The sun rises in the east and the rains in the west, and the road is clear and sunny.
In the feudal era, women had no status to speak of, and were even once considered "appendages" of men. Before getting married, you can only accept the teachings from your mother and elders, as long as you learn things to prevent embroidery; after marriage, everything must listen to the words of your in-laws and obey the "three from four virtues", otherwise you will be suspended and become the "joke" in the mouths of the neighbors.
In the Republic of China period, Western ideas and culture continued to pour in, and this situation was also alleviated. Many women have also stood up to resist this oppression, such as Lin Huiyin, Yang Dai, Zhang Ailing, etc., becoming the "advanced women" of the times. In their bones, they are born with the consciousness of "unwilling to settle", and everything must prove that they are the masters of fate.
In addition to these people, there is also a "talented woman" named Su Xuelin. What happened to her was the fate of everyone, but she herself became a "victim". Under the influence of the general environment, she was forced to accept a marriage that she did not like. But for the next 36 years, she never slept with or had children, and a marriage that survived in name only came true when she left.
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You all have more or less knowledge of the history of the Republic of China period, and if you have to describe it as a pin shijun, I think it is most appropriate to "wave and cloud". Although Western thought and culture continue to pour in, the idea of male superiority and female inferiority for thousands of years has long been deeply planted under every capillary of people. Many families still have these elders, and Su Xuelin's family is exactly the case.
She was the only woman in the family and had a relatively wealthy family, but her grandmother did not give her any opportunity to receive an education. Later, under the pleading of his grandfather, Su Xuelin had the opportunity to follow his brother to private school, but this beauty did not last long. She was forced to terminate her studies because of the family's male advancement, but this did not affect her strong desire to study.
If you don't go to school yourself, what's the point? She decided to force her to die and asked her grandmother to provide her with the opportunity to receive an education. With the help of her uncle, she was sent to an Anqing New Style Girls' School to study. Su Xuelin cherished the hard-won opportunity to be taught, and eventually she got the opportunity to study abroad and became the "best" among a generation of women.
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The husband her parents chose for her was named Zhang Baoling, who was also an intellectual at that time. In the eyes of most people, this may be a naturally destined pair, but they do not like each other, directly doomed to the tragic end of this marriage. Su Xuelin is engaged in literary creation, Zhang Baoling is engaged in physics research, and they do not disturb each other. Both sides have made remarkable achievements in their respective fields.
In order to make a living, Su Xuelin came to Soochow University as a professor and was loved by many students; although Zhang Baoling's education was not shallow, he did not like to teach and educate people, and had a strong interest in hands-on work, and had been engaged in labor in a factory. As they grew older, the two parted ways, but they still maintained the name of husband and wife, and they did not lift until their death.
In April 1999, 102-year-old Su Xuelin suddenly fell seriously ill, and many media also interviewed him. Every time when talking about "views on marriage", Su Xuelin always has a sentence: "I have literature, why should I get married", simple eight words, can not help but make people feel sad and regretful, but from these few words we can also see his open-minded attitude towards life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="26" > Pin Shijun said</h1>
In Pin Shijun's view, Su Xuelin's life was full of misfortune, but it looked very exciting. At the age of 102, although he failed to experience the bittersweet and bittersweet of love, he opened up his own spiritual world on the road of literature. As bystanders, we can't evaluate, let alone assert whether she and Zhang Baoling have a favorite existence, because they have achieved each other.
There are not a few people in life whose love is frustrated, a person who is bound by pedantic feudal morality is like this, and what are you sad about those who enjoy good materials? From a fundamental point of view, love is just a "icing on the cake" thing to exist, who can not live without whom? Behind the seeming helplessness and sadness, it is actually a manifestation of an open-minded attitude towards life.
I am Pin Shijun, thank you for reading.