People's expressions and moods during the New Year are different. Nostalgia is a kind of gaze. Receiving a gift is a kind of joy and emotion, and perhaps long wangshu. Lessons learned are one, solemn and thoughtful, perhaps mixed with grievances. It is another kind of heart-washing determination to start all over again, beating the chest and gritting its teeth... In fact, this is all the added value of the year, and has nothing to do with the year. There is only one simplest meaning of the year - for everyone, to grow up again. This one, whether you like it or not, will arbitrarily let you accept it.
Growing up is a word that seems to be appropriate for children. You say "grow up" to a little kid, that's a compliment. When you say "grow up" to an old woman, you are teasing. I don't know from what age, people no longer say grow up, instead of using an upgraded version of it: "old". I'm blindly estimating that this watershed is between the ages of 20 and 30. You say to a 40-year-old. Ha! You're growing up again. Unless you're his grandfather, he's in a hurry with you.
No matter how you look at the year, the year always stands on the sidelines punctually and tenaciously, waiting to meet you. As long as you are alive, you will hurry to its front and prepare for the meeting. It is like an odometer on the highway, silently reminding us that you are getting closer and farther away from the place of departure, and closer and closer to the destination. Even if you don't know where your destination is, you're just wandering around. The year will not tolerate avoidance. Time track, not afraid of oil prices soaring, it has its own motivation. Years leave the pattern flying by, and what is crushed is your face and mentality.
When it comes to human development in ancient China, there are some arbitrary people who only have age. For example, "Forty is not confused". Can't get to "38" early? Or a little more ahead of time, simply "29"? In the past, people, "people to seventy years old", now the average life expectancy has increased, and the age of not being confused should also be advanced, right? What does the confusion come from? Experience? Suffering? Well-informed? According to this inference, it seems that it is not impossible to watch the six ears listen to the eight directions and think more about eating more chaff vegetables and overturning the river, treating a year as two years or even a few years, and running into confusion.
However, no. People's confusion, with the development and progress of society, has not decreased, but has become more and more. In the New Year, it is like turning forward from the last page of the book, and you will see a lot of mistakes and omissions, with a red cross.
Nian is actually a tailor, holding a ruler with 365 small grids, measuring our lives. Years that have passed, there will be no return. There are only two ways to get it back. One is in the photo, you see a copy of the year, the original has been ruthlessly destroyed. Another moment was in a dream, it was the illusion of the year, like a colorful koi, you could see its scales clearly, slippery and unable to catch it at all.
It is said that the feeling of time is inversely proportional to the age you have already enjoyed. This is difficult to say, but the meaning is very simple. That is to say, the same time for different people, the proportion of different feelings. For example, a toddler, from the age of 2 to 3, this year is only equivalent to 5% of the life that has passed, he feels long. If for an 81-year-old man, it is only one-hundredth of the length of his life, that is, 1.25%, is not it like a yawn? Therefore, the year is like an iron ring rolling downhill with a lost hand, spinning faster and faster, and it cannot be stopped. The objective law of the year, which is not shifted by man's wishes, makes people speechless.
The New Year should have a sense of ceremony. This sense of ritual used to focus on sweeping the house to worship the ancestors and how to eat. Now, although the house still has to be swept, because the double-layer glass sealing performance is good, coupled with the powerful function of the vacuum cleaner, and the continuous decoration every three to five, the clean feeling of the house has become a new one, almost becoming the norm, no longer belongs to the patent of the year. Ancestor worship is becoming more and more public. People no longer cling to the ancestors of each family, and every year they sacrifice the Yellow Emperor Yandi and Dayu, and the enthusiasm for remembrance and sacrifice is released collectively in advance.
So, all that was left was reunion and eating. Friends and relatives gathered around a place of red wine and green to push the cup and ask for a cup, and it became a parade of food and alcohol. Unfortunately, now the standard of living has improved, every meal eats good things, everyone's mantra is "every day is like the New Year", there are more foods, and if you don't pay attention, you will eat diabetes and "three highs". Before the New Year's Festival, the health care edition of the newspaper was like a great enemy, and it reminded everyone not to be drunk with liver and gallbladder and tired of the stomach... It seems to have become a fierce place. Nian was deprived of the pleasure and beauty of eating, and became a lean year. Restricted eating, people do not know what to use to highlight the year, the taste of the year is light, thin.
Reunion is always needed, eating requires moderation, and we want to create new rituals to commemorate this moment when we grew up together. Nian is actually a soft reminder that you have taken another step on the road of life and are closer to the end. If you compare the year to clothes, you have taken off your down jacket and unconsciously put on the green jacket of spring. If you are already in midsummer, and it is about to be a heavy autumn, please prepare your scythe. Some people may say, if I am about to enter the winter solstice of life, will not the water waiting for me drip into ice? Don't forget that there is snow in winter, and in the year of snow mega, you can sleep peacefully under the white wilderness and look forward to another reincarnation of life. No matter what day or season of life it is, the year is worth treating well. Growth will continue until the moment of darkness. Whether it is for 3 years old or 81 years old, the year is equal and auspicious, the difference is only our mood.
[Source: Cihuai College (ID: cihuaishuyuan), copyright belongs to the original author and original source.] 】
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