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The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

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After the release of the movie "Fanghua", how many viewers shed tears of emotion, and how many veterans' deep memories were touched. In fact, behind "Fanghua", there are also many real historical character archetypes, which make people moved.

During the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam, there was a small soldier who was only 18 years old, unfortunately, his legs were injured by mines planted by the enemy, his name was Zhao Weijun.

Although the health center treated his wound in a timely manner, in such a harsh environment, the wound was still infected. In the end, Zhao Weijun's life was temporarily saved, but he lost his legs forever.

After being amputated, Zhao Weijun's injuries worsened for a while, and after being in a comatose state for several days after the operation, he tried to open his eyes, which had been closed for a long time.

Perhaps realizing that the flame of his life would be extinguished, the first thing he did when he woke up was to say to the nurse Next to him, Zhang Ru: "Sister, in which direction is Lanzhou?" ”

Zhang Ru pointed to the northwest, and then aimed Zhao Weijun's stretcher in the western direction. Zhao Weijun smiled happily, and he whispered softly in the direction of his hometown: "Dad, Mom, I may not be able to go back, I didn't embarrass you...."

After saying that, he turned back to Zhang Ru and said, "Sister, I may not be able to do it, but I don't regret it, my only regret is that I have not been in love." I heard that life without love is not complete, sister, can I hug you? ”

Zhang Ru was stunned for a moment, and then he choked up and leaned over to take the little warrior in his arms and kissed him lightly on the cheek. Then the little warrior smiled and fell asleep in her arms forever.

And this kiss, which has also become the most touching scene, was photographed by the war photographer, that is, the tear-jerking "Dead Kiss".

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

Self-defense counterattack

On February 17, 1979, in the face of Vietnam's provocations against our borders. My country launched a self-defense counterattack against Viet Nam. After the brave killing of the enemy by the soldiers of our People's Liberation Army, we finally defeated Vietnam on March 16 and withdrew our troops in victory.

But who knows that after the defeat of Vietnam, it is still unwilling to do damage in the border area of our country. For the sake of the safety of the border people and to combat Vietnam's arrogant acts of aggression, our country had no choice but to send troops again and launch a counterattack against Vietnam.

From 1980 to 1989, the two countries fought on the Sino-Vietnamese border for a decade. The Battle of Laoshan and the Battle of Yinshan are two of the most famous battles, and the story we want to tell today occurred when the Battle of Laoshan was at its most intense.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

The male protagonist of "Dead Kiss" is called Zhao Weijun, born in 1968 in Lujiagou Village, Yuzhong County, Gansu Province. Because his family was relatively poor, Zhao Weijun had to drop out of school to help with farm work at home after reading for a few years.

When doing farm work, Zhao Weijun often listened to his grandfather tell the story of the People's Liberation Army, which made him full of yearning for the PLA troops since he was a child, and often fantasized that when he grew up, he would also become a brave PLA soldier.

Occasionally, he would hear about the counterattack against Vietnam, and whenever he heard it, he felt the same way, as if he were the people on the frontier who were oppressed by Vietnam, and he was angry, and he really wanted to go to the battlefield to fight with the enemy himself.

In 1985, with the support of his family, Zhao Weijun, who had always wanted to join the army, enlisted in the army. It didn't take long for him to fulfill his wish: he was really on the battlefield of the counterattack against Vietnam.

On the battlefield, Zhao Weijun was not afraid of danger, performed very bravely on the front line, and soon became the deputy squad leader of the 5th Company of the 421st Regiment of the 141st Division of the People's Liberation Army.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

Battle of Lao Shan

Lao Shan, at an altitude of 1442 meters, is an ordinary riding line point on the border between China and Vietnam.

After the military confrontation focusing on The Farka Mountains, the Koulin Mountains, and the Ziyin Mountains was eliminated, the Chinese and Vietnamese sides gradually shrank their defenses. Since March 5, 1984, after a large-scale surgical operation, the focus has been on Laoshan and stabilized in this specific area of Laoshan, and the Chinese and Vietnamese sides have launched a fierce battle for the Laoshan Theater.

It was during this period that Zhao Weijun came to Laoshan with the troops.

Although there were no large-scale military operations at that time, local tensions were not eliminated. Therefore, when Zhao Weijun reached Laoshan, he was both frightened and curious.

Except for the occasional explosion of cold guns and mines, like firecrackers in the New Year, bringing a little bit of excitement, the whole old mountain seems particularly deserted.

After Zhao Weijun arrived at Laoshan, they were doing temporary training almost every day. Until April 25, I received an order from my superiors to prepare to take the initiative to fight back against the Vietnamese army that had long encroached on China's territory, harassed our borders, and brutally killed our border people.

Zhao Weijun rubbed his hands, somewhat excited, pressed the bullets to the full, and wiped the gun again and again, lest he not make a sound when attacking the charge. After loosening the lid of the grenade, he also stuck the first aid kit with a white towel on his left arm.

Waiting for the opportunity to go to war.

After three days of fierce fighting, the Platon Finally won the victory.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

Treated in a field hospital

One day in July 1985, the Laoshan Theater ushered in a fierce large-scale battle. Vietnam mobilized a large number of troops from the south and launched a fierce attack on the Chinese army.

Zhao Weijun was not arranged to go to the front line, and he was very anxious to see more and more comrades die on the front line. Therefore, on July 24, Zhao Weijun took the initiative to ask miao to fight the vanguard and went to the front.

With the sound of the assembly horn, Zhao Weijun picked up the submachine gun and began to launch a fierce strafing at the enemy. Under the attack of Zhao Weijun and other fighters, the enemy gradually declined, and then they pursued the enemy with submachine guns.

But Zhao Weijun was running and suddenly stopped moving. Yes, he seemed to have stepped on a landmine.

Zhao Weijun understood that he was more fierce than ji, and his first reaction was to let his comrades stay away from him, and he shouted at his comrades: "Go fast, I stepped on a landmine!" ”

At first, he stood there motionless, but enemy shells continued to fall on his side. Zhao Weijun thought to himself, instead of being killed by the enemy's shells motionlessly, it would be better to fight by himself, and maybe he could still pick up a life.

Then he slowly moved the foot that did not step on the mine, and only stopped moving when he was sure that he could no longer move. Zhao Weijun silently counted "123" in his heart, and then he pounced on the grass next to him.

As soon as his feet left the ground, the bomb exploded with it. Only a "bang" was heard, and the dust from the mine explosion covered Zhao Weijun. His legs were also injured by the bomb, and the pain from his legs immediately hit his whole body, causing the green tendons on his face to burst out.

Zhao Weijun looked down at his injuries and was glad in his heart that he had only been injured in his legs instead of losing his life. Then he clenched his teeth and couldn't help himself from shouting.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

The military doctors and nurses of the field ambulance team also saw this scene, and they quickly ran to Zhao Weijun with first aid kits and stretchers. At this time, the blood on Zhao Weijun's legs had soaked the land around him, and the person had fallen into a coma, but the pain still made him twitch constantly.

When doctors and nurses helped Zhao Weijun with emergency treatment, a nurse named Zhang Ru took a piece of gauze and put it in Zhao Weijun's mouth to prevent him from biting his tongue.

Subsequently, Zhao Weijun was sent to the field hospital. After some rescue by the doctor, Zhao Weijun's legs were temporarily saved.

After waking up from the coma, Zhao Weijun first saw that his legs were still there, but the pain soon caused him to fall into a coma again. Yes, he didn't know how far his legs had been blown up, and the unbearable pain made him think his legs had been blown up.

After some time, Zhao Weijun's consciousness began to slowly awaken, but the pain also spread to his brain, making him grin in pain: "Fortunately, his legs are still there, and he can still go to the battlefield to kill the enemy in the future." ”

Just at this time, nurse Zhang Ru came to check on his physical condition, looked at Zhao Weijun who was still grinning in pain just now, and as soon as she saw herself, she immediately pretended to be "I don't hurt at all", and she couldn't help but smile at him.

Zhang Ru took his temperature and blood pressure, and she was relieved to see that everything was normal. Then she confessed, "Little warrior, if you have any discomfort, you must tell me as soon as possible." ”

Since then, zhang Ru has been taking good care of Zhao Weijun, and the two people have slowly established a deep friendship. Slowly, Zhao Weijun also knew Zhang Ru's previous past.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

Zhang Ru, born in 1965 in Guo Village, Jiangdu, Jiangsu Province, her grandfather is a veteran, her parents are aviation research and research technicians. Living in such a family environment since childhood, Zhang Ru is also deeply affected and has a heart to serve the motherland.

In 1983, Zhang Ru enlisted in the army and became a hygienist. Later, she came to Laoshan with the troops and risked her life with her comrades to save the wounded.

As she went back and forth across the battlefield to rescue the wounded, she was never frightened as bullets and bombs flew by her side. She can always deal with emergencies quickly and save many injured warriors, including the first-class combat hero Xu Liang, the "King of Mine Clearance" Luo Muyuan and other heroes.

After understanding Zhang Ru's story, Zhao Weijun couldn't help but have a heartfelt admiration for the woman in front of him.

Zhang Ru had thought that this strong little warrior could even resist the power of the mines, and naturally would survive this difficult moment. However, because the conditions of the field hospital at that time were very simple and the surrounding environment was also very bad, Zhao Weijun's wounds were soon infected with Pseudomonas aeruginosa, which could be life-threatening at any time.

Not long after, Zhao Weijun began to have a high fever again, and occasionally fell into a coma.

Later, Zhang Ru took advantage of Zhao Weijun's wakefulness to tell him in detail about his physical condition and told him: "Now only amputation is possible to save your life." ”

After listening, Zhao Weijun fell silent, if he lost his legs, then he would have to leave here forever, he was reluctant to his comrades-in-arms, and he could no longer charge for the country.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

After a while, Zhao Weijun squeezed out a smile that was more ugly than crying, and said, "Then amputate your leg!" ”

Zhang Ru nodded slowly. She had always admired the strong little warrior in front of her. Although he was seriously injured, he grinned in pain without shouting a word of pain, and never caused her any trouble. And he is only 18 years old now, so young that he has lost his legs forever, and his life will be so long in the future, how should he face it?

Zhang Ruqiang suppressed tears, and also smiled and said to Zhao Weijun: "The doctor will soon help you arrange surgery, and you will be fine!" ”

Zhao Weijun's amputation was carried out quickly, but at that time he still had a high fever and was unconscious, and the doctors all sweated for Zhao Weijun, hoping that he could survive this pass.

After the operation, Zhang Ru has been taking care of Zhao Weijun closely. Looking at Zhao Weijun, who has been unconscious, Zhang Ru has shed tears several times, and she has always been strong, and she can't help but pray to the heavens, hoping that Zhao Weijun can survive this pass.

But the miracle did not appear, and in the days after Zhao Weijun's operation, the situation has been deteriorating and he has been in a coma. The situation in the field hospital at that time could not meet the therapeutic materials and conditions needed by Zhao Weijun.

After the superiors of the unit knew about it, they sent helicopters to prepare to take Zhao Weijun back to the hospital in good condition in the rear for treatment.

After waiting for two days, the field hospital rescue team finally waited for the rescue helicopter. But the terrain of Laoshan is very complicated, there is no place to land, and the helicopter lingers around Laoshan for three or four hours without coming down.

Zhang Ru and his comrades-in-arms could only wait bitterly on a stretcher, hoping that a miracle would happen.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

Dead Kiss

But the miracle did not occur.

At noon, Zhao Weijun, who had been unconscious for several days, finally slowly opened his closed eyes. He seemed to sense something, and he looked at Zhang Ru, who had been with him, and said, "Sister, in that direction is Lanzhou?" ”

Zhang Ru looked at the weak Zhao Weijun, tears couldn't help but flow down, how could she not understand what was going on in his heart?

She wiped her tears away from her face while pointing in the direction of Lanzhou. Then, together with his comrades-in-arms, he aimed Zhao Weijun's stretcher in the direction of the northwest, which was the direction of Zhao Weijun's homecoming!

Zhao Weijun looked quietly to the northwest, and he remembered his parents and grandfather. When they left home to join the army, they were all proud of themselves, and their mother told herself that she hoped she would have time to go home and see them. Unfortunately, I could no longer go home to visit them, I could no longer eat the food cooked by my mother, and I could no longer hear the stories told by my grandfather.

Zhao Weijun did not cry, he smiled in the direction of home, and said weakly: "Dad, Mom, I may not be able to go back, I did not embarrass you." ”

Zhang Ru listened to Zhao Weijun's words, and the tears that could have been controlled burst out of the embankment in an instant. After this period of time together, she has already regarded this 18-year-old little warrior as her younger brother, his strength and cheerfulness have deeply touched her, and she hopes that Zhao Weijun can live!

After saying the words left for his parents, Zhao Weijun turned his head with difficulty, looked at Zhang Ru, who had already cried into tears, and said softly:

"Sister, I may not be able to do it, but I don't regret it. My only regret is that I have not been in love, I heard that life without love is not complete, sister, can I hug you? ”

Zhang Ru didn't think anything of it, so he leaned over and took Zhao Weijun in his arms, choking up several times and unable to speak. She wanted Zhao Weijun to persevere, as long as the helicopter found a place to land, maybe things would turn around.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

After feeling Zhang Ru's warm embrace, Zhao Weijun felt very happy. Zhang Ru was the person who gave him the most warmth during his time in the field hospital, just like his own sister.

In this way, Zhao Weijun slowly closed his eyes in Zhang Ru's warm embrace. At that moment, there was no pain on his face, just a happy smile.

After Zhang Ru felt Zhao Weijun's breath gradually disappear, she hugged Zhao Weijun and collapsed and cried: "You get up, get up, don't you mean you want to go home?" How do you go home when you fall asleep? Hurry up. ”

However, no matter how he shouted at Zhao Weijun, he did not react. Yes, his life has forever stopped at the age of 18.

Zhang Ru cried for a long time, until his comrades-in-arms reminded him, and then slowly calmed down, but the tears still dripped on Zhao Weijun's face. Subsequently, Zhang Ru hugged Zhao Weijun and left a deep kiss on his face.

Although Zhao Weijun was sacrificed, this moving story has been passed down.

Wang Hong, a photography officer who interviewed in the field, was deeply moved after hearing this story. Wang Hong's professionalism and strong sense of responsibility told him that this touching story should be recorded, and he wanted to recreate the scene of that year in a posing way. Wang Hong hopes that through photos, people can tell people the cruelty of war, war is merciless, life is fragile, and only comradeship is priceless.

After that, Wang Hong found Zhang Ru and discussed his ideas with her. Wang Hong originally thought that Zhang Ru would refuse her request, and even prepared a lot of words in advance to persuade her, but unexpectedly, Zhang Ru directly agreed to her request.

In fact, Zhang Ru has always remembered the picture of the moment when Zhao Weijun sacrificed in his arms, and only by leaving the memory of that moment is the best remembrance of the martyrs.

Therefore, Zhang Ru followed Wang Hong on the front line of Laoshan mountain and reproduced the scene at that time.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

When shooting, Zhang Ru always thinks of Zhao Weijun, and she also tears several times for this. And her camaraderie has also deeply touched everyone around her.

After the shooting, Zhang Ru couldn't control her tears, and she hid in a corner alone and cried, she hoped that Zhao Weijun was still alive at this moment.

Later, this photo was named "Dead Kiss", and Wang Hong also participated in this "Dead Kiss" in the photography national exhibition of that year.

Goodbye old comrades-in-arms

After the two rounds of mountain battles, Zhang Ru did not continue to stay in the army, but returned to his original life. After retiring from the military, she transferred to Northwestern Polytechnical University to work responsible for the teaching and management of students.

The memory of Lao Shan has always hovered in her heart, and Zhao Weijun's figure will also appear in her memories, and every time she thinks of it, she will have tears.

Zhang Ru also did not forget the other martyrs who sacrificed their lives. In 2011, Zhang Ru and his comrades-in-arms launched a "mission journey" to "pay tribute to the heroic souls of martyrs and care for the relatives of martyrs". She and her comrades-in-arms spent five years overcoming many difficulties, walking thousands of kilometers, visiting 32 counties and municipalities in 9 provinces, and visiting and comforting the relatives of 43 martyrs.

Zhang Ru and his comrades-in-arms sent some condolences to the families of the martyrs, and the families of the martyrs were very grateful to them, because they sent not only some condolences, but also the friendship and remembrance of the comrades-in-arms.

The 18-year-old warrior did not taste love, and before he died, he made a request to the nurse: Can I hold you?

In 2015, 29 years after Zhao Weijun's sacrifice, Zhang Ru and comrades-in-arms from all over the country came to the martyrs' cemetery where their comrades were buried to pay tribute to their comrades who died.

Zhao Weijun was also buried in the Martyrs' Cemetery, and Zhang Ru came to Zhao Weijun's tombstone with a heavy heart and flowers and wine. She carefully placed flowers and offerings in front of Zhao Weijun's tomb, and then sprinkled a glass of wine in front of his tomb.

She gently rubbed Zhao Weijun's tombstone and said, "My sister has come to see you, I don't know if you remember me?" ”

As he spoke, Zhang Ru shed tears sadly, not knowing whether Zhao Weijun felt his arms and heartbeat before he sacrificed. If Zhao Weijun was still alive, they would definitely be sitting in the sunset, drinking tea together and talking about their past, rather than she talking to this cold tombstone. But there is no if...

War is merciless, but camaraderie is irreplaceable. Zhang Ru's kiss was full of reluctance and deep friendship for his comrades-in-arms, not mixed with any impurities, which made all of us moved.

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