is only someone who carries the weight for us to move forward, in order to let the people of our country live in the world of peace, the loveliest and greatest soldiers, lay down their lives to protect, they are the people we should be most grateful for.
Although I don't know who you are, I know who you are for, full of blood, youthful and regretless, forgetting to wear the end of the world and not knowing when your comrades will return?
With this article, I would like to pay tribute to the soldiers who sacrificed on the battlefield of Laoshan and Ms. Zhang Ru, who conveyed great love to the world!!!
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