After more than 7 years, Huang Yi and Zhao Wei are two "little swallows" in the same frame.
Yes, I'm talking about a scene from Actors Please Take Place.
Talking about Huang Yi, many people have a deep impression.
"Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang", "Huan Zhu Ge ge", "All the way with you" ...
These wonderful film and television dramas or movies have once been our memories.
Over the years, Huang Yi has faded out of our sight because of various negative news.
And Zhao Wei, who is similar to her age, not only became a director, but also dabbled in investment and made a lot of money.
This time, Huang Yi returned to the line of sight in "Actors Please Take Place", allowing us to see a satirical picture:
Zhao Wei became a mentor, but Huang Yi was a "newcomer" and wanted to be rated by the other party.
Even Guo Jingming, who made four PPT films, also pointed fingers at her acting skills.
Host Dapeng asked her, what is it like to stand on this stage?
Huang Yi said that he participated in the program and also asked Zhao Wei's consent.
Because there is a lot of pressure in itself, and it also carries all kinds of baggage.
For example, I have also been red before, how to face Zhao Wei's identity and so on.
Dapeng asked again, what is the reason for deciding to participate in the show?
She said with tears in her eyes:
I haven't made a scene for a long time, and I need a stage to be seen again by the director and the audience.
At the same time, she also wants to tell everyone that she has completed those "dangerous roads".
In the future, I hope to walk in the sun and be seen by more people.
Huang Yi's words are heart-wrenching, indeed, as a middle-aged female artist, she is already facing many challenges.
What's more, it is an actress who has disappeared in the show business circle for more than 7 years because of negative news.
It's really hard to get back in the public eye and get the approval of the audience and the director...
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Speaking of Huang Yi's encounter, I have to mention her original family.
Huang Yi was born in 1977 in a lane in Shanghai.
Since she was a child, she has lived with her grandparents, and her parents have been working in Beijing for many years.
She once jokingly said that she was a left-behind child of that era.
Therefore, her grandparents played a very important role in her growing up.
In life, Grandpa liked to listen to radio, symphonies, and newscasts.
Grandma is a well-paid Shanghai woman who likes to dress up and cook food.
It is said that under the influence of such two intellectuals, she should be very well-behaved.
But the reality is that she is always skinny and often gives her grandparents a headache.
After all, it is the lack of parental love, and Huang Yi, who was a child, always lived in loneliness.
Every day, in order to save electricity, you can only sit under a 25-watt table lamp to practice.
Looking back, she saw not only the darkness, but also the desire for family.
The lights of thousands of homes, the bustle of the neighborhood, and the strong smell of rice are all scenes of her envy.
On their birthdays, the three grandchildren only lit a candle and washed and slept.
She secretly made a wish:
Be sure to go out and break out of the world as soon as possible, because there is no feeling of home here.
In her impression, she and her mother are not very close.
In the second grade of elementary school, her mother bought balloons and took her to the park to play.
She took many pictures of her mother, but she didn't know that her mother had come back to divorce her father.
In her heart, her father is a particularly handsome idol.
Good sports, is the great talent of Xi'an Jiaotong University in the engineering department, but also the pride of grandparents.
However, his father's strictness was almost mean, which made Huang Yi very disgusted.
As long as father and daughter are together, there must be quarrels.
As soon as Huang Yi was not happy, she slammed the door and left, while her father would beat her up.
As the grandparents got older, they gradually struggled to take care of their granddaughters.
Therefore, they persuaded Huang Yi to go to Beijing to live with his father.
When I arrived in Beijing, I ate, went to school, teachers, Mandarin... All made Huang Yi uncomfortable.
She blamed this discomfort on her grandparents.
Once, her final exam results were sent down, and 6 subjects failed.
She was too late to go home after school, and finally called home, and heard that her father was crying and weeping for her...
During that holiday, her father accompanied her every day to review her homework and cook for her, nine to nine in the morning.
After more than 20 days of getting along, she felt the happiness of the time when father and daughter were alone.
Back at school, she passed the make-up exam, but because of her academic status, she returned to Shanghai to attend high school.
During her studies, a chance encounter made her ordinary life change dramatically...
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One day, when Huang Yi was shopping with her friends, a fierce-looking man suddenly stared at her.
Frightened, she grabbed her friend's hand and walked away quickly.
Who knew the man and the man next to them followed them.
Huang Yi walked faster and faster, until he ran to a dead end, and then he had to turn around and face the man.
Only to see the man pull out a business card and tell her:
I am a teacher at the Shanghai Theater Academy, there is an advertisement that wants to find you to shoot, are you interested?
Huang Yi was suddenly relieved and agreed.
Since then, she has worked as an advertising model and embarked on the path of an actress.
In 2000, she played the playful and sweet Li Yuhu in "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang".
Her boyfriend at the time, Nie Yuan, played the gentle and elegant Third Prince of Qi Fu in the play.
The two flirted inside and outside the play, allowing the audience to eat a wave of dog food.
In 2003, filming of "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3" began, but the original team could not get together except for Zhou Jie.
When Qiong Yao was worried, Huang Yi proposed to play Xiao Yanzi.
As soon as she made her decision, she was opposed by many people.
"Zhu Yu is in front, can you guarantee that you can play Zhao Wei?"
Even his boyfriend Nie Yuan opposed him, but Huang Yi did not listen.
She didn't think about how to win over Zhao Wei, just to fight for a chance to express herself.
Sure enough, after the broadcast of "Huan Zhu 3", there was a lot of scolding on the Internet.
"As long as you still play Xiaoyanzi, I look like Xiaoyanzi and her grandmother."
Huang Yi was young and vigorous, but he was angry, and he also scolded back on the Internet:
"Little Swallow Grandma, you're still Grandpa!"
Although there are many people who don't like her, they can't stop Huang Yi's popularity from soaring.
After the red, she had not slept enough in a year, and almost twenty or thirty hours took turns.
Recording records, shooting magazines, commercial performances, and advertisements, she couldn't stop.
Thinking back to that time, she said:
Heaven is very fair, what you gain, you will lose something.
When "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang" was a hit, her grandfather died;
When "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3" was successful, her grandmother died.
The death of two important relatives in her life caused her a great blow.
She was scared and helpless, unable to be alone, afraid to sleep alone.
Even if the cause has made great achievements, it cannot stop the trepidation and vulnerability in the heart.
She was getting less and less happy, more and more eager to have a home.
But sometimes what you want, reality will not give you anything...
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Huang Yi once ridiculed himself in an interview:
Unlike other actresses, she faces 30+, 40+.
She is faced with marriage +.
Counting down, she had two failed marriages.
The first paragraph is to marry for the sake of marriage.
Her first husband was named Jiang Kai.
The two met at a charity dinner and got married after only 41 days together.
Someone scolded her, are you crazy?
But she was carried away by love:
Marriage is fast, not necessarily not far; marriage is slow, not necessarily long.
But after getting married, the two had all kinds of problems in their married life.
Personalities are different, life patterns are different, there is no common cognition...
At the beginning, in order to be responsible for the marriage, Huang Yi would try to adapt.
But with the difference of values, the contradiction between the two is getting bigger and bigger.
The last straw that crushed their married life,
It was the husband who did not inform them, so he secretly disclosed their wedding photos...
Thinking about it, the two quickly divorced.
Suddenly, all kinds of negative news swept in, and Huang Yi's life fell to the bottom.
At that time, Huang Yi participated in Er Dongsheng's "All the Way with You".
She plays a pregnant woman who has lost her husband and faces a life and death in the play.
The first scene is when the husband is hit and killed by a car.
After the director shouted the card, the audience was silent, and only Huang Yi's hoarse crying echoed.
The atmosphere was very depressing.
Desperately trying to catch something, she quickly entered the second marriage.
During that time, Huang Yi was found to have a pituitary tumor in his brain.
The doctor says that your prolactin is high and must be controlled with medication.
The side effect of medication is that it is difficult to have children.
But what makes her happy is that not long after falling in love with Huang Yiqing, she accidentally became pregnant.
So, the two were married.
When she made this move, she was opposed by everyone:
You are so successful now, there are directors looking for you, there are films waiting for you,
You want to get married again, isn't that self-destructive?
But Huang Yi couldn't listen to it and still insisted on going his own way.
In 2013, shortly after Huang Yi gave birth to her daughter, the couple's marriage was once again in crisis.
Huang Yiqing has successively exposed on the Internet that Huang Yi has cheated on a rich man in marriage and is shameless.
Huang Yi responded immediately, just talking about work, and did not cheat.
Subsequently, he posted evidence of his domestic violence by Huang Yiqing and the man's letter of repentance.
Who knows, her ex-husband Jiang Kai also kicked in the foot, following Huang Yiqing to frame her:
The biggest regret in life is to meet you, the happiest thing in life is to flash away, and the obscene cat can never forget to steal.
Huang Yi was suddenly pushed to the cusp of the storm, and she understood what it meant to be fearful.
After the divorce, the two staged one "good play" after another for the custody of their daughters.
Huang Yi wanted to resist, but he always faced various threats.
She cares about the identity of the artist, cares about the aura of the actor, cares about her feathers.
But the more this happens, the more I feel powerless and involuntary.
Until later, Huang Yi won the lawsuit and finally got the custody of his daughter.
Huang Yiqing was sentenced to 15 years in prison for drug use and drug trafficking, which ended the marriage farce.
What she couldn't imagine was how many difficulties she would face next...
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Because of all kinds of negative news, Huang Yi's career plummeted.
The film contract plummeted, the endorsement canceled, the debt was heavy, and life overwhelmed her.
Everyone is singing the downs: a good hand is broken.
Huang Yi also fell into a panic, hiding at home all day, not daring to watch any news.
Fortunately, with the company of her daughter, she seemed to grasp the straw of life.
However, in the whirlpool of public opinion, she is wrapped in negative energy.
Not only can not give the daughter a good growth environment, but also because of the lack of love when she was young, I don't know how to be a mother.
Once when she came home, she saw her daughter lying on the ground, rolling and screaming.
Suddenly, she seemed to see herself living in the old bungalow.
As a child, she would scream when she was unhappy, and she didn't understand why.
Now she knew that she just wanted to get the attention of adults.
The daughter is not unruly, just needs love, just does not know how to express dissatisfaction.
She was determined not to let her daughter repeat her mistakes.
So, she began to accompany her daughter wholeheartedly and share her joys and sorrows with her.
Chat with her, make her fall in love with learning, learn to make friends...
Slowly, the daughter talked more, became insensitive, and became decent, cheerful and happy.
While loving her daughter, Huang Yi is also being healed by her daughter.
Before, she had no idea what home meant, and she had never experienced the way a whole family lived.
She hated her parents and kicked her around like a ball when she was a child.
When you grow up, you don't know what marriage is, what love is, and you don't know how to get out of a failed marriage.
Now, Huang Yi, who has a daughter, also wants to be redeemed in the original family.
So she decided to repair the relationship with her parents.
She wrote a letter to her father, which roughly meant:
Dad, I love you, but every time I quarrel, I always slam the door and go away.
But everything you've said is burned in my heart.
I have been trying to prove it to you, but I have never received your affirmation.
I lack love and long for love.
But I understand today that you love me, just like me, and don't know how to express it.
Both are fathers and mothers for the first time, and I don't want my own hurts and scars to be replicated in the next generation.
I want to have the power to change all that...
Dad was cool and didn't reply after reading the letter.
But Huang Yi saw a little change in him.
He became gentler and knew how to express love:
Don't work so hard, I'll save you the old book;
You will always be the mother of your child, don't be it...
Although the expression is very blunt, it is useful to Huang Yi.
At the same time, Huang Yi also strives to repair the relationship with his mother.
She cares about her mother, talks to her mother, gets along...
Finally, in her original family, she found the true meaning of life - love.
She understands that when you pay without regard to returns, you have the ability to love and realize your own value.
As an actress, she used to be very successful;
As a human wife, her marriage was a failure;
But after starting over, she looked down on all this.
Perhaps it is this experience that makes her learn to accept herself and learn to reconcile with herself.
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Back to the beginning, what is the biggest dilemma that Huang Yi is facing?
Some people say that she gave up her acting career and fell into two failed marriages.
Indeed, Huang Yi was once too insecure and was injured by her two ex-husbands.
However, as she herself said:
Where you have problems, it must be your weakest point.
This is the lesson god has given you, you go through it, cross it, get the harvest and you will succeed.
Huang Yi, whose aura was taken away, although he was in the cruel Vanity Fair, he could clearly see the people and things around him.
Friends who have left her, false feelings, flattery between people...
And the most important thing has just emerged.
She no longer lives for affection and is no longer afraid of loneliness.
She no longer panicked in her heart, believing that the other side of bad things is actually good things.
Maybe she is no longer noticed, the film is getting less and less, and even she is about to turn 50 in the blink of an eye.
But Huang Yi is particularly calm, because she always believes:
The strength is there, not afraid that you can't send out the light!
I appreciate what she said:
The Huang Yi you see, the good and the bad, are not me, they are all the Huang Yi of the past.
We can't influence what deck of cards we can get in our lives, after all, our lives are not a deck of cards.
But even if we experience a period of darkness, we must still believe in the light of the next moment.
Huang Yi's dilemma may also be your and my dilemma.
May we go through thousands of sails and still have the courage to be the best of ourselves!
Resources:
1. "Horn" Huang Yi
2. "Starry Sky Speech" Huang Yi
3. "Qi Meow Dialogue" Huang Yi
4. "Ke Fan Listens" Huang Yi
5. "Very Quiet Distance" Huang Yi