There are countless forks in life, and at the intersection of differences, most of them are tempted. We are often blinded by the strangeness of matter.
Need to think about the dark night, think about our innate ideals, think about the steps we are going to take, near or far from our ultimate goal?
The eyes are of course useful. But sometimes with our eyes closed, we can better listen to the answer of the heart.
Either go to the abyss together, or turn the tide together.
You must have a person talking to the sun, moon, and stars, talking with the rivers, lakes, and seas, shaking hands with every tree, and grinding with every grass ear, and you will have an epiphany about the greatness of the universe, the microcosm of life, the preciousness of time, and the proximity of death.
Yes, I'm important. Each of us should have the courage to say that. Our status may be humble, our identity may be small, but that does not mean that we are unimportant.
Important is not synonymous with greatness, it is the promise of life of the heart.
Even a piece of bitter bile soaked huanglian, chewed for a long time, will make its bitterness slowly fade.
Waiting for others to love you, it is better to try to love yourself.
If you are angry, you cry; if you grieve, you cry; if you love, you express; if you like, you pursue. Don't be self-deprecating, don't feel self-pity, go out and be brave to be yourself.
In our lifetime, we always have to see many people who are much better than ourselves. If you always see people who are worse than you, then you have to reflect on whether your life state is constantly sinking.
If in the process of moving forward, you often encounter people who make you look back, then congratulations, you are constantly improving.
How to get through the low tide of life?
Wait quietly, sleep well, exercise, and use good physique at all times;
Talk with close friends, basically do not complain, mainly to recall happy times;
Read more books, read some biographies, increase knowledge, and incidentally see how others survived when they were unlucky;
Take the opportunity to do housework and finish all the work that you are usually busy with.
Author: Single-mindedly ask zen
Source: People's Daily client